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I have a friend who has a guy friend and i talk to hum on aim and hes kinda wierd but he likes me so what do i do? i dont wanna be mean... (link)
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Yeah well if you don wanna go out with him then you shouldnt have to. Just tell him that you dont want to and he should understnad. Good luck!
xoxo,
Rose
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Hey Rose,
The other day i went to the supermarket to buy some socks. It sounds weird but anyways. I found these really great pair. When i was walking out the sound thing went off and eveyone thought that i was shoplifting. So i sat on this bench inside the store and waited until it stopped. Then this guy came over and told me to go into the batheroom and wait till my mom came to pick me up because i "shop lifted" but i really didn't. So i was scared because my mom doesn't speak english..she can listen to it and understand it but she can't talk it well. So i came out ad i saw my mom come in the store so i sat on the bench. The hole time my mom kept going "Mi babi no take soks from store. She good. Not take soks from store." and yelling on and on and on at this person. Then ppl that i knew were walking by and saw me and i just started laughing like she wasn't my mom. Then i grabbed a random shirt and bought it to make it even more convinsing but then the guy i like came up to me and was like "Nice mom"..and i was like " Oh..yeah i'd hate to be..her child" and i walked out of the store with him to the ppl that i knew outside the store and then i realized that my mom was about to come out so i quickly told them that they were giving free ice cream out in this other store so they ran away. We finally went home. I told my friend about it and she is now mad at me because i was mean to my mom..which i don't think is any of her buisness which i told her. What should i do?
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Well, I agree that it is none of her business, and you were not mean to your mom. Tell her that you accept her advice,k but do not agree..good luck!!
xoxo,
Rose
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Hey I have a friend who i really like and we've been friend since we were like we were 5 or 6 and she is changing. I mean she goes to wild parties and shes only under 16. She hangs out with all of her friends who she knows alot less than me but she treats them alot diffrently. I really want to ignor it but I cant. How do I deal with it? (link)
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Hey--
Um... well i think you should talk to him/her and tell him/her how you feel. Tell them that you think they act differently around their other friends and you dont like it because they act fake around the other friends. Good luck! Lemme know how it goes!
xoxo,
Rose
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So i was out with a bunch of my friends and i saw this person that i liked so i started talking to him. My friends were all whispering to eachother when usually they would be with me talking to him. And one of my friends comes up to me and tells me wut they were saying pretending to be talking to the guy. It turns out that they were saying that shit(sry lol) about me and so ofcourse i went over and totally embaressed them infront of people. I was like you think im this and then said a bunch of stuff and the guy that was there and his friends were laughing at them and then i ditched them and walked around with the guy except one friend came with me..the one that told me that they were talking about me. Later that day they told me that they were sorry and stuff and that the person who started talking about me..liked the person too. And then we hung out. But then the guy asked me out and i told him that i would have to get back to him..so what should i say? I know that she likes him but he asked ME out so that shows that he likes me..so i asked her if she would mind and she said no i don't like him anymore and so i said yes to the guy and now the girl is ignoring me its soooo annoying!. Nowwwwwwwwww what? (link)
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Heyy-
Talk to the girl be like you said you wouldnt hav a prob with it so why are u ignoring me? it shows that she might be a little jealous and she might not want you guys to go out inside. But if u wanna go out with him DONT let her choose for U!!!
Good luck!!!
xoxo
rose
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my boyfriend had S-E-X with another girl. im crying what do i do (link)
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Wow! im soooo sorry! dont let it get to you, obviously you are WAYYYYY too god for him and he is an asshole to cheat on you like that. Find someone who wont cheat on you!!!
hope i helped!!
xoxo
rose
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Hi Rose!!
I don't have many friends, so the ones I do have are really close to me. Anyway, my "best" friend all the sudden starts getting all these other friends! I am getting really jealous and we all get together my friend gangs up on me...
What do i do???
Luv Ya Rose!! (link)
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Well she shouldnt be ganging up on you, but you have to realize that she can have other friends, but she shouldnt leave you out. I think you should tell her that it works better wen just the 2 of you hang out... and you can hang out just the 2 of you... Good Luck!
