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Ok, so I am 13 years old and I liked this guy, so my friend asked what he thought of me and he said he might go out with me. It turns out he was lying. He did it for the fun of it. He then said that I would never have a chance with him. He also said I would never find love or a boyfriend ever. Then what shocked me. He said that I come of very slutty and am a slut. I have NEVER had sex or even had a boyfriend. I was raised by good parents and always wear clothes that don't show too much cleavage or shorts that are too short. I don't wear that much makeup either. Recently I was called a slut again by my friends sister. I am always really nice to people and I don't understand why they all seem to hate me.. Am I a slut?? I am starting to believe it since a lot of people are saying it. (link)
no, of course your not a slut. lots of people love to just throw around words like that thinking it wont affect anyone when really it hurts you so much. and by the sounds of it they have no reason to call you a slut because you have never given them a reason. i think the guy is just scared to date so he wants to look tough by calling you a slut. and the girl is definitely jeaous of you and to make herself feel better she calls you a slut. but you are NOT a slut, no matter what everyone tells you.


How do u get ur bf to be all lovey dovey with you (link)
if your really upset that hes not expressing his feelings and not being "lovey dovey". the best thing you could do would be talk to him about it. tell him that youd really appreciate if he would express his feelings towards you more. he probly just doesnt realize you want to hear it. i hope i helped :)


I'm 16 and female. The guy I like is 17 and my brother's friend and he's always staring at me and sometime's I hear him tell my brother that I'm 'really hot' or something like that. He also talks to me a lot when he's over and we flirt occasionally. The only reason I think he might not like me is because a few days ago was our homecoming and he went with someone else. He did come up to me during the dance though while his date was in the bathroom and we hugged :). Does it seem like he likes me? And if it does, should I make a move? (link)
it does seem like he is interested in you and definitely attracted to you. however it seems like he doesnt want to openly show it and that might be because hes your brothers friends and hes scared your brother will get mad at him if he does like you.
hope i helped you out :)


15/Female

Okay, well me and my boyfriend just stated dating not to long ago. And I'm he has been with more people than I have relationship wise. And I have only kissed a guy once. But, what my question is about is how do I become not nervous kissing him? And how do I become not nervous making out with him (would be my first time making out).
I don't want to feel like an idiot.... (link)
the best thing for you to do would be have the confidence because if you are scared and nervous he will be able to tell. Just be yourself and dont be scared, because it will come naturally. and when he initiates the kiss just go with it and follow along and i garantee you it will flow easily. good luck and i hope i helped :)


My girlfriend delays when we must have sex. What might be the cause of procrastination? And our relationship is doing well (link)
maybe shes just nervous or scared. try asking her about it and shell probly express her feelings. give it time and as your relationship gets stronger i think she will open up and commit to you but try not to push her or else she might think you just want sex and leave.


Is there a way to delete an entire thread from Facebook? I know there is a way to delete a certain message in a conversation, but I am looking for a way to delete the entire thread. (link)
yes, you should be able to go to the main menus page and there should be an x for delete on the right side of the page and that should delete it.


My boyfriend got a phone number from a chick. I found the number and confronted him. He says they only talked on the phone and never spent any time with her. When I called her she stated the same. Was he cheating by getting her number and calling her? (link)
no, this is definitely not cheating because from what you know they didnt even hangout. but if he is dating you he should not be getting others girls #'s and talking to them on the phone, you definitely need to talk to her about that.
hope i helped! :)


Anybody know how to flirt with a guy? I'm 14 years old, freshman, I barely know how to talk with a guy. It's not so easy for me. I want to know how to be naturally funny and amazing to talk to. I can do that with my friends but not with my crush. Help? (link)
makes sure to act relaxed (even if your not, try your best) and remember body language is a big part of flirting, make sure that you are facing him and your arms arent crossed because thats a bad thing if you want to be open to him. a girls best feature are her eyes and smile so make sure that when you are flirting to always be smiling and laughing and to make eye contact alot. just be your self and be easy going and make sure to make him laugh and have a good sense of humor. good luck, i know youll do great :)

hope i helped you out :)


got a little sunburn and it ruined my perfect snowy skin and now its tannish.how can i fix this (link)
best thing to do is just give it time and it will fade to your normal skin in about a week - two weeks. also an exfoliant would help removed the dead, tanned skin which should help if you didnt want to wait.

hope i helped :)


hm can u love the same person all your life? no matter who your with? .. :( (link)
of course you can, there is always that one person that no matter how hard you try you can never stop loving and you will always have a place in your heart for them, it just happens.
hope i helped!


If my boyfriend asked me out I say yes but then 3 days later it is like I don't even exist He aint talking to me any more and he is chatting with the boys what should I do ? (link)
talk to him about it, ask him whats up and tell him that you thought you were dating and now it seems like hes ignoring you and chances are he will probly open up and tell you. Maybe hes ignoring you because hes nervous and doesnt know how to act around you.
hope i helped!


I am 19 years old sri lankan girl and my boyfriend is 20 years old. How i kiss my boyfriend's lips first time? (link)
hi, its easy. its better if you guys are alone and talking and just lean in and look into his eyes. then kiss him softly on the lips and close your eyes and enjoy it :) youll do fine! :)
hope i helped!


There's this kid in my class who sits next to me. I get a vibe from him sometimes but I think it's all me. Every time we have a side conversation in class he makes direct eye contact and his eyes look dialated. He one time leaned his leg against mine I thought he was giving me a hint so I don't move my leg as I am attracted to him since then he somehow trips over my foot/knee when walking to his seat. I'm very shy and for some reason or another I'm crushing kind of hard on him I don't know why but it's whatever. (link)
the only way to tell is either to confront him about it and ask him or to take a more subtle approach and try flirting with him. If he flirts back then thats a good sign that he is interested.
hope i helped :)


Hello i had sex with my boyfriend like 2 weeks ago
And I have not gotten my period we use 2 condoms but they did not break
Or rip or anything he did not get any of his sperm on me because it did not come out
And I had to jack him off to do that to come out and I have not gotten my period plZ help (link)
it is not 100% that you are pregnant; to be sure go and get a test and see what it says. there is a very big chance that it is just your body being late and that your not pregnat.




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