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Last Update: October 7, 2007
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I hate myself and want to die. There is no way out. There is no definite answer to anything so how can you ever be right? Why do my friends always want to know what i am thinking when they dont care, they dont listen so why ask. Counsellors get PAID to listen to you. no one will remember me a year from my death. Anti depressants leave you numb and emotionless. Doctors dont issue sleeping pills coz I am a depressant but I cant SLEEP all i do is stare into senseless nothing seeing nothing but black shadows. The only releif is a razor blade and salt. Nothing will ever get better i will have this hopeless feeling of nothingness and desperation for somekind of peace of mind which i wont get. Things will always be the same and then ill die anyway. Im a selfish ugly fat bitch and the only way out is death. nothing can help me. im searching for a solution to get past my pathetic problems asides from counsellors, therapy, rehab, cutting, not cutting, anti depressants the only thing i can think of to a solution is death. no will will ever be able to stop this drowning feeling (link)
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hmm well that wasnt really asking for advice now was it? Basicly all you acomplished just now is to talk down about yourself and state what can not be done. So maybe you should stop reflecting on bad things
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This may not sound serious but it is. I was having a nervous break down during math because of this.
I can not stand the phrase "I never knew that." It just drives me insane. Whenever I hear it I either cry or scream. I just hate the phrase. So my question is how can I get over this? I am asking this in all seriousness. My friend who has a column here (she's asking this since I can't get on) has even told me do get help for this. (link)
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thats intersesting that some one could get so upset over a simple fraze...dont work yourself up over it lol you cry when ppl say "I never knew that" omfg lol
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I bought a shirt from Abercrombie today and washed it when I got home (I don't like how their clothes smell). Well, when I got it out of the dryer, I noticed that I accidently grabed a Large and it's wayy too big. I don't know if they'll let me exchange it since it's been washed. What do y'all think? I can't just forget about it becasue it was a 48 dollar shirt. (link)
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well if they wont let you return it you could wait till you grow into it or if your in a hurry to wear it hit the nearest mickey-D's n eat like theres no tomorra! n um no affece im honestly not tryang to be rude but why did you spend so much on a shirt? in a couple months it will hit the outlet store n you can buy it for 20...well g/l hope they will take it back!! muah xxoo
EDIT-(this is wut the chick said tome) * one if my parents can afford it why not? 2 learn how to spell!* and she rated me a 2
well first off i dont know how i got a 2 i didnt say anything rude at all i just asked why you spent so much great your parents have money to spoil you with but it was just a question you dont gotta be all bitchy...
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Ok I have this PIT feeling inside of me--I think that Britney and Justin should totally get back together..I know that some of you may not be their biggest fan, but please don't reply to this unless you want a negative rating. I think that they BELONG together..and this feeling is really bothering me..I hope that in the future they will get back together...I don't know why I'm feeling this way but it seems like it's meant to be. Now, I know I have no right to decide who should be together since I don't know what really went on in their relationship...but If they're not together, it seems like everything isn't right. I love Britney Spears..she's an inspiration to me...and Justin is just amazing also. I'm soo sorry if this is long but I just need to get it out. Don't you think they belong together?? This feeling in me is really strong.. (link)
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well as we know britney is all ready married to that stinky kevin guy ishhh n justin is dating cameron so... they are happy n not with eachother, so i guess they arnt ment to be i mean sure cute couple w.e but we cant decide there relationships, it is hollywood ya know not many relationships do last...I mean can ya blame justin britney would get really annoying
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my friend is in a clique of mean girls who you can tell have a say of something mean about everyone in school. it mite not be true but i can easily believe it-anyone can. well anyway, she carries around this stupid picture of a little boy she adores. problem is, she doesn't even know him. hes the nephew of a kid in our class. i thought the picture was cute for a while until my friend (jessica) started carrying him (robbie) around EVERYWHERE. then one day my friend decided to play a trick on her and take robbie at lunch. she did it when jessica went to throw away her trash at lunch. jessica came back furious, practically crying wondering where robbie is. she was officially attached. ive asked her why she carries it around with her everywhere and she just says because you can tell a picture things and it wont blab like a human does. i want to RIP APART robbie. i want to smak him to the ground, i want to BURN HIM. its getting way too out of hand because she talks to it and tells it how hes so cute and adorable and no one can hurt him (yeah rite) one day my friend accidentaly ripped robbie at least a centimeter. jessica didn't talk to her until she