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My bf has this friend brit and i am almost positive she likes him and like he asked me would you be mad if i saw a girl in a swimsuit and she was biking and i was to and i went up to talk to her? and i said umm no..? and he said o cuz i saw brit. and another time he went to her house and he is like brit wants us to go over to her house 8 or 9 in the morning but he didnt go so thats good. idk she is just prettier then me and skinnier then me .. thats when we sorta got in a bad situation i told him i thought i didnt meet up to his standards and he said in otherwards you think you arent good enough for me? and i said yeah and he said well if anything your to good for me but that was awhile ago .. so what should i do or even tell him?! we communicate just fine.. we see eachother alot... so im guess im not completely worried about it all but brit.. thats what im worried about..
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hey....i think you should tell him it bothers you and whats going on in your head. men definately arent psychic. tell him how u feel and see how he takes it and if he does things differently.;)
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Ok, I love Linkin Park and Coldplay and I'm looking for music like that. Anyone got any suggestions? Thanks a bunch (link)
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uhhh try good music, like The Used, Taking Back Sunday, or Sublime!l8er
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i write really good poems and i want 2 get them in a published book but i dont kno how, can sum1 help me (link)
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hey....go to www.poetry.com and send in your poems....if its good enough they will publish it! freeeeeeeee...hope i helped...bye
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Does anyone know any good poems or quotes to write in a note/letter to a boyfriend cause i need some ideas (link)
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well ur in luck cuz i am a poem and quote freak! haha well heres some i have:
The Magic Of Love
Love is like magic
And it always will be.
For love still remains
Life's sweet mystery!!
Love works in ways
That are wondrous and strange
And there's nothing in life
That love cannot change!!
Love can transform
The most commonplace
Into beauty and splendor
And sweetness and grace.
Love is unselfish,
Understanding and kind,
For it sees with it's heart
And not with it's mind!!
Love is the answer
That everyone seeks....
Love is the language,
That every heart speaks.
Love can't be bought,
It is priceless and free,
Love, like pure magic,
Is life's sweet mystery!!
- Helen Steiner Rice -
The Meaning
To love is to share life together
to build special plans just for two
To work side by side
and then smile with pride
As one by one, dreams all come true.
To love is to help and encourage
with smiles and sincere words of praise
To take time to share
to listen and care
In tender, affectionate ways.
To love is to have someone special
one who you can always depend
To be there through the years
sharing laughter and tears
As a partner, a lover, a friend.
To love is to make special memories
of moments you love to recall
Of all the good things
that sharing life brings
Love is the greatest of all.
I've learned the full meaning
of sharing and caring
and having my dreams all come true;
I've learned the full meaning
of being in love
by being and loving with you.
- Kellie Spehn -
For You Are The One
For you I would climb
The highest mountain peak
Swim the deepest ocean
Your love I do seek.
For you I would cross
The rivers most wide
Walk the hottest desert sand
To have you by my side.
For you are the one
Who makes me whole
You've captured my heart
And touched my soul.
For you are the one
That stepped out of my dreams
Gave me new hope
Showed me what love means.
For you alone
Are my reason to live
For the compassion you show
And the care that you give.
You came into my life
And made me complete
Each time I see you
My heart skips a beat.
For you define beauty
In both body and mind
Your soft, gentle face
More beauty I'll ne'er find.
For you are the one
God sent from above
The angel I needed
For whom I do love
- Chris Messick -
Perfection in my Eyes
All I ever wanted was to be part of your heart,
And for us to be together, to never be apart.
No one else in the world can even compare,
You're perfect and so is this love that we share.
We have so much more than I ever thought we would,
I love you more than I ever thought I could.
I promise to give you all I have to give,
I'll do anything for you as long as I live.
In your eyes I see our present, our future and past,
By the way you look at me I know we will last.
I hope that one day you'll come to realize,
How perfect you are when seen through my eyes.
- Ashley Borden -
Will you ever?
I don't think you will
ever fully understand
how you've touched my life
and made me who I am.
I don't think you could ever know
just how truly special you are
that even on the darkest nights
you are my brightest star.
I don't think you will ever fully comprehend
how you've made my dreams come true
or how you've opened my heart
to love and the wonders it can do.
You've allowed me to experience
something very hard to find
unconditional love that exists
in my body, soul, and mind.
I don't think you could ever feel
all the love I have to give
and I'm sure you'll never realize
you've been my will to live.
You are an amazing person
and without you I don't know where id be.
