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okay my kitten is 6month i got him and at a flea market. hes been having the runs latly and sleeps a little to much my mom brought home a kitten the same age 2 weeks ago and was playful and crapped normal. he doesnt really care for dry food but eat canned his water habits are normal. i just want to know whats up.
please HELP!
thank you in advance!

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First off the diarrhea may be a problem so i would take him to the vet and see what they have to say. It may be nothing, but then again he may have a problem. But i suggest taking him to your vet.
Cats have a tendency to sleep a lot. Well its not that they sleep a lot they just sleep during the day. Cats are nocturnal meaning they are awake at night. cats need a lot fo sleep because their natural instinct is to hunt or to be playful adn they do that at night. So your cat sleeping too much is normal.
Hope i helped. if you need anything else askk.

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Well i have a problem im to nice i guess like when someone calls me a slut i get upset easily if someones says im ugly or calls me a bitch or anything i get upset and i cant have a fight with someone cause im too scared im 15/f by the way and when i see someone upset i get upset when i see someone ina fight i cry when someone tells me off i cant stand up to myself and i just start crying i need help :( please any advice that i can become a little bit tougher =[
Anything will do ?

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I know exactly how you feel. When i see people upset it makes me upset as well. I dont know why it just does. But when someone tells me off i just think of it as i need to be the bigger person. stand up for yourself. people tell other people off because they think that they wont say anything about it and will just be scared of them. I have had people tell me off and they do it because they think that i wont say anything back, but difference is i will. You just have to stand up for what you believe is right and you have to stick up for yourself. Dont let people push you around like you are some little kid. Another reason they may be telling you off, maybe they are jealous of you in some way. You never know. when people call you names, you cant let that bother you. Because chances are they are doing it because they know it will hurt you. And by hurting you they are getting a kick out of it. just be like whatever, you cant let words like that hurt you. Ive been through the same situation nad i guess im still learning how to just ignore them. But it has to be done.

if you need anymore help,
dont hesitate to ask :]

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i got my kitten like 1 month ago. when she first got to my house everything was fine till like a week ago. ever since then shes been so aggresive i cant pet her she starts biting me and scratching me. i cnat play with her or anything. i cant call her because she wont listen to me. i dont know why shes ike that with me im so nice to her. so my teacher told me that its becuase she got taken away from her mom too early and she wasnt tought what she had to be tought. so how can i teach her? how can i show her i love her if i cant even get near her or pet her? what should i do?

Its not because she was taken away from her mother too early. I took in a litter of 5 stray kittens at the age of 2 and a half weeks. i had to feed them with baby formula about 6 or seven times a day. thats beside the point.
The kitten may stratch because she was never taught not to scratch. if she attempts to scratch you get a water bottle. some poeple put vinegar in it. dont do that its bad for animals. if she trys to scratch or bite just spray her in the face, she will get spooked and run.
what you can also do is if she is just laying down sleeping somewhere just go over to her and see if letting her sniff you helps. my friends cat will scratch and bite me if i dont let her smell me before.
she may feel threatened for some reason.
as she gets older she will start to become more affectionate.
you can also talk to your parents about getting her declawed. people dont like to because they think its hurtful. but its actually helpful it teaches cats that not having front claws isnt necisary.

hoped my advice helped.
if you need anymore just leave
me a question.

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