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Q: This is going to sound gross at first and I apologize. I'm going to try to word it as maturely as possible. Okay, I was talking to this boy that I sort of like, well, that I'm "attracted" to & he had a "boner" or whatever term you want to use. This happened right in the middle of lunch when we were chatting. People found out and started say that means I "arroused" him and that he must have some sort of attraction to me. I'm kind of confused on whether this is what it means because this happened. Thanks.
Btw, I'm 14/f
*jEsS*
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Well....Puberty Hits...and it hits hard...I'm sure you are trying to be mature about this, But i must say that this is completely normal for young adult males to experience. You have to understand that at this age the male reproductive organ...Or his penis...Is going through changes.Hormones that he has no control over are taking over his body. Although It might be true that you might of arroused the young man, you must understand that at this age young men cant control their errections, thus making an embarrassing impact on their lives. So in other words you cant blame the poor guy on something uncontrolable like this, so if you like him ,let him know you are mature about it and overlook what happened. I mean even sometimes for us women its hard to control our bodies.
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Q: I'm a fifteen year old female. I used to go out with this kid, Jake. He and I always had fun, but I thought he cheated on me, so I broke up with him. He told me he didn't, but I didn't believe him. I finally asked the girl I though he cheated with, and she was really surprised that I would think that. So I was wrong, and I was really mean to him. I got an email from him saying sorry for making me think that, and that he still really liked me. I feel like such a jerk, and I still really like him too! What should I do?
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Well first, acting on impulse can sometimes bring you you to this types of situations, You either end up getting hurt or hurting someone you care about. My overall advice is to get the facts straight, gather all your information before you make accusations.Especially if you really like a person. I know you are young and sometimes its eaiser to be influenced by rumors..that u hear in the hall way. Then actually taking the answer of the one you like. well If this guy is willing to work things out then u got yourself a SWEET HEART, just apologize for hurting him and work on trusting him. Trust is a basic necessasity in a realtionship. So communicate and trust eachother...Im sure that will bring you guys closer...I mean we all make mistakes...You should give it another try...
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Life can be complicated... in the eye of the beholder....But the deep penetrating thought of someday being completely satisfied...keeps us going....I want to help you find that reason to keep on going....
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Website: Gender: Female Location: California Age: 19 Member Since: April 10, 2005 Answers: 22 Last Update: April 17, 2005 Visitors: 2944
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