Having you in my life
completes and fulfills every part of me.
- Erica -
A Love For All Time
Breathless kisses
Burning touches
Soft-spoken words of love
Urgently spoken words of passion.
A man and a woman
One complete love
Since time began
Predestined to be as one.
We've been together before
In other lifetimes
We've fought dragons
And have been torn from each others arms
Yet our love prevailed.
We've walked on this earth many times together
Perhaps for a moment
Perhaps for years
But our heart is one heart
And we were meant to be.
So when our time on earth
Once again comes to a close
Have no worries my dear
For we will find each other again
And again
And again.
For our love is ageless
Eternal
A love for all time.
- Dawn Choike -
Sometimes at night, when I look to the sky,
I start thinking of you and then ask myself, why?
Why do I love you? I think and smile,
because I know the list could run on for miles.
The whisper of your voice, the warmth of your touch,so many little things that make me love you so much.The way you support me, and help with my emotions,the way that you care and show such devotion.The way that your kiss, fills me with desire,and how you hold me with the warmth of a blazing fire.The way your eyes shine when you look at me,lost with you forever is where I want to be.The way that I feel when you're by my side,a sense of completion and overflowing pride.
The dreams that I dream, that all involve you,
the possibilities I see and the things we can do.
How you finish the puzzle that lies inside my heart,how that deep in my soul, you are the most important part.I could go on for days, telling of what I feel,but all you really must know is my love for you is real.
- Scott Lockwood -
What I Love About You...
The sparkle in your eye,
The warmth of your skin.
Your breath on my neck,
That quivers within.
The touch of your hand,
The smell of your hair.
The kindness in your smile,
That strength in your stare.
Your kiss on my lips,
Your body near mine.
The stroke of your touch,
That feeling inside.
The sound of your voice,
Compassion in your embrace.
The serenity in your stride,
The power in your face.
The calming of your presence,
The beating of your heart.
The promise of tomorrow,
That we may never part.
The beauty of your kiss,
and that magic in your touch.
It is for all these reasons and more,
Why I love you so much.
- Averil Binetti -
If I know what love is,
It is because of you.
~ by Herman Hesse ~
Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself
But if your love and must needs have desires,
Let these be your desires: To melt and be like a running brook That sings its melody to the night. To know the pain of too much tenderness. To be wounded by your own understanding of love; And to bleed willingly and joyfully. To wake at dawn with a winged heart And give thanks for another day of loving; To rest at the noon hour and meditate love's ecstasy; To return home at eventide with gratitude; And then to sleep with a prayer For the beloved in your heart And a song of praise upon your lips.
~ by Gibran Kahlil Gibran ~
Love is a burning desire,
That makes your heart light on fire,
Love is being with you,
Someone saying I love you too,
Love is your tender kiss,
Something you don't want to miss,
Love is you and me,
And that is all I see.
~ by Anonymous ~
If I go away
What would still remain of me?
The ghost within your eyes?
The whisper in your sighs?
You see...Believe
And I'm always there.
~ by Jon Oliva ~
I sought for Love
But Love ran away from me.
I sought my Soul
But my Soul I couldn't see.
Then I sought You,
And I found all three.
~ by Unknown Author ~
We can only learn to love by loving.
~ by Iris Murdoch ~
Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness.
~ by Oliver Wendell Holmes ~
The minute I heard my first love story,
I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was.
Lovers don't finally meet somewhere.
They're in each other all along.
~ by Maulana Jalalu'ddin Rumi ~
I hope i helped. if u ever need poems or quotes or songs about nething lemme no cuz i am a freak when it comes to that stuff haha l8er
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female,20 2 children eldest 2 youngest 7 weeks,differant dads when i drink alchol i get violent not al the time just when im stressed my partner over the past 4 weeks my partener has broken my finger n given me a black eye on both occasions he has said sorry and it will never happen again. he has taken my eldest son on as his own. i dont want to be a single mum with 2 children by differant fathers but i dont want to be a nervous wreck either i feel low in myself he alwys puts me down telling me im ugly and fat i just dont know which way to turn the violence only happens when we are both drunk please give me advice (link)
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well, i just learned about this stuff in school. theres a cycle for domestic violence. first its walking on eggshells where he is not letting u do certain things or talk to certain people or whatever and then theyres the explosion where he hits you then theres the honeymoon where he says hes sorry and never happen again. you need to get out before its too late. what hes doing isnt right. you would much rather be without him, right? u deserve so much better and so do your children. go to the police. go to a friend. GET OUT!
