I will put myself in your shoes and look at every side of the story. You are more than welcome to inbox me.

You can clip some of it up, wear a headband, braid some or all, curl it, scrunch it, straighten it, wear a ponytail even though it will be small... There is so much you can do. Try to do something different for everyday of the week. You can ask your mom if you could highlight your hair. If she does not approve maybe she will let you dye some strands with a color dye that washes right out. You can change the color everyday to match your outfit or every couple of days if you enjoy the color on you. You can keep the same color longer than a couple days if you want, and just keep reapplying the dye. Dying it or highlighting your hair may be too much of a change to add to what you are already dealing with, but it is an option. The adults may be older than you, ~not know what is in style~, or ~know how people your age would react~... but they complimented you. You should allow that to make you feel better about your appearance. I'm sure they aren't lying to you and I'm sure it looks better than you think. Don't worry about what others might say. Find which ways you can style your hair to make you feel more confident. If they are going to judge you based on the way you look, they don't deserve your time or what you as the unique person you are, has to offer. Know that this is only temporary. Though it won't grow back by Tuesday, it will grow back as time goes on. You are still the same person on the inside, just a little self-conscious. Let who you are continue to shine. Don't let a haircut or anything else prevent you from being proud of who you are. Take a deep breath, ~do your hair~ so you are as comfortable with it and yourself as you can, face the world with your head up high, and take it one day at a time. I hope I helped and I hoped I made you feel better. Good luck on Tuesday and every day after.

If you guys are good friends, you should be able to talk about anything. If he doesn't feel the same, I'm sure he wouldn't want it to ruin your friendship any more than you would want it to. Don't hold back your feelings because you are afraid of getting hurt, you wind up getting hurt anyway. Don't be left with the ~what if's~. Instead of wondering what could have been, find out what could be: Tell Him. I hope everything works out. Good Luck.

Don't worry, there are a lot of things you can try. You can continue shaving but instead of just soap and water, try using conditioner, baby oil, a shaving cream or a shaving gel. You can stop shaving altogether and use nair. If you get the kind unscented and for sensitive skin, there is a less chance of it causing irritation. You could also wax it if you'd be more comfortable but I'm sure that hurts. I hope I helped.

That definitely was flirting. Your friend is right. He was doing these things because he likes you. He wants you to like him back. If you do, keep flirting with him and start some small talk to get to know him better. Then tell him you like him. If you don't want to get to know him better before discussing your feelings for each other, tell him you think he likes you and ask him if its true. Either way, if it is what you want, a relationship could result. If you don't like him but want to continue the flirting, do so without leading him on. Be friendly in response to his flirting but not too friendly, otherwise he will think you like him. I hope I helped.

Do not give him another chance. Not only does he not respect you, he doesn't care about you. You deserve better than that. He's got you as a make out buddy. I know it'll hurt but you need to break up with him Now. The longer you stay with him, the more you will hurt and the more attached you will become. If he really cared about you he would call you, spend time with you and not flirt with anyone else. He knows your weakness and he is taking full advantage of it. He says he loves you only to play with your emotions and make you stay with him. Relationships take a lot of work: committment, dedication, time, respect, trust, sacrifice, compromise, love...etc. Where is any of it? He is not committed to you if he is flirting with other girls and especially when he doesn't flirt with you. That is not respecting you and he has given you no reasons to trust him. He is a player and he is possibly cheating on you with one or more girls. Dedication? He is dedicated to calling other girls and spending time with Them. That is not love. You deserve someone who will care about you just as much as you care about them; someone who knows what a relationship takes and who is willing to make it work. You need someone there for you. Your boyfriend will never change or be what you need. You need to must up the courage, knowing you Will Find Better and leave him. He still won't talk to you, he still won't call you. Best of all, he won't be able to use you for your body no more or call you his to keep you from finding someone better. And these so-called friends of yours? Friends don't flirt with their friends boyfriends. They are not worthy of your care or time either. You will go through a lot once you make these changes but it is for the better. Don't let him make you feel like the way he treated you was your fault. You have a big heart. When you care about someone you really care about them. That is not always a bad thing. You need friends and a boyfriend who appreciates who you are and that can give you that in return. Be strong. I wish you the best and if you need anything else, I'm here.