apologized 500 times. he got ripped again a few weeks later and jessica came to school with him in a plastic baggie. now it was geting wayyyyyyyy too out of hand. i kept tellin her it was a waist of time to talk and spend 99.9% of her time with robbie but she wouldn't listen. a few months before that she became a vegitarian. i don't know why but i kept getting into this whole argument about why being a vegitarian is WRONG. of course i learned to respect her rights and i gave up trying to get her to stop being a vegitarian. i still sort of have an urge deep down inside to yell at her and say veggie eater! veggies have feelings too! and crap like that but ive learned to control it. robbie is still a pain though. what do i do? shes starting to act all "mature" on me and shes saying how much i act like a kid (yeah rite) i don't mind that but what do i do if she starts coming up with other weird habits?! shes getting on my case that im starting to not like her although im trying to be as nice as i can. what do i do? (link)
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oddd girl...
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Last night i went to an aau basketball game with my friends to watch one of my friends bf play. And 2 of my other friends were there too. My other friend had a guy come that she has been *talking* too. And my other friend was just hanging out. After that went to a guys house just to chill..and a bunch of ppl were over there. All my friends sorta left me and did there own thing. I had to stand up the whole time just saying nothing and keeping to myself. No one really talked to me. After the party my friends were ready to go back..they had a blast..so theyre goin to do it again next weekend. So im sorta left out..what do i do? (link)
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well go with them next weakend n dont play wallflower get up in there n find some one to talk to they arnt always gunna talk to you. you can always go talk to your friends that you came there with n if not make a new friend there... much luck xxoo
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ok well i was going out with a guy lets juss call him bob and previously i was going out with a guy lets call him billy and well before me and billy broke up i didnt reallie understand my feelings towards him so i dumped him for bob and then bob was being all weird towards me and not even talking to me and then the other day i was talking to billy and he told me that he has still liked me even after wat i did and then i told him i felt the same and then he asked me out and i've been trying to get a hold of bob to dump him but im confused on wat to tell him i dont want to be too mean becuz he's a better friend than a boyfriend and i still want to be friends but he takes anything reallie offensively so i cant say lets juss be friends some1 tryed that one on him and he ended up hating them wat should i say?
p.s i told billy that i couldnt get a hold on bob and that if he wanted we could pause our relationship and juss wait till i could dump bob and he said he doesnt want to be away from me like that again and that he understands that im trying to dump bob so he doesnt have any worries (link)
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wow, that is kind of mean... dont you thinkyou should wait like at least a weak to dumb "bob" before going out with "billy" i mean how would you like it if "bob" dumped you and that same day went out with some new chick, i dont know why you and billy are in such a hurry to go out, you both know you like eachother so you wouldnt have to "be away from eachother" like he said and you can just wait untill bob wuz ok with it, its no wonder he would end up hating you in the end no affence... but think about that one n how you would feal... much love xxoo
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Ok I've been out with this lad 8 times, and he kept using me but then the 8th time i went out with him he sed he'd learnt his lesson but then i found out he fancied my best m8 and when he was with her he'd flrt with her and when he was with me he was really romantic we had our first snog then our second and it felt so good but then the next day i fell out with my best m8 and he dumps me over falling out with her and then they both ept being nasty to me and calling me nasty names and i end up geting really upset and then the teacher makes me apoliges to them when they've really upset me but I still madly in love with my ex and now I feel really depressed what should I do?? please help me i'll rate anyone who does 5 (link)
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ooo i get it your british!!! i need a few brit vocab lessons before i can answere your question, first what is snog? honestly never heard of that one... and whats fall out? dus that mean you got into a fight n lad is a guy right i knew that one n mate is friend? but down over here its like life mate like partners lol n fancied means like... i think?? please clear these things up for me so i dont sound dumb answering
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Just out of curiosity, is there like something wrong with me?: I hate to be touched. It bugs the hell out of me. Like, I dont even let my boyfriend just hit my arm when we talk. It bothers me! Is there anything wrong? (link)
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umm well not to be rude but doesnt your boyfriend get really bored of you i mean if you dont like being touched obviously you dont hug or kiss or other fun stuff lol so i dont know you so i dont personally know of somthing rong with you but if i was your boyfriend (wich im not a boy or a lezbian so would never happen) i would think somthing was rong with you not even letting your own b/f hug or kiss you...pleas dont take that the rong way if you wanted honesty thats what you got...
