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Member Since: July 21, 2006
Answers: 27
Last Update: August 3, 2006
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i need advice! my freind is really skinny and she thinks shes fat. everyone tells her shes skinny, but she just seriously thinks shes fat and needs to loose weight. i dont think she is anorexic because ive seen her eat, but not that much. i think she goes to the bathroom after lunch, but thats normal, and i havent really paid attention to that every day. could she be anorexic or belemic? and if so, how do i talk to her about it?
help would be appreciated, thanx =] (link)
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if I were you I would talk to her if she were a true friend she would understand...tell her that she is scaring you because she rarely eats and you don't want anything bad to happen to her.and tell her she is perfect in every single way to you and to all of her friends,tell her everything you feel inside and she will understand what she is putting herself through without even realizing it.
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i dont have many friends. i have one best friend and then my other best friend is my cousin. usually i just sit at home on the computer at night and i feel so geeky and like a loser because everyone is out partying and stuff i mean thats what your suppose to do when your 16 right?! so why arent i. my brother has a girlfriend (hes 18) and he always has people come over to our house to hang out and they probably always see me here and think wow she is a loser. i wish i could invite people over but there is nothing to do! i just dont know my brother only plays poker with them and stuff. plus i dont have like any guy friends! and my best friend has a ton and sometimes she wants me to hangout with them with her but then im always scared and make up an excuse because im shy and then i think it will be awkward. when i do go with her though its boring and i get mad because she always flirts with the guys even when she has a boyfriend and i feel left out and out of place. i just dont know what to do the summer if half way over and i want to live it up!! =) im leaving to go on vacation though next tuesday so then after that i want to have fun or even this weekend! im never invited to parties either is my friends really so thats not an option and its not an option to throw a party either. i use to be so busy when i was in 9th grade and now im a home-body! =( i never do anything anymore i just want to get out! even my parents are like go downstairs or something go out youve been in the house all day! i would but i never have anything to do. what do you guys think i could do to help this situation? ..i dont want to join a club or sport either its just not me! i just wish i had more close friend that i could go out with and have fun! i have other friends but they are always soo busy...
people say im so pretty but ive never had a boyfriend and im really not good with guys..i have no confidence around people i dont know!
well thanks. (link)
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the only way to make a friend is to be a friend so when you go back to school or any oppurtunity to meet new people give it a go...when they are alone it is a good chance.just say hey you wanna hang out with me and tell them your name and say well its nice to meet you.
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okay well my friend is going through a rough time right now. her boyfriend just told her that he is gonna kill himself cause he wants to but he wont tell her why. he was starting to but then he just stoped typing ( it was on AIM ) the ages are 12. do you think he seriously could of meant it. cause he said he really wanted to cut himself also. & she is so worried about him because she loves him so much and she doenst want to loose him. any advice that i could tell her to do. that would be helpful thankks
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tell your friend to tell her boyfriend the truth and how she feels like Why he feels like doing this to himself and mabe she can help if that doesn't work immediatly bring it over to your parents or his parents and I mean immeadietly
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Well, last summer I met this guy at camp and he seemed really sweet, so we started hanging out. After a while we started dating and after about a month we had sex. After, we broke up and this guy at my school asked me out. He's really sweet and I like him a lot, but I still have feelings for the guy I met at camp. Then about a week after I started dating the other guy, the guy I met at camp wanted to get back together. Do you think I should get back together with him or is he just using me for sex? I really like the other guy and he's never mentioned sex once and he told me he loved me, what do I do? (link)
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well I would stick with the guy you have now not the one you had sex with.The one that you have now seems really sweet and he respects you,now you really don't know how many girls have been looking for that kind of guy!he seems sweet and has patience you know doesn't wanna get in your pants automatically.
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Ok so i'm 14 im 5'2 about 104 pounds. Ok well my problem is that i want my stomach to be flat and look good i mean its pretty much flat now but i have that band under my belly button. How do i fix this problem? (link)
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oh that is so cool I am going through that to although my stomach is not that flat but the secret is to do crunches it is working for me I am getting abs and when I was wearing a bikini
my abs were noticable
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im 13/f
--im really self contious and i keep on askin my friends wat they think and stuff like that
--then when i do it alot they think im annoyin and dont like me anymore but they dont tell me
--and sumtimes i feel that my friends look like they're so put together and im the one thats stressing over wat i look like
--can sum1 help me! tell me how i can stop annoyin my friends and stop bein jealous all the time and how do i get my friends to like me again (link)
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I am 13 as well and sometimes I am contious or however you spell that...but the truth is don't let your size and weight ruin your personality.I have a friend who is really fat but she is a good friend and only certain people can see that because they look skin deep...but please whatever you do do not go on those crazy crash iets at all those are scary and you could end up anorexic
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a guy i work with likes me...he asked me if i wanted to go out on a date with him and i was like, ok..because i wanted to give him a chance. well i didnt see him or talk to him for like a week and then today at work he was like, "sorry i didnt call you my grandpa was in the hospital this week" and i was like aw ok. then he got this girl i work with to deliver me and card and roses to my register asking me out again...the thing is, after this week of thinking about him i really dont like him! i guess i could hang out with him, but i dont like him and i dont want to like him because hes going to school away from home in like 3 weeks! how should i tell him i dont like him in a romantic way? (link)
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there really is no easy way out here just doing your best not to hurt his feelings...well I would say you really are a great guy but your just not the one for me but there definetly is somone else out there for you trust me...
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