I want to give people my advise, and i hope it will help them and give them a better view on there problems. xx
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Last Update: June 29, 2009
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ok so today my best friend's boyfriend surprisingly snuck a kiss on my cheek but it wasn't a little friendly kiss it was more romantic and i don't know what to do i want to tell her but i don't want to ruin the relationship between all three of us because he's like a big brother to me so what do i do and why do i feel guilty when i didn't do anything wrong??? (link)
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Tell your friend after all you did not do anything wrong and if she is really a friend she will not be angry with you she has no right to be he tried it on. It sounds like you dont like this guy as anything more than a friend explain this, you dont want to lead him on and lose him forever. Your friend will realise she is with the wrong guy and find someone who loves her back everyones happy.
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I think I really love this guy. He's funny, cute, a real gentleman, nice, and he's any thing a girl could ask for. We are kinda friends but I'm scard to talk to him so we can be more. What shouls I do? (link)
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Try talking to him online or something bulid a relationship and then that will lead to talking to him and then ask him to hang out and who knows what might happen. Just be yourself, be confident. guys like confident girls.He sounds really nice and you think alot of him but just make sure you are not going to get your heart broken.
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Our puppy is 8 months old now, just got fixed this last week. He's a boy, and a smallish dog. He's been fully housetrained from about 3-4 months old.
Over the last month or so, he's been defecating but NOT urinating inside every once in a while, in one room in particular. We let him out every hour or two, so that's not an issue. He gets punished for it (often we don't catch him in the act, though, since it's in a room we don't often use), and we clean it up with a special animal smell removing cleaner.
Any ideas as to why he might be doing this? Or how to stop it? Until we figure something else out, he's being crated full-time with bathroom breaks. Is this the right thing to do? I'm worried he'll regress and start doing all of his business inside.
Thanks in advance for your help. (link)
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why dont you go to your local vet your dog can be ill and you might regret it. i also have a dog which i love and she has being well trained to bark at the door when she needs out. Mabye you can teach your dog to do this! Hope this has helped you.
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Ok I really need to redo my room but the problem is I don't know what I want the theme or color to be. I was thinking about a zebra print theme or peace theme or love theme or nature theme or maybe not a theme at all. I really need some ideas.I want my room to be really cool and be MY room.I was thinking of getting a painting or something in my room to base the colors and theme off of that. i am 15 years old female.Is there a website I can go to to see cool ideas and order things from? (link)
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Why not decorate your room to fit your personality that way it will be way more personal to you and show who you are. If you love bright colours so that. if your laid back and like calm coulors then do that.Hope this helped.
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so a whole bunch of really hip friend of mine invited me to an amusement park, im so excited but here lays the problemo- IM TERRIFIED OF THOSE LITTLE THINGS WE LIKE TO CALL ROLLERCOASTERS!! i need to get over that phobia. any help? pleeeeasse! they cant think im not cool just because im terrified! (link)
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My advise to you would be to not anything you are not comfortable with and if you do decide to do it then before you go on syc yourself up tell yourself "i can do this im not afraid" . there are lots of people who have the same fear. just dont be ashamed.
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Ok.. I have this weird kind of puffiness under my eyes and I don't know what to do to get rid of it.. I've tried a lot of things but none of them work.. It kind of always looks like I didn't get enough sleep even though I do.. If anyone has any ideas, please let me know.. thanks :) (link)
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Well a good concelar will cover it up, but if you want to get rid of it all toghter then i would advise you to go to your doctors ask him if theres anything he can do to help. Drink plenty of water and have the right amount of sleep.
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I liked this guy for over 8 months. And he liked me, but i turned him down. I never wanted to go out with him. He then found a girlfriend because he wanted to get over me, and he still kept trying to cheat on his girlfriend with me. Now after 8 months they broke up and he's really trying to get with me again. Now that i have him, i really don't want him. He just annoys me when I'm with him. But when im away from him or he ignores me i start to like him. I don't know what to do! (link)
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sounds like you always want someone you cant have. this is not fair to his feelings and you are being very selfish. try and find someone else you do care about.