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Does anyone know of any fairly cheap but really great smelling perfumes I could buy????? Also tell me where to buy it please!!! Thanks (link)
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oh yeah you can get the small bottle of august perfume at hollister for 12.50 and lilu at pacsun for 9.50(i think thats it, thats wut i got mine for) also you can get amber romance for 9 dollors at victorias secret n theres abunch of other sents by victorias secret like sweet temptation heveanly love spell vanilla lace n idk alot more but those all smell really good! hope i helped
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ok im thinkin of having my boyfriend and 2 other friends who are also a couple, come over to watch a movie or 2 tomorrow. i think we wanna do a comedy and then romance. any ideas? 14/f (link)
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Oh cute! well um guyz wont really go for the whole "lovey-dovey" romance shit they want more of a comedy or horror but either way you cant go rong, horror definatly gives you an excuse to get a bit closer n for him to comfort you, not that you need one your going out but w.e lol and umm comedys are just fun ta watch i dont know who cares just start making out in the middle of it and you could be watching barney and they could care less, dont get amovie they'd be too intrested in if you want to make out because then you dont know how easy it'd be to tare them away from the tv lol good luck! xoxo ---
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I am so confused!
I like a guy but he just got dumped... id like to ask him out but
1) i dont no what to say
2) i dont no how long to wait
3) all of my best friends like him.. (link)
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well i think that you should wait before making your move because first of all rebounds usually dont last n he's probly hurtin right now so hes not going to want to start a relationship, and if all your best friends like him then that should be reason enough for you to wait it out, i would be so mad if my friends went out with a guy i really liked, but give it some time get to know him better and eventually you too may start getting more then friendly. much luck to you MUAH xoxo
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ok well here it goes! Last year around this time i told someone who i happened to like.....unfourtunally they told that person. At the time i was REALLY angry and somewhat embarresed...but it comes to find out he liked me too! So we started going out. We dated for all summer, but suddenly my friends kept hasseling me about doing more things with him, then them...and honestly i wasnt! but anyway around september i broke up with him. Now thinkin back on it i was SOO completely stupid because he was the best guy i had ever known....but being my foolish self i took my friends side, and gave up a GREAT guy!! now we pass each other in the hall we exchange a QUICK smile, mostly just a glance. I want him back so bad...but i dont know if he feels the same...i am going to highschool next year and i want it to be great, and i dont want this hanging over my head! Ok well i need someone that gives GOOD advice...thanks sooo much!!! muah im a female and 14 l0l....its says to include that (this is my first time to do this)
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aww dang the same thing happend to me this past year too! it sucks so bad but eventually you will get over it, or you wont n if you still think that you guys are ment to be, talk to him ask him if he does like you still and if not, stop the awkword scilence, start talking to him more! like when you pass him in the hall say hey n start up a convo... if you have time, i know it should be hard at first but if hes the great guy you say he is then he'll wanna talk too... so good luck much love**xxoo
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