Love, Rose
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hey rose
the other day me and my boyfriend were at my house and he slept over. the next morning he told me he had to go to work, so he left. then i noticed he had left his jacket at my house and it was chilly outside so i drove over to the restaurant where he worked. he wasnt at the counter so i figured id wait for him til it was his turn. i waited for about an hour and he didnt come, so i figured id go in the back door. i opened the door and i found him making out with a girl that he worked with. they were so involved w/ eachother that they didnt notice i came in, and i was so in shock that i just shut the doorand left. he called me later that afternoon and asked me to come over, but i was still so angry and upset that i just hung up on him. i dont know what to say to him...help!!! (link)
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Wow....im sooo sorry for you! I do not think you should forgive him anytime soon... HE CHEATED ON YOU!!!!! I think you should tell him that it was wrong of him and that you're worth more than that. Tell him it will be a long time till you forgive him and dont feel bad for him (he frikin CHEATED on you)!!! Hope i helped!!! write bakk if u need anything else!
--Rose
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I have a friend that i hang out a lot with. And whenever we hang out, our other friend gets mad. So she always has to hide that she comes over or something. I told my friend who cares if she knows you don't have to listen to her but she is always like no i don't want her mad. So what do i do to make the other person less annoying? (link)
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Well i have this same exact problem... I think you should tell her that if your other friend is gonna get mad at you then she is jealous and you should not be friends with her because she wants you to be just her friend. Also, talk to the other friend and be like we can get together if we want without you gettin mad!
Good luck, rose
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i thikn my freind is becoming ill. she keeps calling me "sandrA" even tho my name is karen! and yesterday she was siting on the bathroom toilet talking 2 me, and i was in the living room until i came in and fuond her/. we served her dinner and cleaned her hole plate nd then later she was complaning about wanting dinner, even tho she had already ate. what can i do to help her??
~karen (link)
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I think you should tell someone about this. Either talk to your parents or hers, because I think there is something a lil wrong, and you should help fix it. Good luck, ROse
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Okay so 2 days ago I went to the mall with my best friend. And we were looking at these purses at this one store and then these two guys walked in that went to my school (they were there with these two other girls so thats why they were in this purse store) and so my friend tells me that we should leave but i was like no we are friends with them so i walked over and started talking with them and then 5 minutes later when we were walking out she said "ooh i hate those people" ..the next day i saw her outside talking with them and then she went inside with them. I was wondering what she was doing so later that day i called her and i was like "You said you hate those people" and she was like " There's a problem" and so she was just saying that i was like not cool or something and then so the next day i was talking to my other friends and they said that she hung out with them not the other people and then so i was confused so i called my friend again and i was like where were you and she was like i had to go see my father and i was like what so i got enev more confused so i decided that i would go back to the mall. So the question is..Should i buy the brown purse or the pink one???
--Confused One (link)
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HAHAHA!!! nice question... i like pink better so i say buy the pink one!! =)
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one of my really good friends and i got into a fight with this other girl from school (shes now my enemy). and now my really good friend is becoming RLY good friends with the person we got into a fight with. i really dislike that....ive tried talkin to mi friend but shes always like 'oh im going to the movies w/ her today' and my friend CLAiMS she doesnt like her. but now shes doing EVERYTHING w/ her. and when i ask her why shes like 'oh its because im bored and have nothing better to do' and i have a feeling thats not why. and its really bugs and annoys me. What should i do? (link)
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Hey--
Ok well i think you should talk to her. If she was mean to you or soemthing then you're friend shoudlnt be friends with her because she doesnt deserve her. Also, make sure you're friend isnt saying anything to her you dont want her to. And i mean like you cant control who she is friends with no offense, but i dont think she shoudl claim not to like her and then hang out with her. That shows that she is worried about what you will think if she admits she likes her. So anyways, unfortunately you cant control who she is friends with but you can talk to her and be like " Why are you friends with her if you know I hate her and if she was mean to me" or like "why do you deny you're friendship". This was a tough but good question. Hope i helped... write agen if i didnt!!