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ok... i like this boy and i think e likes me. sometimes we make like 1 second eye contact or like when we pass by eachother, i can feel a vibe. i gave my friend this note 2 give 2 him and he looked freaked out. so he asked me 2 days later if i wrote it, and i told him no because i guess he didn't like me. ever since said no, he started to bother me again like teasing me and stuff. school ends the 25 and i want 2 know if he likes me or not! plz help!!!!! (link)
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tel him you DO like him. tell him how u feel about him and thats all you can do. you have to take a risk, u cant be scared forever!
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ok... i like my guy friend **bob** :) he-he bob... ok ne ways, i know he has a physical attraction to me. how do u go about asking if he likes u all in all? can u give me some pointers?
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hey....the most and best you can do is just be honest to him and tell him what you feel and hope he returns the feeling. just flat out ask him guys appreciate honesty and braveness.... or if ur way to shy then just ask his best friend ;) l8er and im always here for ya if u need to talk
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im 15 and i have a small penis and i've haven't l
been with my gf for too long but im a bit worried what she'll think should i worry? and will that matter? (link)
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hey kid. its ok....if your girlfriend says something then she must not care about you too much. if you really love or care about someone then size shouldnt matter. im sure she wont even care. and u can always think, has she been experienced? maybe she doesnt even know what size its supposed to be. dont sweat it.... maybe u shouldnt be doing that kinda stuff neways.... ur only 15!
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yeah well.. i really like this kid an we are sposta play spin the bottle an 7 minz of heven an the problem is i dunno how to make-out/ french an im scurd cuz i dont want him to think imma loser cuz i dunno how to.. can someone help??
14/f/ny-verry confused
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if this kid really likes u then he shouldnt care if ur inexperienced kisser. try going to google.com and searching how to french kiss or somehting. it might help a little. u really learn from experience tho. good luck
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what do i do when i feel like everytime i get down or upset or depressed sometimes for no reason that i wanna kill myself.. or hurt myself... what can i do for help? my friends help by keeping me from actually doing it but im tired of feeling like i should do it.. i use to cut but my friends stoped me from doing that... what should i do? (link)
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ahhh....yes I can definately relate! I get that way a lot. You need to talk to a counselor or someone who can help u deal with it. You need to realize people DO care about u apparrently cuz they had u stop cutting. you need to realize your a wonderful person. make a list of things u love about urself and things u need to change about urself and get to it! get help before its too late....
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ok, well i'm 16 ,i have a really bad depression problem i have been addicted to cutting and still have urges frequently , i have suicidel thoughts very frequently and the real problem is my parents refuse to admit there is a problem, it seems like theres nothing i can do to make them understand, the wont even get my prescribtion (link)
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ok you need to go to someone for help before something bad happens. go to a counselor or a doctor and tell them the same thing u have just told everyone else. U NEED THE PRESCRIPTION! even if your parents wont admit to the problem, you need to find a different way to help yourself. please PLEASE get help soon! good luck im here if u need me
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i just had sex with my dad and i'm afraid that he got me pregnent..what the hell do i do! i'm so scared. is it possible for my dad to get me pregnent (link)
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yes its definately possible he could get you pregnant. you should talk to someone, anyone who could help you on this. you should talk to a doctor a counselor someone cuz if your dad is forcefully doing this to you against your will you need to tell someone cuz its not right. but if u need to talk to someone, im here and I can try to help u as best as possible.
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I'M 14 GOING ON15 AND ME AND MY BOYFRIEND HAD SEX BUT HE IS TELL PEOPLE WHAT TO DO (link)
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tell ur boyfriend not to tell ne1 and if he continues then he must not care about your feelings and must be a real jerk and i wouldnt want to be with him. you should have waited until u found the right guy to have sex with. talk to someone about it....try to get him to stop telling people.
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im moving to a new house and i couldnt be more happier about it. the only thing that i thought was bothering me was the fact that its out in the middle of no where! but last night i broke down talking to a friend and realized more was bugging me. I live with my grandparents because my mom has a boyfriend that i was never really fond of. he use to hurt her a lot and she picked him over me. so i moved out.she still comes over every day to my grandparents house to visite me but now that we are moving i dont see her driving every day an extra 10 minutes to see me. she lives not even 2 minutes from me now and now im moving farther! i hate the fact that im moving away from my parents because they are my parents but yet i can never live with them and im still hurt from what happen. i dont know what to think or do? (link)
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u need to decide whats better for you. maybe being away from your mom is better for you and will help u have a better life. you should think about what u want and what will help u. go for it, take a risk.good luck.
