Well i like to help people..um ima black girl from ohio in cincy,but sometimes live in Detroit when i wanna get away.. but my name is Ladessa Glover im 14,
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Ok so I need some opinions on this really LONG love question... It has 2 parts... This first part is that I need to pick between two guys.
Guy #1- We're going out, he's really sweet and nice and i like him, sometimes. My friends all like him because he doesn't want to hurt me and he has never made me cut myself (yeah- i cut) We've only known eachother for about a month, and the only reason I know him is because I was jealous of my friend, who was going out with the guy I liked at the time. Him and I are very much the same, and are very shy around eachother. I barely see him in school, but he really likes me.
Guy #2- I'm secretly in love with him. He's kind of a jerk, and he acts nice to you and then will say something horribly offencive to you in the same sentance. He's absolutly gorgeous, and more popular then me. He lead me on beofre, and my friends blame him for making me cut once. They all think he's a jerk, but I really like him.
Who should I pick?
The second part is that today, I am supposed to call #2. Atleast he wants me to, or so he told me last night. I am very intrigued, and I think I may call him. My best friend, the only other person who knows about this, says that I should call #1 and break it off with him before I call #2. But I don't know if I should becuse, #2 might hate me, and i don't want to be single right now, and have to explain to my friends why I broke it off with #1. So what should I do? (link)
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i think you should stay with number one guy.. hes sounds so much better for you and is keeping you from cutting yourself.. but girl dont throw something good away wit somebody really good.. when you could end up getting hurt emotionally wit this gut thats a jerk.. so i hope i helped LADESSA!
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im in love with this guy. weve been going out for almost 9 months. its real love, not just your average 14 year old junk. anyway.. i just totally dont feel like i deserve him. hes way too good for me. he loves me and he wants to be with me, but i just want the best for him. last night i broke up with him because i think he can do so much better. i want him to be with someone that does deserve him. i cant stop crying and i stole his cape (dont ask) and im attached to it. i miss him so much. but weve broken up and gotten back together so many times, it wouldnt be fair if i got back with him now. what should i do? please help me! (link)
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wel if you love him so much or whatever you wouldnt of broke up wit him.. he dont wanna do better then you apparently he jus wants to be wit you, but you should get back wit him and dont break up wit him again.. you should be wit him and dont think bout if he deserves better cause he must not think he does.. hope i helped Ladessa
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Hi!Um I like my friend and he likes this one girl that has a boyfriend.His name's Evan and we sorta went out last year but I just started liken him again. He knows some one from skool likes him he just doens't kno it me.. I'm not sure if I should tell him how I feel or just give up on him...What do u think? (link)
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Dont give up if you really like this guy then tell him how you feel and everything.. but dont give up.. hope i helped Ladessa
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I have been friends with this guy since the end of October.. We talk a lot, and at first I didn't like him "that way" but every day I begin to like him more and more. He has told people that he doesn't know who he likes, or he likes 3 people and I'm at the top of the list. My friend told him that I like him (with my permission) and he sort of just blushed and wouldn't answer any of her questions. If I am at the top of his list, and he knows I like him, why doesn't he just ask me out? What should I say to him? Or should I just wait patiently for him to make a move? Thanks (link)
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Well sounds like this guy might be a little shy and if he is then it might be a while til he makes a move so maybe you should do something he'll probably loosen up and then ya'll would hook up.. i iwsh you luck hope i helped Ladessa
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i have a play comming up an i'm scared.what should i do to get over my fear on the stage (link)
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practice in front of friends or family..
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1) what is the difference between making out and kissing i thought that making out is just when you do it for a long time but im not sure
2) what does bi mean (link)
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making out is when you use tongue and feel on eachother and stuff.. and bi means you like guys and girls.. ladessa
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