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ok so i like this guy. and he knows i like him. (long story) so the other day my friend was texting him and she said so do you like smileygirl513?(me) and then he said yea a little. the thing is like then another time my friend went up to him and asked him if he liked me and his face like lite up and said idk. then another time my friend was like soo who do like and he said me! so like it depends who he is talking to if he says he likes, doesnt know or only a little. so whats the deal? does he like me or not?
and oh yeah he always stares at and even my friends notice. and one time i was with my friend and him and sometimes it seemed like he was only talking to my friend and not me too. and wen i fisrt went up to him he looked stunned but idk if it was good or bad. so my question is DOES HE LIKE ME! i need advice BADDD! (link)
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hello, it sounds like he likes you but guys are always changing there minds.sounds like he does not know what he wants at the moment and if he keeps staring just stare back. Or you can ask him so do you like me or not?..and tell him you cant wait around forever.
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I am a boy and im 13. i play waterpolo and unlike most think i am not gay! I went to train in colorado springs in the olympic training center and i met this girl, for privacy lets call her katie.
So me and katie were both from the same zone( area were teams play eachother) so we see eachother 4 or 5 times a year. At the camp we made out, problem was i found out she has a boyfriend..who she "loves."
so I stay in contact with her (texting email ect..) and her friends start adding me on myspace, one of them (girl,lets call her jamie) asked for my number so i gave it to her no big deal then she started sending me weird messages.. and when katie found out she got pisse, like all of the sudden i belong to he.so they fight then some how it ends up being myfault! kstie gos to her boyfriend and he just thinks i was being a dick to her he doesnt know we made out. Basically the problem is this, i have to fight 5 guys at a tourdament coming up im a year younger then them and i cant and wont go to my parents ( pride thing). its not my first fight and me and my team mates are tight so they agreed to fight with me, i still dont wana figh tho but i will. any and all help is welcomed. thanks (link)
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I think you should explain to Katie that she needs to tell her boyfriend the truth about what happened. And fighting is not the anwer to everything. tell katie that she has a boyfriend who she claims to love so you can give your number out to whoever you want! You should tell someone even if its not your parents for example your grandparents,best friend or siblings.
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I have good friends but a lot of my school either doesnt know me or thinks i am really shy. I'll admit I am shy when i first meet people, it takes me awhile to warm up to them. I consider myself to be pretty and think i am really outgoing and funny when i am myself. but people who dont know me think i am just silent, quiet, or shy. and even when i AM myself, im still not loud and obnoxious like others are, im just very relaxed, calm, and chill. thats just the way i am. but it makes me feel bad about myself because people say to me like you never talk, or your so quiet, and part of me accepts the fact that i am just a quiet person and want to say like yeah deal with it but the other part kind of wants to be like my other friends who are loud and obnoxious. these people that say this are usually guys too and i just dont get why it would bother people. like whoo cares if i talk a lot or not whats it to them? anything would be of big help, thanks (link)
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hello,im around the same age as you and i know how you feel. Im exactally the same im just very laid back and people say im queit. Well just be yourself and dont change. And if there are some people who dont like you for who you are then forget them because they are not worth getting to know. Explain to people you are not shy, just say you dont know me well enough to judge me.It bothers them because they want to see you come out of your shell what they dont understand is this is you.
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Well... hi. (Sorta long... sorry )
I have this friend his name is Matt... and I really love him. I finally told him exactly how I felt about him. I told him I loved him.. and I really do. He told me... that he has a girl friend and he likes me as a friend .... nothing more. So... I am really hurt and I told him that... we worked everything out and were still friends...but.. I STILL love him. I CAN'T get him out of my MIND. My heart aches all the time... because he has someone else. I don't want to get up in the morning to go to school because he's there and every time I see him... in the hallway... or anything...I feel like I am going to cry. I really don't know what to do anymore. I want to be happy and find someone who loves me back, but there's no other guy that I love more than Matt. Can someone help me out ? (link)
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hello, okay it sounds like you really like this guy but the thing is you have to try and move on. no matter how much you think you love him you have to let go of the ones you love. Sacrifice is one of the things you have to go through. If he likes you he will come to you and tell him how hard it is. His girlfriend might not be around for long but he will always have someone else if he does not feel the same. go on some dates who knows you might find someone who loves you back.
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