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Q: My boyfriend and I have never had penetrative sex--or sex at all, honestly. We've only dry humped through four layers of clothing (his two, my two). Bodily fluids have never been exchanged.

I'm currently on my period.

Today I woke up with a throbbing headache; later on during the day, I experienced great fatigue and ran a fever of 100.4. I've been experiencing chills and hot flashes. My stomach feels odd, but not any different from other pains I've experienced while on my period.

Are these symptoms of pregnancy, or am I being far too paranoid?
i think your being paranoid because theres no way that you could get pregnant through dry humping unless his sperm got in you some how

Q: alright so this may sound stupid but im knew to the whole makeup thing so in this picture what is the fourth brush used for ?


http://www.absolutelygorgeous.com.au/beauty-products/images/tools_med.jpg
its for your eyebrows and the one thats like a comb is for your eyelashes i think

Q: I have beautiful eyes, seriously they are one of my very top things about myself because they have a Japanese look to them (aka slighty slanted, very pretty) because im a quarter Japanese (so i dont really look that Asian) but they're small so i was wondering how can you apply eyeliner and eyeshadow and stuff to make them appear larger? thanks so much!!! :)
well what i do is put eyeliner on the top and bottom and it makes my eyes bigger, and also use a eyelash curler and put mascara on, that usually makes my eyes bigger too

Q: should i just shave off all my hair and wear a wig? im sick of my silky, limp, volume-less asian hair!
definetly not youll regret it. im asian too and i used to have volumeless hair and a few years ago i started straightening it because there were parts that werent straight and now my hair has lots of volume, but its also not too good cause it gets poofy a lot ..so maybe if you start to straighten or blowdry it you will get more volume. a tip is to blowdry your hair upside down, that usually makes your hair have more volume or shampoo for more volume could work too

Q: how do u make a pimple dissapear the next day...like what can you put on it.

Does proactiv really work??
you can put toothpaste on it overnight and usually it makes it smaller and less red

Q: I know this might sound like a stupid question, but what does someone look like when they're high? And what about when someone's stoned?

Do people look any different or do they just act different?
usually there eyes get kinda red and when theyre high, that means there also stoned, there the same. sometimes they do act different and act like an idiot but others could be quiet

Q: hi im sam and im 11. i shaved my arms and i sooooooooooooooooo regret it!!!! how can i make the hair grow back?? please awnser!
the hair will eventually grow back but it will be thicker and darker..

Q: what are the best girly perfumes i can get that smell amazing and fruity and sunny and just GOOD! im asking for one this xmas and these are my options. give me your reviews on them and maybe other perfumes you think are good.

- can can (paris hilton)
- daisy (marc jacobs)
- l0lli (its a "o" in the middle btw) pop (lancome. never smelled it but the bottle looked cute? lol)
- juicy couture (juicy couture)
- Escada Sunset Heat )Escada)
- with love (hillary duff)
- Brit Sheer (Burberry)
- covet (sarah jessica parker)
- ralph hot! (ralph lauren)
- princess (vera wang)
- diesel (that fuel for life thing.. it smells amazing.)
- delicious night (DKNY.. and i love love love it)

hm thats all i can remember at the moment. um so rate them and please keep in mind that this is for a 13 year old girl and i want my perfume to be not too sophisticated but like really nice smelling so everyone when you walk into the room's like "wow what smells so good?" and maybe somewhat fruity-ful cause i like those kinda scents. i dont go to beauty stores a lot so i only have a few samples from my teenvogue mag lol. btw i didnt put the perfumes in order of how i like them.
i love the princess vera wang one and the ralph lauren one

Q: is there ANY way you can get all the songs on your ipod to your iTunes.


i had to delete everything off of my computer, and ididn't save my music..
and yeah, i have all my songs on my ipod.


so can i get all these on iTunes, or not?
ahh help! & thanks!
i dont think there is any way because that happened to me once and then a message pops up saying something like how you have music from another place .. i dont remember what it said exactly but like the person below me said, if you plug it in and then update your ipod, then the empty itunes will go into your ipod.

Q: i have cingular and i have free cinguular to cingular calls, if im on a cingular to cingular call and the other person calls someone else and makes it 3way does it cost me minutes?
it wont cost you minutes if the other person calls it.. but if you call it then it will cost u minut6es

Q: So my boyfriend is almost positive he got genital herpes from an ex-girlfriend. However, he hasn't been tested and he hasn't had an outbreak. We've been having sex, intercourse and oral, protected and occasionally unprotected. I'm wondering what my possible chances of catching or having caught herpes are. Thanks in advance.
well you might have a chance of getting them if he has them.. and symptoms may not even show if you have herpes so what you should do is both get tested and always use a condom. good luck!

