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I'm one of the few guys on this site, so if you have any question pretaining to guys or dating guys or something feel free to ask. I'm usually pretty good at telling what other people are thinking and why they act the way they do.
Gender: Male
Location: Cincinnati Ohio
Occupation: Student
Age: 17
AIM: Kipskywalk
Member Since: October 16, 2005
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how can I start lucid dreaming? (being able to know and be aware that your dreaming) it seems really interesting and i really wanna learn. websites etc.
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I used to be able to do this really well, but it's declined as I've gotten older. The way I used to do it was by making sure I was in a very shallow sleep. The deeper a sleep you're in, the less the chance you'll be able to remember/control the dreams you have. Once you begin having a dream, you must realize it's a dream. That's probably the hardest part. It takes a lot of tries. The best way I found to do it was by doing something you couldn't do in normal life (breathing under water, falling off a tall building, whatever is in you dream, just get creative!). One you've attained these two steps, you're pretty much set to go. Like I said before, it takes a lot of practice, and repetition is the best way accomplish it. Different things work for different people as well, so experiment.


ok, theres this boy i like and he knows i like him, and im pretty sure he likes me back, put its not definite. How can i ask him in a suddle way if he likes me? i have some ideas but theyre not very good....smartasses will be reported!
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Hey, I'm a guy so I can give a guy's point of view on this situation. First off, even though guys are traditionally supposed to make the first move, many are afraid to do so. No matter how much they like the girl, making a move means a chance to get rejected. Sometimes a girl can make it easier for the guy to make a move by letting him know she likes him, in a subtle way are you prefer, or more effectively in a more absolute way, but not so blatant a way that it might embarrass him. Maybe you should "accedentally" tell one of his friends you like him. His friends might give him a hard time for it though, so you'd prolly be better off having one of your good friends do it. If all else fails, just bring up dating one day in a conversation. Not dating pretaining to the two of you, just dating in general. Then say something along the lines of "I wonder how you and I would work out?" His reaction should be enough to give you a hint. Hope that helped, any other questions or for further details, let me know.


Hey, I'm pretty skinny (95 lbs), but I want to get abs. If I did 100 crunches a night, would that do it, and if it would, how long do you think it would take? Thank you!!! (link)
Well first it depends on your age. Kids around the age of 15 and up generally develope muscle much faster than younger kids. Second, everyone is different. Some workouts work for some people while others benefit different people more. If you don't get the results you're looking for just doing a set amount of crunches, you may want to try doing a timed workout, incorporating different types of abdominal exercises. Here's a webpage where you can find some: http://www.netfit.co.uk/abdominals-web-site.htm


I know this isn't the best of questions, but I was curious after talking to some people. I was walking around the neighborhood and some people were smoking ciggs, and black & milds. They were all about 16 or 17, so I was like "aren't you guys too young" But then a friend of mine told me that you can be 16 to smoke Black & Milds, and 16 to smoke ciggs, but you have to be 18 to buy them. Is that true? I live in NC so like if state laws are different, that may help, but I was just curious about it.

Also are black & milds just flavored ciggerettes (sp?) I used to think they were illegal, but after seeing lots of people smoking them in public I just kind of picked up that they weren't. Anyway, I know it's not a very smart questions, but it was just a thought I was hoping could be answered. (link)
I'm from Ohio but I'm 99% sure the tobacco age limit is 18 all across the United States, including buying, selling, consuming, possesing, etc.


I love my boyfriend, we never fight and if we do, its for probably 3 and a half minutes. We are BEST FRIENDS. tell each other everything and anything and are completely ourselves around each other right down to farting. our relationship is amazing...


so why do i cry when he isnt around? he goes to college 2 and a half hours away which isnt bad, i see him on average every other week. iv noticed that when he's gone. i'll reminisce on the amazing fun and goofy times we had with each other and just cry and smile and..cry. i dont know why. i would give my life to spend every waking second of the rest of my life with this guy. i don't want to cry anymore. i think i just miss him being around me and supporting me and picking me up when i fall (metaphor)


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Well I am a guy so I can try to give you my outlook on this situation. It's great that you love him as much as you do, and you crying when he's not around is just a natual was to express such an emotion. You don't, however, want to appear too needy to him. Most guys don't find that attractive in a girl. You will probably have this problem all through college until you guys are free and able to pursue a more intense relationship. Hope that helps.


I'm having my 13th birthday party (don't worry.. my bday was 1 month ago so im legal) in two weeks.
We're having 6 of my bestfriends over to my house for a sleepover. We're going to be watching movies, eating, cake, presents, and my friend is bringing a butt ton of makeover stuff.. basically everything on god's green earth.
I need one more big activity. like the main one.
Any good, simple, realistic ideas?
No boys. My parents said that upfront.
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At any party it's a good idea to have ideas of what activities you might do, but if you structure it too much the party won't be any fun at all. Don't have particular times for games or movies or stuff like that, just go with the flow of the party and have a good time. The point of a party is having fun so don't stress over it or anything.




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