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Location: sydney, Australia
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Age: 23
Member Since: November 14, 2005
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Last Update: November 27, 2005
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So me and my friends were smoking paper (yeah i know its retarded) And I know it cant get you high (unless you stuff it with weed or have smoke newspaper which has ink) but I was wondering if there are any effects. You do inhale a ton of smoke and burn the heck out of your throat. Just wondering. I'll rate you for anything unless its under the lines of "Omg you shouldn't do that!" thanks. (link)
the effects of smoking papers is that you absorb the knowledge contained within via a very sore throat. Past experience has shown that the best choice is bible paper which is sacrilicious. No really it wouldnt have any long term effects it is no worse than standing to close to a fire when paper is burning... ok a little worse but not really, perhaps you may have hurt the hairs in your throat but they will die anyway. eventually


how do tea bags help get rid of under-eye circles? (link)
T-bags get rid of under eye circle by performing a special kind of tbag magic known only to them. Strange but true.. when ever a tbag is born it is blest with the knowledge and it passes it on to future generations of tbags. They also make good tea


Well, I started going out with this girl since Friday, right? I really like her, and she really likes me, but I can't seem to know what to say because I'm sitting at her table with all of her friends at lunch now. I can't really relate to her friends, girls OR guys. Today was the first day I sat at her table though, and I held her in my arms during lunch after we ate our food. I didn't speak much to anyone, even my girlfriend. I said I was sorry I didn't talk today too much because I was tired. Any suggestions on what I should do? I'm sort of a video gamer, and she and her friends aren't, so I'm not sure what to say to her sometimes at lunch or to her friends. Please, any suggestions on what to say, do when I'm around her, and say around her and her friends? Sorry this was a long post, but I really need help on this one. I'm 15/M, and she's 14/F.

Thanks! (link)
The best thing to say when you've nothing at all to say is 'what about this wheather we've been having. If she wont include you in conversation then she is not worth it. Another way to take the focus off you is to ask questions even if you dont care about the answers cause thats the best way to start conversation and pretend you are intersted.


Which of these boys should I ask to my winter formal? I go to an all girls school, so for the winter formal, all the girls have to ask the guys. Vote who you think I should ask:

guy 1: Pretty much my best guyfriend. Hang out with often. Am comfortable with. Nice, friendly, social, and a bit geeky. He's a dork. Mama's boy. Boy next door. Not a great dancer. Haha. Currently has a crush on me that I just found out about from my friend.

guy 2: Older than me by two grades. Friendly, but speaks really quietly. Has recently asked me out to see a show with him but I couldn't go. A bit boring to talk to on the phone. Sweet and laid back. Can actually dance. Never hang out with him in person.

guy 3: My personal crush. Asked him to formal last year and got turned down b/c he didn't know me that well. He now knows me better this year. Funniest guy I know. Always makes me laugh. Sweet and friendly and social. A nerd. But still social and outgoing. My friend thinks he has a crush on me because of the attention he gives me when I'm around. But I don't think so. He doesn't really like to dance. Smart. There's another girl who really likes him. I want to choke her. Well. Not really. Okay, yeah I do.

So give me feedback! WHICH ONE? (link)
err ask contestant number three and if he says no ask number one. the second one sounds dumb. Maybe get a magic 8 ball and shake it up and ask it.
Clearly you are popular enough to ask any of them and if one rejects you ahve a fall back!!


ohk so im not the worlds greatest dancer, are there anythings i can do to become a better dance cause when i go to parties i hate it cause i dance but i cant dance i look like a fool. so if you have any tips please help me im desperate!!! (i mean like dancing at a party not a dance class) (link)
the simple solution is to dance like a fool and look like you are the coolest person on earth. People in nightclubs cant dance but they think they can and therein lies the secret. If anyone else points and laughs simply look down your nose at them. There are many famous people who cant dance and they are considered cool so shake your ass and all will be well


My dad has a girlfriend and I don't like her she's tells him what I do and then I get introuble she also treats me like a 3 year old what do I do and my dad is planning to marry her and he's already purposed and that was like in two months that he's been dating her (link)
my advice to you is that you begin to treat this women like poo, if you make her realise that you hate her by being rude to her and generally being as obnoxious as possible she may go away. This plan may fail if your dad likes her more than you, but he shouldnt you are his kid? You could also try calling her mummy!! she may freak out and run away or perhaps start calling her the wicked step mother


what do people mean when they say work me like a 9 to 5 or im workin 9 to 5 (link)
that means that they have adopted a very boring blue collared lifestyle and most likely that they are required to suck up to someone all day. It also means that they enjoy spending the entire day sitting upon their backsides and that they are probably really good at solitaire


