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i've been through alot during my 15 yrs of living. im adopted, i've been through rascistism because i'm chinese. i tell them i'd whoop them white ass faces with my kung foo skillz. i hate taking crap from people. i'm an outgoing person and love to make peopel smile or laugh. and i love it when they do the same for me. i'm a party grl and just love to have fun and not let anything stop me.
i'm also a christian. i hate it when people shove religion down your throat. and i won't be doing that. i'm just statng the fact i'm a christian, it could or could not mean a thing to you. and if u wanna ask me about it or anything else i'm chill with that. i'm a really open person and whenever someone just wants to talk about anything i like respond and like to hear there opions. i don't like judging people but we all do it and we sometimes don't mean to but whats more annoying is when people treat you like crap when they don't know you. thats what bothers me the most. when you judge someone your pretty much saying your better than that person.

i'll take any advice from people if i think it's right and i'll give advice to people from my own experiences or knowledge
thats me
peace x god bless

girlwander

advice

my freshman year i cam across this boy named tommy and i liked ever since junior year we started talking and in the summer he asked me to be his girlfriend so we went out i liked him alot he was my real first boyfriend and i was crazy fro him see i like my rocker guys with long hair and piercings ans he has that :) we even went to family values together and had a good time....school started and it was fine we didnt see each other at all only in themorning when i would get off the buss but only for 5 minutes and then i would just talk to him on the phone or myspace...so on the third day of school he broke up with me on myspace and i was devistated!!!! i couldnt belive it i mean the day before it was all fine!!! so then we broke up and i was sad i dated guys after him but for a very short time i cant get my mind off of him.....so im dating my current boyfriend nick and i liked him but now im loosing my feelings for him but he knows my tommy they live next to each other...and when ever me and nick are together and i see tommy i get pissed and puch nick away i still love tommy and by the way tommy has a girlfriend and apparently he is in love with her one time on myspace he wrote a song and he sent it to me to see if it sounded good and if not if i could fix it up and i did and it hurt he doesnt know i am still in love with him so when ever i see him i get this stmach ache and i just wsh i was with him......what should i do? i want him really bad!!! i need to get him back......

that be hard. why don't you tell him you like him? i no it's easier than it sounds... but if you already no he doesn't like you then you should just move on and move your feelings aside. & if you guys are friend, Be JUST friends. it's just a suggestion....

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soo i live in a dorm at college and my floormates and i are pretty close. this one girl makes me really mad though. i used to consider her a best friend but shes such a whore. all she cares about is doing things with guys. i want to have a better semester but avoid her. how can i do this? she lives right down the hall and is always in my room hanging out.

just ignore her. and if she still won't leae you alone, slap that bitch.j/k. hehe. if you don't want her to be with you tell her. and if she doesn't understand, than tell her she's not a very good person. and tell her she shouldstop "banging" peeps. thats not very educational

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ive had my belly button pierced twice, but both times the piercing was rejected. i found out it was probably due to a nickel allergy and i should get it pierced with titanium or gold because its nickel-free. when i went to get it repierced they wouldnt do it because of all the scar tissue, so how can i get rid of it? they told me to try back in about 6 months. this was in august. i heard vitamin e oil was good for it, but im looking for any other suggestions. and does anyone know if they would be able to pierce behind the scar? because it isnt very deep. thank you!

thatsa good question i tried piercing mine twice..by myself and both times it lasted a month and than it started getting bad.
i hear salt and lemon soda can help get rid of the scar varying from how bad it is. mine kinda faded away but i still have it.

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one of my best friends has a girlfriend that i think is fake. He wont answer any questions about her like if i say "How did you guys meet?" hell say "Bee quiet!" or if i say "I think i know her whats her last name?" hell say "NOne of your business shes form out of town". and you get the picture, i dont understand were really good friends. Also he hsant told any of his other friends about this. except me, so i dont know if hes lying or not. Because every time i bring her up, he either snaps at me, doesn't answer me, or changes the subject. Im really confused here. I know him, if he really had a girlfriend, everyone whould know about it!!
Tell me your theories

he's prolly just trying to make you jealous. because he likes you. idk.

or he could just be wacked and syco. i would suggest medical or sychologicol help asap jk-ing

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Oki doki...hey there...so I'm 15 about to be 16 and I'm being home schooled, but I have an issues...I have no motication to do my school work. I really want to go to Norway this summer because my best friend is there, and that has kept me going...but now I feel like my depression is getting a bit worse because not even that can help with my school work.
So, I looked up so quotes to help motivate me...it worked for about a couple minutes...then failed. And before you guys ask, I am seeing a person to talk to, and I'm taking anti depressants....
I just don't know what to do...and if you guys can help, that would make me so happy. Thank you guys for taking the time to read and answering my question (if you do)

fresh air helps 15minute should help
if ur not able to go outside,get a jar witha lid and put some fresh air in it and head back inside. jk-ing. my aunt did that when she was in the hospital

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