~(S)He will Wright the/your wrongs~ ~It's never too late to make it Wright~ ~It's time to make it Wright~ ~Make the Wright choice~ ~Do the Wright thing~ ~Stand up for what is Wright~ ~It's the Wright time to make a change/changes~ ~(S)He is the Wright person for the job~ ~(S)He will do what it takes to make it Wright~ I hope you can use these.

You should never go out with someone based on who they have dated before you. You get with someone because you care for eachother. If you like him for real reasons like his personality, his morals, common interests...etc, then it would be ok to want to work on starting a relationship. You didn't mention any of these reasons in your question, but if they apply, there is a lot you can do. If you don't understand a problem in math class, you can ask if he would like to help you and exchange numbers or screennames. If you are doing good in math, do not pretend you aren't. In order to have a successful relationship, any relationship, honesty is key from the beginning. Lunch is another opportunity. Try sitting at his table. You could have a friend come along to help break the ice if that would make you feel more comfortable, or you could invite him to sit at your table. If you think you'll be too shy for that, take little steps. On the lunch line, ask him what he's getting. Comment on the food. In math class ask him to borrow a pencil, piece of paper, or his calculator. Small talk will lead to more. Just make sure you are going for this guy for the right reasons. I hope I helped. If you need anything else I'm here.

Besides being pressured by your friend, you are being pressured by the events of Valentine's Day. You are not ready for committment and you have other priorities right now. Don't ever rush into a relationship. Most relationships that are rushed into do not work. Your feelings for him really have to be there. Relationships take a lot of hard work, effort, sacrifice and time which you want to devote to your schoolwork right now. If you stay friends with him until you are ready, you'll have a much smaller chance of losing him and the both of you getting hurt. It could work out later in the future, when you feel ready. I hope I helped. If you need anything else, I'm here.

You can't help who you like. It seems like the other girls are in the same situation as you. None of you have acted on your feelings. Be the first one. Tell him you like him. Find out if he likes you back. If you guys are close you should be able to talk about anything. If he likes you back you could start a relationship. If he doesn't, I'm sure he wouldn't want to lose your friendship over it. If you don't act now, you are going to remain feeling this way. If you let one of the other girls get to him first, you may never get the courage to tell him and you will always wonder what could have been. Good Luck. If you need anything else, I'm here.

You showed them a lot about your character by getting back up right away. You weren't going to settle for defeat. You didn't let it show that you were embarrassed. You didn't brush it off slowly either- you finished your task with a run. People will respect you for that. You didn't let them see that it bothered you so when it gets brought up, don't let it show then either. Laugh with them. Remind them that you got right back up. Not getting upset by comments will make it boring for them. It will get old in a few days. Someone else will do something and the attention will no longer be on you. Just hold your head up high and joke back. ~Yup, I'm the girl who fell at the pep rally; but I got right back up~

He is too shy to talk to you so try talking to him. Someone who thinks you are special is worth getting to know. Looks aren't everything. Its something you are given- the inside is what you make. If you don't like him once you get to know him better, do not lead him on. Make sure you let him know you only see him as friends. If you do wind up liking him, that means you looked past his race. Don't let anyone tell you its not okay to like someone because of their heritage. People will disapprove and talk; they always will. Sit down with your parents and tell them what you like about him, the things they will appreciate. Then bring up his race. Tell them before they knew, he seemed like a guy they approved. Let them know you think its wrong and it hurts for them to judge him based on his race. Give him a chance. You might find him to be a really great guy.

A person who has asthma has inflamed airways which makes them very sensitive. The airways react very easily from a number of things including exercise, a cough, irritation or being around something you have an allergy to. When this happens, the muscles around the airways contract and less air can move through. They swell even more and the cells in the airways create more mucus. This makes the airways even more constricted and very hard to breathe. During an asthma attack, for a short period of time, you can't take in any air or let any out. It is very scary. Asthma is hereditary but that is not the only cause. You can also develop asthma from smoking, lung infections, being surrounded by allergens: animal hair, dust mites, pollen, mold... or irritants: air polution, weather change, strong odors or stress. I hope I helped. My information was obtained from my own asthma experiences and: www.nhlbi.nih.gov/health/dci/Diseases/Asthma/Asthma_WhatIs.html

The brand I trust for both straighters and curling irons, is Conair. In the shower, condition your hair. Afterwards don't blow dry it; it will look more natural if you let it air dry before straightening. Blow drying beforehand is even more heat on your hair, which causes more damage and increases frizz.

