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i procrastinate too much. help?
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wow my sister has the same problem. me? well i do all my work the day its assigned so i have time to do fun stuff later on...
here is a hint, set a goal everyday, and if you reach that goal, reward yourself with something you like (tv, chocolate, etc.) and the only hard part is setting your goal, don't set it too low because it is as bad as procrastinating...don't set it too high cuz you'll be stressed out. but it works when you are doing your work because you want something, it motivates you and you just HAVE to have that thing...so you can do the rest.
if that doesn't help, then i guess you can take EXTREME measures and do something that i like to call... ANTI-PROCRASTINATING...it's what i do, if you are assigned a two week project, IMMEDIATELY start brainstorming and thinking of ideas and then research and then put the visual together and set your goal for finishign THREE TO FOUR days early...that way, if you forget something, you have four leeway days to improve the project but you wont NOT have a project at all!
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a few months ago i painted my bedroom this elaborate pinkish orange color and its beautiful but its sooo vibrant. not to sound gothic, but im not a VIBRANT kinda girl. i love the color but.. i need to off-set it a little with a darker color bedding or curtains.. any suggestions? (link)
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pinkish orange? is that peach? well to offset peach all i can think of is a chocolate color...but i don't think you would like that
you could have navy blue bedsheets or curtains...that would look pretty good
yeaaah maroon is pretty good to work with..good idea..you answered your own question!
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Alright. This is going to be extremley confusing. I'm in a relationship with this guy named *Tom*. We've been dating for 2 months. We only hold hands and cuddle. We don't make out or anything. Haven't even kissed. I kind of regard him as an older brother now.
Now there's this other guy, *mark*. we've been wanting to date for over 7 months, but couldn't because of different reasons. Now we want to go out together. We are fine to talk, cuddle, make out, and even do some physical stuff together. And I really care for him. Deeply.(BUT I HAVE NOT DONE ANY OF THIS WHILE I HAVE BEEN WITH *TOM*)
Now I recently, as in two days ago, met this guy named *Pat*. He's really sweet and fun to talk to, and he likes to treat me sweetly, kiss my hand, hug me, hold hands...but he knows i have a boyfriend. I feel so helpless. like it's not right to say no. He wants me to break with *tom and go with him, but I don't know...*mark* wants me to break with *tom* to go with him too..
I honestly don't know what to do.
I've gotten into a mess...
Please give me valuable advice....
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well, it looks like the flame is gone for *tom*, so the first thing you should say is "life has been really hectic for me these days and i don't think that things will go too far with us and i'm really sorry because i have no other way to say this." or something..your break-up speech and see about *mark* and *pat* and look at their PERSONALITY NOT LOOKS..guys consider girls shallow when they go otu with somebody for their looks. personally, pick a guy who is fun and wont bore you because you seem like a girl who gets bored easily and make sure they are GOOD guys, no potheads or nazi lovers or something. it's all true what angelfire said..
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I think that this girl is my best friend, or at least I thought I did. Now, she seems to like to hang out with this other girl that hates me more than me, she never laughs at any of my jokes when other people do, she ignores me sometimes, and she never hangs out with me that much around other people. I'm starting to get the feeling that she doesn't want to be friends anymore, but I just feel so bad to know that I lost a friend. (link)
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wow that must be really tough. would you feel better about first confirming that she actually DOES have a different attitude towards you than rather jumping to conclusions? i would do that first, and see if she opens up. if she says she doens't want to talk to it, it's most probably not about you and about something personal that might have something to do with her family or something. BUT, whatever happens, don't think that you have to change YOURSELF to make her like you again, that NEVER works and you should NEVER do it for ANYONE (including a boyfriend, just telling you) so, if she says that she doesn't like you too much anymore, just say "if that's how it has to be, then i'm truly sorry" and i know you will be hurting for a few days, but you will EVENTUALLY get over it. but be glad that it happened a little before things got OUT OF HAND if you know what i mean ;)! maybe she was forced by peer pressure and that group that doesnt like you is saying that she should be bad to you and MAYBE they dropped in some lies about you. there are so many variables and circumstances, but i'm letting you be ready for all of them. this reply is running long, but just remember that you will have to let her go if she has a problem with you. if she thought you had a problem with her, then sort things out and say that maybe you were being hostile to her because you thought she was a little distant from you and that can easily be misconcepted. well, i wish you the best with your problems!
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ok there is this girl i like and shes dating my friend but i still like her since the sixth grade. Now she knows i still like her and im all messed up. what should i do? (link)
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she knows you like her? she didn't respond in any way? well, since i'm a girl, i know that she wouldn't like it very much if you interfered when she's in a relationship. wait, if they get serious, then you should try moving on. if she breaks up with him, try becoming closer friends with her and everything will progress. and try to act normal and nonchalant around her so she isn't reminded that you like her, it gives her a chance to try to like you back!
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I am HSC (10+2) pass from Gujarat Education Board, Gujarat, Board. How I have degree BCA by correspondence/ online from Home. I am a Government servant. Please guide me at the earliest...Regards....
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wait, is this a question?
ah nvm
i'm not from gujarat, but sort of close...