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have you ever had a friend that was just always there for you and then one day all she talked about was wanting to get away from everyone? thats what im going through now and it sucks because this person has always been there for me through the roughtest times in my life and now i feel like im losing the one person that knows me best. its my fault for not opening up to people but i have a major trust issue. I've been hurt plenty of times in the past. but this friend has never hurt me and now i feel like im gonna lose our friendship. what should i do? (link)
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well....im in that situation only im the friend wanting to get away. I run away from a lot of problems. its just so much easier for the time being. maybe this person has a trust issue too. it seems to me like ur thinking a lot about urself and barely any about your friend. maybe you should try having a conversation with the person without any "I" or "Me".... more about "YOU" and see if anything changes. She probably just needs someone right now and needs to be needed. maybe shes been hurt too. if u really care about the friendship, open up trust her cuz it seems she hasnt done nething wrong, and think of her, not urself for once!
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Hi, I am really confused on a certain subject. My friend and I have a lot of things in common. We do have some things different about us and those differences aren't major. She is just a really confusing person sometimes. She changes the way she feels over and over and it confuses me. Im the type of person that likes to run when things start to get hard but lately it feels like she is the one running away. To me it seems like she is coming straight out and telling me she doesn't want to be friends but yet i dont really know why. and i dont think she does either. what should i do? im 17 years old female. (link)
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hi. first i would like to say that its ok to be confused about some stuff like that. I am in a quite similar situation. Everyone can be confusing sometime. Did you ever think maybe she was going through a really hard time and just felt she had no one to talk to about stuff? tell her how u feel about her running away and ask her why she does it. maybe she just needs a friend or someone to talk to. u have to realize u guys are young and still going through changes. just let her know u are there for her no matter what. theres nothing else you can do. give eachother some time and see what happens. i hope i helped, im always here if u need more advice or nething.
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ok look me and my boyfriend have been goin out 4 6 months and we are in a deep relationship and we are both in love wit each other(by the way im 14 es 16) but he said he wants 2 spend the rest of his life wit me and so do i and i believe him cuz he tells his siter everything and she tells e wat he said and he wats 2 have sex but he said if i dont want 2 he will wait but i kindof do want 2 should i or not? (link)
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if you two are planning on spending the rest of your life together then whats the rush in having sex? i would wait until u are certain and married....
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alright well i've got this boyfriend and like i like him a lot! And we havnt had sex or anything but he wants to and what not. But my fear is that hes had sex with 5 different people... Thats nothing i'm interested in ya know! I'm still a virgin and like I'm not sure if i want to lose it to my boyfriend. See i'm scared to have sex with him because i'm scared of getting any STD or whatever. But like he claims he doesnt have any, because recently he got out of the hospital because he got into a major accident and he was in there for like 7 months, and they test you for all that and stuff and he says he hasnt had sex since hes been out of the hospital. Should i wait and see if hes the right person or what should i do!?! HELP ME! (link)
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ok, sex is a bigger thing for most girls then guys. dont do it unless youre sure u love this guy and hes worth it. him having sex with 5 other people makes it seem like he would do it with just about anyone. when u lose it u shoould make sure u will never regret it and a good way is to wait for marriage. i wouldnt have sex with him but thats just me. do what u really feel in your heart and that should be that if he cares about u he will wait until your ready and if he doesnt then hes definately not worth losing it to!
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How do you know if a guy is seriously right for you? Like, how do you know if they're not playing you and they're for real? (link)
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I guess its just how you can be urself around them. You should just get the feeling.....
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There is this guy who I can't stop thinking about and my BFF told me that he like me and was going to ask me out. I didn't believe her until one of his best buds told me the same thing. I was going to ask him myself but I really don't like asking guys out. So my friend told me not to cause he was going to ask me out at the end of the week. Well really I thought it was impossible for he to like me but he started talking to me more. Well the week passed and he didn't ask me out. now it summer break and I won't see him until August 4. I have his Phone# cause he told me to call him in my year book. I've tried but I didn't get an answer. What should I do. P.S. I'm 14 soon to be 15. (link)
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you should NOT obsess over this guy or spend all your time trying to talk to him. if its gonna happen, itll happen. You could try calling him a few times and leave ur number on his answering machine or something. dont be too attached.... dont stop doing things just with hope he will call or u will get a hold of him. go out, meet new people. have an awesome summer!
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