--Rose
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hi,
there's this that i used to be best friends with but im just like acquaintances with her now. She keeps on asking if I want to do something with her but Im not sure if I want to be friends with her yet. She can be really annoying and stuff. What should I do? What should I tell her? Thanks for helpin me out. (link)
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Hey--
Well what i think is that you shouldnt pretend to be her friend. Like if you dont want to hang out with her then just be like I dont think im ready yet, but you should give her a chance if you ever want to be friends with her. Like a walk or something! So just tell her that you dont wanna like hang out but you'll like walk with her or something because a walk is quick and simple. Good Luck!
xoxo, rose
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hey rose,
ok so i had boohoo this boy friend who like totally broke up with me just because i not going to his skool anymore so like he think we wont see each other but i sooooooooo still like him and want him bak. i dont no wat to do cause a boy never broke up with me before i usually brake up with them laugh out loud (its more fun) how do i get him bak love ya hun it (jordan) xoxoxox you rock babe (link)
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HEy jordan--
well i dont think you need to "get him back" no offense but im sure he did it for a reason, and its probably whats best for both of you. So ya.... see ya tonight!!!
luv ya!
xoxo,
rose
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I really, really ike this guy at school named Logan. How do I tell him I absolutely adore him.
Thanks Rose,
~ Amy (link)
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Um hi Amy...
Just be like hey logan.... then make a conversation and then start flirting like be like You know logan youre really cute or somethin like that... ok good luck
xoxo,rose
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rose...this is not A JOKE... i relly like u..i think i mite love u. i dunno wat to do about it....how can i tell if u like me? (link)
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Um you have to ask me if i like you i guess lol
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hey rosita!
keep up the awesome advice chick!
i need your help so bad tho lol!!!
i like the guy hes so hot. the other day he was like i like you back. i dont know what to say, because he told me he wants to do like a lot like head and stuff. what should i say, because i do really like him!
help me chica! (link)
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Well if you both like eachother then WALLAH, we gotta match! lol... but um if you dont wanna do stuff like give him head and stuff then just tell him and if hes like "oh well then we shouldnt go out" then that means all he wants from you is sex, and he's not worth it but if he's like ok its cool, then you should DEFINITELY start soemthing and see how it goes... so id say just be like " Listen, *his name*, i wanna go out with you, but i think we should take things slow and see what happens" then see what he says... Good luck! im always here to help ya!
xoxo, rose
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i really like you and i think ur so hot. every time i see you i get so horny and get boners and stuff.can u please not be so hot bcz its making me get boners and they kinda hurt wen i get em? (link)
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lol haha i no this is a joke but w/e
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Hola Rosita, yup Rose its me. The guy i like is hot and I think he likes me back. He asked me who i liked and I was like thats random and he was like im jwjw and then he signed off. Then in school today he was like holding my hand and he gave me a massage and I gave him one too ;). What do u think I should do now and do u think he likes me? Thanks Rosita (link)
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HEy! Yes, i think he likes you(and he always has bc didnt he like u last year)?... he held your hand!!! You guys were obviously flirting!!! lol! I think you should let him know that you like him because he's probably wondering the same thing and i definitely see a relationship starting here. Good luck! Im always here for you !
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my friend is a 'sexy beast' so to speak. And can get any guy she disires. She could even get Arbauck if she wanted to(thats how sexy she is). While she is lookin hott and flirtin i feel like the ugly stepsister ,so to speak, that cant get a guy. Everytime i try flirtin with someone they runaway and go to my friend. I desperately want to be like my friend and want to get head. I dont even care who it is nemore i just want some action so i can feel special even if that means bein called a slut. What should i do to get more guys to notice me and not my friend? (link)
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Well, no offense but let the guys decide. But what you can do is go up to them and start talking to them and see what happens, but thats kind of all i can say. Its up to the guys and im sure theres a guy out there for you. And you said you wanna give head... dont just do it to be able to say you did it... do it when you feel affection for someone. Also, tell your friend that you want a guy and maybe she can set you up with one that she doesnt want. Hope it helps!
xoxo, rose
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hey rose,
i have a really good friend and i really like her a lot. she is fun to hang out with and stuff. the only problem is that evryone else hates her and thinks that shes annoying. sometimes, she ditches em in the hall to talk to the preps cuz she thinks that they actually like her. i mean i love her a lot(as a friend),but sometimes she does get annoying. wen i talk to her about a problem, she says that im controlling. what do i do? (link)
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Well... dont do what other people do like if you really like her, then it doesnt matter that people think shes annoying, because what if you stopped being friends because of what THEY thought. And if she thinks people like her that dont, then let her think that because maybe she gets joy out of it. You know? Now, the other part is more of a biggie. Everyone gets annoying now and then, and the fact that she says you are controlling is what gets me. If she says you are controlling, you should just say "I just want you to know because i dont want people to think you're annoying" try it and see what happens. GREAT question by the way. Let me know how it goes!!!
xoxo, rose
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