I agree with your best friend- I don't think it is gross that he saw you nude and now he is dating her. Good job for telling her about it. You feel it is gross because you regret doing it. It is better to do that when you are dating someone, but dating them for a while. If you're not, who knows what they will do with the picture- who they showed it to...etc. It is very violating. If you are with the person for a while, you will be able to trust them with something like that. If the relationship doesn't work out, I would think you would feel more comfortable knowing you shared something special and have that peace of mind that he wouldn't do anything with the picture to hurt you.

Its high school. Its all about finding your identity. Everyone is trying to learn about themselves, accept who they are and become comfortable with it. As long as you be true to yourself then no one should have a problem. If you know you are not being fake when you let yourself shine, then don't let it get to you. Things change just as people do. People will always have someone or something to talk about. Do what makes you happy, don't change for anyone but yourself, and be proud of who you are.

Yes, colleges look at your grades. Your resume should include work experience, community service, awards you have recieved, after school activities, any sports you have played in school...etc. Your transcript contains your grades you can have your guidance office send to the college. Every college has different expectations so i suggest you visit the college website. You can google Rutgers University and you should see a link. You should also try to bring your C's up to at least a B minus. Ask your teacher for extra credit, after school help or try to get a tutor. It will definitely look better. When choosing a teacher for a recommendation letter choose someone who knows you best. Dont go for the teacher whose class you have the highest grade in. Research scholarships and financial aid programs to also assist you in getting you in your choice college. Good Luck. If you need help on your admissions essay or on anything else im here.

Friends should not tell you what you are ~allowed~ to do or who you can date; only your parents can tell you that and even then it sucks. Are the so-called friendships worth your time? They know you care about your boyfriend and that you only see him in school. They are making you choose and you should never be put into that position. They have no problem risking your relationship. This also isnt the only time they have treated you this way. If they walk away mad and you get that smile, that hug, that kiss that you can't get outside of school, isnt that worth it? They give you a hard time about other things as well. Life is full of people who can't be happy for you. Your group of friends should not be among them. It seems you can't please them no matter what you do. Its time to think about what would please you. I think you should take advantage of the time in school you have with your boyfriend and cherish that time. Try talking to your friends about the way they are treating you and the position they are putting you in or you can just give them the cold shoulder and see if they come to you. If they apologize or realize what they have been doing and are willing to change, then from there make a compromise: make time to spend with him and time for them. If they choose to continue to treat you the way they have been, it is clear these people will only continue to rain on your parade and bring you down. You'll need to find new friends. People who will accept you for you, be there and be happy for you. Until you find that connection with a group or select people, enjoy spending time with your boyfriend. I wish you the best. If you need anything else im here.

Imagine what he would have to deal with when she finds out you gave him a rose. She will hurt him more than she already does, accusing him of cheating...etc. Not giving him a rose will save him from more of her bad treatment.

Don't be afraid to discuss your desires or to spice things up. Im sure he will like it, he is your boyfriend and he does take you to secluded areas... Whisper softly and sexy in his ear where it is that you want him to touch you or put his hands there.

My advice is based on my experiences, my morals, my values and what I would do if I were the advice seeker. I always put myself in your shoes and look at all sides of the story. I love updates, so please inbox me to let me know how everything turned out because I worry about you! Some lessons I hope to teach all include: *Always stand up for what you believe in *Never give up *Fight for those who would fight for you *Don't hold back your feelings because you're afraid of getting hurt; you wind up getting hurt anyway *Don't follow your dreams- chase them *Appreciate the things you have *Always put others before yourself *It's always ok to feel, but it's not always ok how you react to those feelings *Learn from yesterday live for today and hope for tomorrow

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