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Q: hey kidss----
so theres these kids, theyre my really good friends, && they know im REALLY concious about my weight, && one day i walked in on thier convo && they were like, "i" really put on the weight && looked like i was a big round ball. i really hate getting called fat, but i think my weight is a little more than normal, but i just dont know where to see if its normal or very heavy...im 5'5, && i weigh 109lbs
thankss muchlyy
mucho luvo!
-------me

these people must be crazy i'm 5'2" and i weigh 105 pounds so you aren't even close to over weight!

Hope I helped

Nikki

Q: can someone get AIDS from mosquitos?

it hasn't been proven yet

Q: I have a lot of freakles or however you spell it and i hate them! is there a good coverup for evening our your face and covering freakles? And please don't tell me to just love the way i am. thanks in advance!

I have a lot of feckles too I use covergirl from walmart but if you want to cover them completely up it would take like 4 layers depending on how bad you have them.

Hope I Helped

-Nikki-

Q: Me & my ex broke up a little over a year ago. I finally got the courage to call & tell him i was still in love w/ him.He just kept on talking though. We talked till 3 A.M. like we used to. We talked for 3 days after and some how i ended up telling him how much he hurt me but i loved him so much it didn't matter. He told me he was real sry he never ment it, it was the biggest mistake ever, & if he could take it back he would. He also told me that his recent ex broke his heart and how hurt he was but that he doesn't love her n/e more. Since that night we've only talked twice, but he seemed fine. What the hell am i suppose to think?!?!

THANKS
-twiSted

he played u like a dog that's what your supposed to think if he hasn't called you back then he just wanted to rub it in your face.

hope i helped

-Nikki-

Q: ok there is this older boy that likes me and he told me. I like him to, a lot. the only problem is he is going into 9th grade and im going into 7th. do you think that is too much of an age difference? I mean if we both like each other why should age matter? My mom doesn't think its a good idea for me to date him. I think its good because he is much more mature then boys in my grade and he knows how to treat a girl right. what should i do? how can i go out with him without my mom knowing?

please help
i rate

i think it is perfectly fine for you to date him but be carefull about whether or not he cheats on you but only you know if he will or not as for getting it past your mom try telling her that he is just a friend or if you have a brother try to get them to be friends so you can hang out more or you could just tell her to let you make you own choices but that usually don't work.

nikki

Q: theres this boy that i've liked for a long time but since i havent kissed a boy before he calls me prude and says he wont go out with me cuz of that. then he says well show me that you're not prude but i dont want to kiss/make out with him just to prove that to him but i really like him alot and i hate everyone calling me prude. what do i do?

if he doesn't want to date you cause your "prude" he is a waste of time but if you really like him maybe you should comprimise with him like if he'll date you for so long you'll kiss/make-out with him.

hope i helped

nikki

Q: ok i have this friend. i like him more than a friend but i dont know how to really let him know that i do. i have already told him that i do and he says that he does but that i want so much more than he does. i have loved him for like a year and he says that he still loves me but for some reason he is the kind of person that wont let his heart tell him what to do. he lets his head. i just dont know what i am supposed to do about it. i tell him all the time that i would do anything to be with him even if we are just together for one more day. i havent dated him for 6 or 7 months but i still love him with every beat of my heart. it doesnt matter what i am doing or who i am dating i still think about him 24/7. how can i get him to understand how much he means to me.
thanks in advance! i will rate high!

lost & confused in love

Get over him sounds like a loser any ways if he lets his head tell him not to open his heart then he is really a waste of time. Only he can change that you can't so more on cause that takes time, he can't do it over a month. So move on and look for somebody new.

I know I helped

-Nikki-

Q: ok so theres this guy and he kinda sexual harasses me or w/e this is called. he grabbed my breasts and my butt like so many times nd he snaps my bra straps and all that kind of stuff! i don't kno who 2 tell and what 2 do? pleasee help me

honey you need to tell an adult first it they don't do any thing about it go file a police report.

nikki

Q: how do u get different backround colors and pictures??? please explian i'll rate high!!!

go to column settings for different colors click on the over here part that is highlight, find the color you want, copy then paste it where you want that color to be!

hope that helps!

nikki

Q: ok so the question is the subject pretty much. My best guy friend likes someone but he won't tell me who. he gives me clues and they sound like me. can u help? thanks in advance. the clues are:
-Its someone in austin ( he lives in kerville)
-Its someone in are grade and goes to ur school
then he was like im not sure if i like them though then he said this:
-I no deep down in my heart that i like her b/c a guy use to like her and she liked him and i got jealous. one of his friends liked me and i liked him but it didnt work out.
-Its someone who youse to like me a long time ago (i use to like him and he new it b/c i told him)

well if you like this guy then ask him if it's you and that you hope it is cause you like him.
You can't be after of rejection.

Good luck

Nikki

Q: what is a good weight for someone who is 15/f and is about 5 feet tall. Even for how much exercise i get i always feel fat and over weight. Alot of my body is muscle even though you cant really tell i have real muscular legs and stuff. I always here people being like 5'5" and only 100 pounds and ive always been over that. I dont look fat by any means but im not like super skinny either. whats a good way to loose weight too. I dont want to look grossly skinny but i dont want to be just sorta average like i am now im not chuby but not really really skinny youknow? i eat ok but my parents wont let me eat anything other for dinner than what they make which isnt always the healthiest and in the summer i exercise like nonstop and i do what i can in the winter.

i would say aveage for a girl your height and weight would be any between 115 to 150.

hope that helps

nikki

Q: Well my family is a family with 5 kids. We are running sort of low on money. How couild I help them out. I mean my mom could nopt even buy shampoo the other day!

I agree with the other answers you got you should try to do odd jobs or just be nice to your parents and not cause any trouble.

nikki

bio

Hi my name is Nikki. I have one brother and one sister. I live with my mom. My dad lives in Colorado. I'm taken by a guy named josh. So no hitting on me. I've been though alot of stuff so I should be able to relate to alot of you guys. I like hip hop music. But I listen to a lot of different types of music. My best friend in the world is Ashley Young who also happens to be my ex girlfriend. I want to be a hair dresser. That's all I can think of to say right now.