On occasion I have these wierd feelings and i feel like any noise or music around me is made by my thoughts {probably makes no sense but atleast i know what im talking about} and the way i hear things sorta sound different, kinda like how a home made movie sounds. Everything sounds unreal. It usualy happens when im tired. Is this normal? Can anyone help me? (link)
theres some condition called something, um i foget anyway its an ear thing and it makes the sound funny. Perhaps standing close to speakers and listening to all that loud music has harmed your ears. Go to the doctor and get it checked out or if you prefer think really hard and hope that music starts and hope furthermore that this music is good music cause if it isnt then you are stuffed, i also suggest that you try to compose a symphony with your thoughts as there is big money in that


Hey I'm a guy and was just wondering...should age matter in a relationship? What's your point of view on this one, like does it matter if both are close in age or far apart...by far I mean less than 5 years or so. Thanks in advance, will rate. (link)
i think it depends on the ages of the people involved, for example if you are fifteen and have a ten year old girlfriend that is weird and creepy and weird and creepy is no good by anyones standards at all, not even weird and creepy people like weird and creepy


The very first time my boyfriend and I said "I love you" to each other was about two weeks ago. He said it first. Now though, I always say it first. He never tells me he loves me unless I say it to him. So what's wrong? Does he regret saying it? Is he just shy? What can I do to make him say it first? (link)
make him say it or tell him you wont put out! or perhaps play hangman and have i love you as the hangman word that could work or perhaps you shouldnt care and realise that he is a boy and boys are stupid


Hi. 15/m. Weekend mornings I try to cook breakfast, and as the title suggests, scrabled eggs. After pouring the contents into the pan, i try to bunch it all up...because lately I've been trying to make an omlette. Do the same rules apply, or should I try to use a lot less cooking oil? Any tips/suggestions? Thanks a lot. (link)
dont use cooking oil use butter or margarine cook it like an omlette and then when the time is right bunch it up and remove it. Also please consider not cooking eggs at all but making toast it is easier and when smothered in vegemite is much better than eggs anyway


I was hoping to instant messege with some of my friends but one was angry {idk why} and now shes sleeping, and another one is writing a paper and the others are not on the comp. Can someone tell me something i can do while im waiting?
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when you are bored i would sugest playing solitaire soon you will realise that solitaire is in fact the only reason you exist and when your friends are sleeping it wont matter!!for you will be the solitaire champion! you could also try bored.com or giving advice to people on this site it cures my boredom!! or make a country on nationstates.


ok i had this weird dream and i dont know what it means.... can you help me? ok it started out with me and my sister saving the world and then the world threw a huge banquet in our honor. i couldnt believe it so i had to step outside. then i was outside in a hallway and my crush comes out there with me. he walks up to me and he says i love you. like the serious kind of i love you not the kinda thing friends say and stuff. now i barely talk to him cuz im always nervous. so here i am my hot crush just said i love you and my response is WHAT THE HECK? i know what am i thinking? but he still loves me so i just leave. im speachless. so that dream just ends... or so i thought. i end up at my grandmas house and my friends are there and i tell them the weird dream( the one i just told you) and then they say dont you dream about what is gonna happen? so now im thinking IS MY CRUSH GONNA LOVE ME? i need help with this im spazing out! (link)
your dream clearly means that you are depraved. I think what is trying to come out is that the only way your crush will love you is if you save the world. So my advice to you is to start wearing your undies outside your pants, attach a cape and start helping people who are in danger and then and only then will you get laid


This girl and I have been casually dating for a little more than a month. She's only 14 and I'm 17 but I genuinly like her. I'm not using her just to get some, I don't even want to do any more than kiss her. At the beginning of the relationship she told me she had only held hands with a guy before. I was skeptical but went with it. Now, she just told me she's had sex, but it was when she was only 9 years old. I'm not upset that she's not a virgin, I don't want her for that. I'm upset that she lied to me from day one. I'm not even mad, just really disappointed and very hurt. I've told her everything I've done with every girl I've dated. I live by the basic rules: Don't lie and don't cheat. She wants to go out with me know and I don't know if I can. I've been hurt before, and recently, and if she's lied once there's no saying she won't do it again right? I know it might sound like I'm overreacting but I really don't think I can take being hurt again. Please let me know what you think I should do. (link)
did you perhaps consider that this girl was nine????? maybe it was not consentual? maybe she was to young to realise what was going on? maybe she is telling you now cause she trusts you and before she was unsure? perhaps if its to much you should find someone a little older?


i am not sure what kind of litter to get for my new cat can somebody help me... (link)
the best cat litter to use is regular sand that way when they have used it you can make sand castles




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