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ok so there is this guy i kind of like. It's not a big deal i just like him a little bit. But still, i want him ti like me. He is way nice and so so funny. We have two classes together and we sit next to eachother in one and talk like the entire time! I went to a dance with him and we had a really good time. But, i think he likes another girl. I know some people who says he does. I can't help but be jealous! i don't want to know a way to make him like me because there really is not a way of doing so. I guess i just want to know how to act around him to let him know i'm available? I guess that's the way to put it. I just want him to maybe be a little interested. Have him know i am a fun person, and we could have something good. It sounds pretty lame and stupid but help!! (link)
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okay well if ya'll went to a dance together than he should like you. unless he went with you as friends and he really thinks ya'll are just friends. in that case just go up to him and ask like "hey i was wondering if you wanted to go..." i mean anyone who says guys are supossed to ask girls out are dumb. this is the 21st century. then when ya'll go do something talk to him and get to know him more and then ask him about the girl you think he likes be like "so what do you think of so and so" maybe something like that will work
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My Friend has a boyfriend called Callum.
They were best friends before hand :)
But out of the blue his dad died 2 weeks ago.
She doesn't know how to be there for him.
I've told her she just needs to be there for when he is ready to talk about and not push him to far. I told her he isn't going to be himself for a while so always take it into consideration if he not in the mood to hang out or whatever,
but I really want to help her.
Because everytime something bad goes wrong in a relationship for her and she gives up. This is a very hard thing for her to deal with. She's not at all emotional - What advice can I give her to look after her boyfriend? What should she do to make sure he's ok? (link)
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Well the main thing she needs to do is be there for him! Even if it's just to sit there and say nothing. All she has to say is that "I know this is a hard time for you and I'm sorry if I am not responding to this situation the best way you would want me to, but I just want you to know that I am here for you and if you need anything I am here. Call me at 3 in the morning if you just need someone to talk to." Depending on the type of person he is, maybe he wants to be left alone, maybe he wants her to be there. Its okay for her to ask him how he feels and what he would like her to do. Sometimes when death occurs it's just nice to be around the people you love and not even say a word. Hope everything goes well!
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I lost my job, and now I can't find a job anywhere at all. Even mcdonlands, pizza hut wouldn't hire me.
I have debt, need to go to school, and now I'm on the last of my money.
My girlfriend has to pay all the bills.
What the fuck? How the fuck? Can I do anything to unfuck myself? (link)
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Man do I know how you feel! I'm in the same boat as are a lot of other people with all the lay offs going on so first it will help to realize that you are not alone so maybe you can calm down and not stress while looking for a job.
i am 20 living with my dad and about to go sign up for food stamps. there you get about 150 dollars in food stamps and 200 dollars just for spending money. i mean it's something while you don't have to live off your girlfriend and help with food and stuff.
i also go on craigs list and apply for every single job once a day and send my resume there. so set up a resume and email if you don't have one and just do that. i get at least one response a day. hope i helped and good luck!
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Okay, well me and my "now" boyfriend just started going out today. Valentines day is in less than a week and i have NO IDEA what to get him! He dosen't wear stuff from hollister or abercrombie or basically any mall clothes for that matter. He has a very different style and i just dont want to get him the wrong thing. We have no pictures or anything so i dont know what to do! today is the first day we have been going out so i am a little confused! Any help would be great! thanks! (link)
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Well here is one idea for you. It is pretty romantic (kind of corny). But when I was a junior in high school for valentine's day I went to the pet store and bought one of those cheap betta fishes and got a little fish tank then cooked him dinner and had a fire place going (and my mom and brother left the a few hours so we had the house to ourselves) and i set the fish bowl in the middle of the table and wrote on construction paper all cute and nice "Out of all the fish in the sea, you're the one for me" and I named the fish Kevin (which was my boyfriends name at the time) then we listened to music, drank wine, danced and had a great night! That is just a little idea.
But remember (and everyone tells me this) that valentine's day is for the girls! but i like doing stuff for my man so i always try and do something for my boyfriend on valentine's day.
but what i really think would be good for you (in case you don't like the fish idea (even though i think it's really cute)) is maybe just rent a movie, order take out (if you don't want to cook) and watch a movie and just cuddle and relax together. as long as your alone with your significant other on valentine's day, that's all that should matter.
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okay well my boyfriend is having a party in two weeeks and i really am excited. The only bad thing is is that all his friends do drugs and drink. My boyfriend dosne't do these things but he still will allow it at his party. I have 2 problems
1. I cant tell my parents because they would not let me go if that stuff was going on there. i have never been to a party like this before so i am kinda nervous myself.
2. My friends are super good and won't come of there is drugs and alcohol there either so i will be by myself. My boyfriend is super popular and it is his party so he will be mingling with others there to. Not just me.
So what should i do? (link)
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I am a 20 year old female (just to let you know) and I have been in your position before! When I was in high school I was honestly not really popular until my junior year when I started dating a real "party animal" (but really great guy (kind of like your boyfriend)). Anyway, I have never really been to a party and I didn't really know any of his friends. He decided to have a party at his house one weekend and I really didn't want to go, but I wanted to be with him. And just like you said I knew he would be socializing with his friends and such, but to be honest you should go. At his party there were drinking and drugs and everything, but no one ever was pressured to do anything and I actually met a lot of people that became to be life long friends! You should go to this party and then after that you should feel comfortable to go to more because I'm sure your boyfriend will have more parties and want to go to more. Just tell him how you feel and don't be embarrassed. He should understand. If you get there and within 30 minutes to an hour you are not feeling it then just have him take you home or whatever. But I really think you will end up enjoying yourself. Just don't get into the alcohol or drugs!! Good luck!
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