This is my advice column. I promise to answer any questions that you give me unless they are: Racist, Homophobic, Sexist, Rude or Inapropriate. If you have a personal question that you want to ask me feel free to istant message me with aim. DO NOT CUSS! if you do i will not answer it. sorry but this is to help people not for you to vent your anger.
Gender: Male
Location: Burbank
Occupation: Loser
Age: 18
AIM: hfturkey76
Member Since: July 11, 2006
Answers: 170
Last Update: February 1, 2007
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I really need to talk to this one person, but they keep ignoring me. I feel stupid for what I did to them and kinda understand why they're upset. They ignore my calls and everything. I really need to set things straight, but how can I do this when they ignore me? (link)
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you just got to give it time. eventually they will come around. it also may be a good time to think about what you did to them, and use that to make sure you dont make that mistake again. it will all happen in time
mike T.
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How do you deal with someone who won't except the fact that you don't want to talk, see, or hear from them for a long time? I mean should I tell them all the things they put me through and how many times they made me cry? Or should I just put them on ignore? HELP. (link)
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hard question,
i am a christian so i believe in forgiving and forgetting. but one of the hardest things for me to do is forget. it really depends on how much crap this person did to you. i mean, i have told certain people that i dont want to talk to a person for a long time and some people have told that to me. eventually i come around and forget what happened and everything is back to normal but all people are different and everyone has there own way of doing things. maybe sitting the person down and having a serious talk will help if you havent tried that its worth a try.
mike T.
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Is it out of the ordinary to feel like you never want or need to fall in love ever again? And you're perfectly fine with being by yourself? (link)
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nope i think its sorta normal. sometimes you dont feel like you need to love because everything in your life is probably going smoothly but....one day someone will come along that will completely take your breath away and your whole attitude will change. till then just be you and dont worry about love.
mike T.
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Okay so I went to a concert the other night with a guy Ive known since I was 11 and I hadn't seen in 2 years. And over those two years he got EXTREMELY HOT! And he's a really cool guy too. He's perfect, but he has a girlfriend already. I want him so bad! What should I do? (link)
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patience is a virtue,
all you can do is wait. dont try to interfere with his relationship with his gf cuz thats just not cool. if this guy likes you then he will show interest if he doesnt than he wont. its that simple.
mike T.
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Check this out...
My girlfriend is a real sex feind and she wants it all the time. I love to do it too but i just can't handle it as much as she wants. What should i do? (link)
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you might just wanna take things slow
listen to "NIce and Slow" by Usher
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OK hear it is, I dated this girl named carrie for about four months and we broke up because she was still in love with her ex. ive tried so hard to get her back but i seam to be very good at failing. but now she has decided that she wants to take an intrest in me again and now a girl from my church and I are falling in love.
What should i do? (link)
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sounds like you are in quite a dilemma,
from what i understand out of this whole situation is that you are in love with another girl and your ex-gf that you desperately tried to get back with is liking you again.
do what makes you happy.
if the girl you are with right now is making you happy and you feel great with her, good.
cuz for all you know your ex just wants you for a couple days and then its back to not wanting you again.
make your choice wisely. and seriously think about it.
whatever choice you make stick by it!
mike T.
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my brother and i were in car accident recently and i was driving and totaled my brand new escalade. my brotehr told the police and our parents that he was hte one driving so i wouldnt get in trouble since i had only had my licnese for a few months and he has had his for about 6 years. i feel horrible about the whole thing. should i tell my parents the truth or just let it be? (link)
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well,
this same situation happened to me when i was like thirteen, but it wasnt involving a escalade and i didnt even have my license. your best bet is to just tell the truth. its not worth it to lie about a situation like this. i mean it will suck at first but at least you are being honest to your parents and your conscience wont be eating at you. use your best judgement.
hope this helps,
mike T.
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Why do you look like a monkey? (link)
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i dont know
everyday i look in the mirror and ask God why id do....
i guess its gonna be a mystery
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Wanna have sex????
=] (link)
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nope
wanna come to church with me
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will you loosten up my buttons baby? (link)
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nope. not possible
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why wont you have sex with me?! (link)
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cuz you are wierd
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i have two peices of bread and a spoon with jelly and a butterknife with peanut butter and IM STARVING! what should i make!? (link)
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sounds like you are having a big problem!
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What do u do when it all falls apart? (link)
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start a band with your twin sister, and name it after a very popular american name.
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Panty liners?.... (link)
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are for woman unless your one of them wierd guys
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Shorky yorky..? (link)
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who is this?
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forks?... (link)
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and knives
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i am standing next to a washing machine. my shirt is dirty. WHAT DO I DO!? (link)
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throw it in the trash, who likes to wash clothes?
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So there is this guy and he called brendon urie gay. I flipped. Cause he is not gay! and if he was....i would still love him...he is not gay just because he made out with ryan ross!
HE IS BI!
answer... (link)
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is there a reason i am bothered at this time for something like this. both of them are not gay cuz they both have girlfriends. sorry if that breaks your heart.
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Whens the best time to wear a striped sweater? Spongebob said all the time and I agree.....do you? (link)
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you can wear a striped sweater whenever you feel like it. Fashion is in the eye of the beholder so wear w/e you want, you dont have to make your self mold to everyone else.
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Are you gay? (link)
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So like I was saying if it came down to me answering these questions or me being gay or not,
I think its pretty obvious...
I'm gay.
and if anybody beleives that you dont know me
of course i am not
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