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What are bath salts? Can I get them at Bath and Body Works? Well I'm doing my science fair project on bath salts and my questions is WHICH BATH SALT COLOR LAST THE LONGERST IN WATER? Its not like you guys all needed to know but if you guys have any ideas for me on this project I'd like to know. Could you guys tell me little about bath salts?Please and Thank You! (link)
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bath salts are available at bath & body works..i love that store...anyway
bath salts are like tiny rock-looking salts that smell good and you just sprikle them in the tub when you are taking a bath and they just make you feel good.
how can you do a project on something you don't know?
color?? i don't know about that...
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What are some websites that you can get backgrounds for myspace's? (link)
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so many!!! well my favorite site in the whole wide world that is a REALLY good site for layouts and HTML help is.. www.createblog.com
you really should go there because they have awesome layouts there, too!
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..........my coach has these mood swings....and he gets all mad at me even though im trying my best....then he'll tell me to do some crazy skill that could cost me my life.....i tell him i cant and i know i cant...but he says that im ready for it...but im not.......wut should i do....cuz if i say ok, ill get hurt...and if i say no...he starts yellin at me....so wut should i do?
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clint??
ok
is this about gymnastics??
well i think you should consult him in private and tell him that you aren't ready for that kind of pushing yet and you are scared to take that risk because you might get hurt
if he's a good coach, he'll understand!
-see you at school
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ok well i have a boyfrend n i wanna find a cute way to put i (link)
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well you could do a love poem and then add a line of your own saying "i love you ____, and i always will.."
but you have to find a poem for yourself because its really easy to...just go to a search engine
aww....that's so sweet that you want to DECLARE something like that!
i hope you guys always stay together!
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okay you see.. my computer is so messed up and i want to reinstall windows but i dont know how.. can someone explain to me and will it mess my computer upp? (link)
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you can't re-install windows because there is no possible way
consult somebody near by and maybe they can help because i can't really tell you anything unless you describe what it is doing wrong...?
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I have to learn all the countries, their locations, and their capitals by tomorow. ( I have 3 tests on them tomorow ) Any ideas to help me study, I'm having alot of trouble and these are major tests!!
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in africa??
ok no problem
type all the info up in three columns (country, location, capital) and then list all of the countries and study them..try to memorize them!! and then you can get something to cover up the columns and quiz yourself
do you get it??
like you NEVER cover up the country column and then you cover up the capital and location columns and see if you can recite them without looking
it worked for me and a europe quiz
africa is pretty easy...just try to actually SPEND TIME until you get them all correct!!
all you need is the patience...
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i just came back from arizona and im really dry... like dry white stuff on me... i use alo and skin softener... it works a little bit... how can i cure this? (link)
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yeah use the dry skin lotion..and apply it three times a day
you said it was from tanning??
is it sunburn?
if the skin is peeling..then you should take nice showers so that all the dead skin cells don't cling to your body
i know it isn't the greatest thought in the world, but it's true!!
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I just started a new job today in the clothing department of a superstore.
The store hasnt opened yet so we were cleaning the diplay tables for the first couple hours which was fine, but then my boss had us folding clothes onto the tables. She told me TWICE that I wasn't folding them neatly enough even though I was trying my best. I was working with two other girls and she was being harder on me than the other two and I'm not sure why. I was so stressed out about it that when I got home I wanted to throw up and I went staight to bed.
My next shift is tomorrow and I really want to impress her.
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wow that is a doozy..
hehe
ok i'll get to the point now
do you have any CLUE why she might've been harder on you?
i know what it feels like to be under pressure because you want to impress somebody but all they say is that you aren't doing good enough or you should try harder
just go early tomorrow and ask her
"have i done something wrong because i feel that we were a bit tense yesterday.."
or something along those lines
and she'll either apologize or tell you what was wrong
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k i have this extreme pain on my left side it started in my hip and has gone to the left back side and it hurts like hell to put pressure oon that leg.. i know i suck at discribing but has anyone had this kind of pain and has gone to a doctor or atleast knows what this is..? ill rate you 5 no matter what (if its a serious answer)
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it started at your hip??
do you remember doing any physical activity before it that could have triggered it?
i remember i used to have back pain because i didn't stretch properly before a volleyball game and it really sucked because i didn't go to the doctor. if it's your muscle that is paining..then you might've just pulled it like i had and you'll just have to wait till it heals..
OUCH..if it doesn't go away after awhile..then you should go see your doctor and he'll check to see what medication you need!
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k. so dont scream... lol
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thats a picture of me. (weird questiond so far, right?)
ANYWAYS........this saturday is my homecoming...and im going to get my hair done and style, but i dont know what would look good.
my dress is long and black, with some pink and its spaghetti strap.
so my question is....how should i get my hair styled?
(ill rate what i think you deserve..in other words...dont be mean-you'll get a 5 =] lol)
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well i think you should have an elegant hairstyle like CURLS if it is a gown-ish dress
if the dress is more laid back and short and stuff you can have a pretty hairstyle to balance it out..straight but in a half ponytail (the top part of your hair is pulled back but the other is just loose and put some accessories in your hair...for EITHER look because you dress sounds sort of plain but pretty
it will ALL balance out!!
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is it bad to ask a guy out i mean does it hurt there self of steam?
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it depends on the guy
if it is a guy who is sort of insecure and not so MACHO if you know what i mean...it'll hurt their self esteem.
but if it's one of those JOCK guys then you shouldn't ask them out at all because THEY have to do the asking.
if it is a guy you've known for awhile or you are friends with..then he won't feel weird at all
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