hey i'm john I always enjoy giving advice to anyone with there problem. I pick love life, firendsship and family as my categories because i feel thoughs are very important cause it seems that we need them to be happy with ourselves.
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hey i need some advice.
i like this boy, who is my really good friend. i really like him ,and a lot of my other friends do, who are also good friends with him. i know he doesn't see me as more of a friend(well im pretty sure) but i really like him. what do i do.
o btw, im 12/f
thanks! (link)
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sometimes it takes time for things like this to happen if you like him just offer him to go to the movies or some public place just as firends and when you feel it's a good time just talk to him tell him how you feel.
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Im 14/f and im 5'10. I know I'm tall. I HATE being tall. Anyway, how do I make myself look shorter? And also, do you think people think differently about tall girls? PLEASE BE HONEST. I would rather you say people dont like tall girls. Thanks so much. (link)
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well i'm 5'8 so your not much taller than me so i think your fine. Some guys like taller girls if a guy likes someone he might really like he might not even think about her height.
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Hi, im 13/m and im planning on getting weights can someone tell me the suitable weight for me?
and also how many times i should do weights each day!
THNX (link)
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maybe start with 30 to 35 pounds as a start and then just move up slowly. You should do that maybe twice or 3 times a day.
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Hi, so I'm a high school girl and there's this guy I really like and think he's like the sweetest guy ever and is really gorgeous, but he's like 2 0r 3 years younger than me (I jsut turned 18 he's 16 or 15). Many ppl would normally be like "eeeww that's weird" (and I usually would never consider a younger guy either). But he's actually really mature, like more mature than most of the guys I know my age. But also, the other thing is that I've only known him for about like a month and a half and have only hung out with him like once at a concert where he totally saved my life (where he like held me in the mosh pit because I felt dizzy), but have talked to him a billion times since then, AND am going to prom with him in like 2 weeks.....idk what to do and I'dask my friends but they'd prolly be like "ahh he's too young don't bother" Do you think I should tell him how much I like him? And is he too young, like do you think he's be interested in a slightly older girl?
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if you say he really is matture as you say he is and how nice he is. Than I think that age has nothing to do with it. and if you like him tell at prom how much you like him and i'd think he will be interested in you to.
john
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I need revenge. what kind of revenge can i do if my boyfriend is talking to another girl? whats something to make him jealous? whats the best way to make him jealous? answer all those questions please! (link)
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doing revenage on him is not the way to get him back it may just get worse. The thing to do is to go talk to him tell him how you feel about him talking to other girls make him remember what a great girl he has.
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my best friend zach, and now x-boyfriend, got locked up october 1, 2006. we had been writing for a long time untill it was time for his court date and that was the last letter i got. after that, they sentinced him for a longer time and also said he was not aloud to write me. durring that period that he wrote me, and when i found out that he couldnt write anymore, i cried every night. he ment so much to me. we told eachother everything and then it was like he fell off the earth. its hurt me ever since.
BUT since then, ive gotten a new boyfriend jordan. but i keep having dreams about zach. it used to be just silly dreams like him comming back and how happy i was to see him and what i did when i saw him. usually somewhat of the same dream. but once in a while, i get a wierd dream, and last night i woke up wanting to cry because in this dream i called zachs parents and told them to let him call me because if he didnt i was going to forget about him. he called me that night, and was like "please dont forget about me, dont leave me. i love you, you love me. please dont." and i just said "im sorry i cant, i cant do this i love jordan." he was just begging me and that hurt me so much eventually in my dream i was like "im sorry zach, i have to go..." and hung up the phone. the wierd part was i was like watching it from above. and it upset me all day...
so i guess im asking if anyone wants//could interprate my dream for me because im so lost. its just hurting me inside so bad. thank you. (link)
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well it turns out that you have been having that dream cause you love him. But as you said you got a new boyfirend that you do love now since zach is in jail you can't just beat youself up about it. Maybe that dream about saying goodbye was a way of you letting go of him and spending more time with the person you love now. We all lose people we love sooner or later in dealth in break ups and we get over just the same way.
john
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There is this girl jesse, and she is constantly flirting with my boyfriend! I am sooooo sick of it! cuase not only does she flirt with him she does it in front of me! my best friend told her to stop flirting with him and she's like, omg Amanda (that's me) need to stop being so over protective of him! then she said she's not even flirting with him! But the problem is she never stop flirting with him! she'll go up and start poking him in his sides and belly and will be all touchy on him and it just makes me uber mad! please tell me what i should do! cuase confronting her doesn't work!
Thanks,
Manders (link)
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if i was in this argument i would go up to her when she is flirting and stand up to her and tell her no straight to her and maybe she'll stay away. tell you boyfirend how you feel about him flirting with other girls in front of you!
John
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i met this kid in October and we talked for about 3 months .. he asked me out in January and we broke up 2 months later because of drama. I still liked him for about a month or so because he was so sweet and nice.. my so called "bestfriend" said it was so stupid that i still liked him and he never liked me and all this mean stuff..should i be mad at her? thanks for the helpx0x (link)
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No, Thats why we have firends to let us know when we are acting stupid. Your firend may of said that cause maybe she was afraid if you were still going out with this kid you might of got hurt.
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18/f - 2nd year graphic design student.
I was chosen to be next year's student government treasurer. Yey. Anyway. The president of the gov. asked me to create this poster thing where I put my pic and write info stuff under it like "name, age, etc." and my position in the gov. so that the entire campus would know who I am and all that. All the gov. members are doing this.
Now, I was wondering. What info stuff should I include? I don't want it to be too serious like "goal in life" or stuff like that...Fun stuff is what i'm looking for. Stuff that's funny and witty...Something that will make people stop, look and read.
Thank in advance.
Kay. (link)
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what you might want to do is make it as colorful and/or noticeable as you can like add more pictures and use colorful words then people will notice them. don't make it look all white and boring make it big and colorful
hope it helped
john
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14/F.
Hi everyone. My friend [Audrey] invited me to her house to 'hang out' with her, her boyfriend, and my secret crush [that Audrey doesn't know about]
I said 'sure, sounds fun'
Well, Audrey said 'hmm...we should play truth or dare...'
I was like 'sounds fun' [once again]
Now, I am really nervous because what if Audrey dares me to kiss my crush but he starts protesting saying 'NO WE ARE JUST FRIENDS.'
I really don't want to cry in front of him.
BUT, I want to kiss him.
URGHH....PLEASE HELP! (link)
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ok well heres the thing you need to talk to your firend and tell her about your problem as well. You need to tell her how your feeling about this boy, and tell her you will kiss this boy when your ready.
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I saw a question about how to get guys to notice a girl at lets say a mall(asked by a girl), and i was wondering how to get girls to notice me in a public place. say like a mall for instance. and if i feel that i should approach a girl, what is a good way to get into a conversation and not make a fool of myself ?
im 16/m by the way(17 in june) (link)
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well what you should do if you see a girl who you might like and just start going up to her and say hi and introduce your self and just start talking and getting to know her, make her laugh and if it works out maybe ask her to a movie or even dinner
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