Q: im 13/f hes 15/m. my brother sleepwalks ALOT. he is 2 years older 3 feet taller about 100lbs stronger. in the day we get along really well not like most siblings. he tries to hurt me and soon gona kill me in his sleep. every night so im scaared to sleep i only sleep for about 3 hours. just last night he got up on my bed and was kicking me and started punching me. night before he was trying to strangel me. the night before he was trying to pull my head off and hitting my head. something happenes almost every night. i fight back. i dont want him to kill me but i fight back hard i dont wana kill him. i knocked the air out of him when he tried to strangel me. i dont want it to hurt either of us. does it mean something. how do i stop it. he went to the doctor. my mom can not stop him im stronger than she is. what do i do.
well i would definetly go to the doctors and see what is wrong with him and see if they could treat him and if your door doesnt have a lock on it be sure to buy one and lock it at night

Q: There is something terribly wrong with my computer and i can't firgure out how to get it back to normal. I HAVE NO START AND ICONS! When i restart my computer all i have is a desktop background nothing is there!!!!! Someone please help me firgure this out! The way I get to programs is through the task maneger. And I dont even know how to get to all programs. Any ADVICE on how to get it all back would be helpful. Thank you!
wow the same thing happened to me.. my computer would load up but there was no icons or anything, just the background. so what i did was do alt, ctrl, delete to get the task manager and then i pressed on new task and typed in desktop and it loaded. but sometimes it didnt work for me so i typed in system and that worked also and then my desktop loaded normally

Q: i see a lot of people that have these rings:
http://www.babynamesofireland.com/images/pu_images/claddagh_ring_pu.jpg

and they look really cute and i want one of those rings but i looked at a lot of places but i cant find them? where can i get them and how much are they cost?
im not sure try googling it

Q: im looking for some square diamond earrings like the ones in this picture.

http://www.canadadiamonds.com/canadian_diamonds_images/diamond_earrings.jpg

im willing to pay up to $50 for them. i do not want to order them online but i do want a list of stores of where i could possibly find them and the stores websites to look at them first. thanks!

please do not tell me ebay or a cheap store like claires!
i have ones like those and i got them at icings in the sterling silver box section and it cost me about like 11 dollars

Q: what are some good tampons for teens?
im a dancer & i exercise alot so im active
tampax pearl all the way, theyre the best and there easy to insert in

Q: Is O.K. if I have a medium/light flow and I use a super tampon to last me all day? From say 7:00 in the morning to about 9:00 at night? I've been forced to do this before and the whole thing wasn't even soaked yet...
Is it O.K.?
well your suppose to only have a tampon in for 4-8 hours so i dont think that would work.. cause if you leave it in for too long then you could get TSS

Q: 1.I haven't been able to watch mtv's wake up (the music videos) or listen to much radio..and I really want to update my comp and iPod with some new songs.
Things like soft rock, pop and rock pop...anything they consider popular. I am currently downloading "dream" by common and will.i.am!
So any new 'top' songs suggested will help!

2. There's also a song I want to find out it's name and the artist. It's 2 girl (sisters or friends) and they were on discover and download on mtv. They were singing a song and the video had like hearts flashing red by their real hearts. I think their names were tia or dia or something like that...so I just want to find out their names and the song's name! THANKS!
i think the band is meg and dia and the song might be called monsters

Q: Is it possible to get pregnant when giving someone a blow job. i know you can get stds, but about pregnancy?

I'm not saying that I give them to people. I'm just curious.
no you cant get pregnant from a blowjob.. the only way you can get pregnant is if he came inside your vagina

Q: Okay well i straighten my hair all the time..and its starting to be not so soft and it feels really dead. People say to just stop straightening my hair so much but i cant it is super frizzy and wavy and im super self concience about it and i hate it. Does anyone know products or even ways to straighen my hair so it wont get so burnt?
okay my hair is like yours and i started to use garnier fruitis for damaged or dry hair and i have been using it for like a little more than a month and a half and my hair is very soft and the split ends are slowly getting better and it makes your hair really healthy, id highly recommend you use it=)

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