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just turned 16/f
is it possible that breasts can not start growing until you are 16? (link)
yes because a cousin of mine just started to grow her boobs when she became 16


hi first off i'm a junior in highschool and the guy i like is a sophomore. this guy and i have a little past, we've made out once for like threee hours. after that we texted and talked a lot, but nothing serious because i'm not one to be in a relationship and i made that sort of clear to him. but now he has a freshman girlfriend and now i want him back because i'm realizing how much i reallly reallly like him. we still text and talk a lot. last night he was going to sneak out with me, but i decided that wouldn't be a good idea and instead we talked on the phone for two hours until two in the morning. do i have a chance? at alllll to get him back. (link)
maybe you just have to know what to do and wat to say from what i hear it seems like he likes you back but dont pretend to be something you not to get the dudes attention and everything will be okay


Basically, cutting a long story extremely short and leaving out a lot of details, a guy over last September-November pretended to like me so we could sleep together. It didn't start like that exactly, it started as something completely casual and no-strings, but eventually I started wanted more and he pretended he did too, and then he panicked and backed out.

I live with him (at university) and we are in the same friendship group. I have to see him every single day, I look out of the window and see his window, I cannot escape thinking about him, and next year we will be living together with just me him and 3 other people. I can't get out of this without losing my friends. I still like him a little bit but the main thing is I AM SO ANGRY AT HIM, and my friends say I have to be nice to him for the sake of the group. I am finding this so hard and I just want to feel nothing for him anymore. I've already kissed a few other people and I slept with someone else (another ex who kind of treated me badly a bit, but I think he's changed) and my ex kind of wants to casually keep seeing me, which is sort of helping, but how else can I deal with this?? Thanks. x (link)
try talkn about it wit him and decide wats best for you


I broke up with my ex boyfriend around November.Everytime I talk to him,I feel the same way I felt for him when we were going out.But the fact is that I've liked this other guy for 2 years now exactly(I know pathetic right?).What i wanna know is...why am I feeling like this? And my ex also told me that he still likes me. (link)
well i think you are realizing that you have let a good guy go my best friend always tells me nevre leave the one yo love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love so maybe thats wats happening to you



Every year I make tons and tons of Valentines. This year I'm doing the same and my sort of crush is one of the people I'm giving them to. He knows alot of people are getting one so he won't feel awkward about it, but I want to really subtly hint at him that I kinda like him. I plan on using a few inside jokes, I just need something that is flirty and ambiguous enough for him to interpret as either "she kinda likes me" or "she's just being as playful as she always is." HELP! (link)
well honestly i would just be open and say sum like well ive been kinda of noticing you and i really like you so how about me and you get to know eachother a little better


so me n my boyfrend have been dating for 8 months. i really love him n tell him. i have so much feelings for him but i can only seem to get them out in texts or notes i give to him. i can never say them in person cuz my mind goes blank n i cant figure out the words to say how i feel n how much he really means to me. how can i tell him this in person without gettin at a loss for words? (link)
the best way i cna think of just wen you tell him just think of how you feel when ur around him and all that good stuff maybe the words will come to you then


alright, well my roommate was in a 8 year relationship and it ended horribly he's now scared to talk to girls, but he really needs someone, ex: your in wal-mart you see a girl shopping that catches your eye? what to say to her? how to go about getting to know her?

Like pickup lines, talkable type stuff, places to go, would be great, I've never had any troubles in that field, and i'm not sure how to pick up girls outside of school/ work so i can't help him.\

Thanks. (link)
well me being an attractive gurl so i get approached alot so the thing i like is when a dude comes to me not with a pick up line the truth try something like hello how you doin i would like to get to knw thats a great one and taking a girl places i mean most of us like unique stuff i mean i like simple stuff like just a walk in the park to get to knw eachother better is great i nice picnic is great we dnt dig the fast food crap at all just show the gurl ur there 4 her


ok me and this guy have been talking for a bit. We both know we like eachother and we both want to up the relationship so what are ways besides the obvious like a date and the phone and stuff to up the relationship. (link)
get personal i mena talk about futere plans and stuff you know


I defentally need some advise!Ok well theres this guy...i really love him and always have, ever since i knew Kimmy. She is 16 and just recentally moved from Mongolia, so obviously her and her family are oriental. The only problem is the guy im madly in love with is her dad, Sanneybobo. I mean its not like hes married or anything. Well he was. It was just a fling, i know he really digs me! Hes 57 and i am 16. Do you think its too much of an age diffrence or will the love we both share for each other shine trough? Please tell me what you think! (link)
Hunny im going to be honest with you that is too old i mean I can see at the most 6 years but thats a 41 year age diffrence and did you think of how it was going to affect your friendship but im just going to say think about all the consequences before you go through with the idea


Hey!
Im f/17 soon to be 18!
My question is do you think that and 17/18 year old should be datting a 22 year old... like im finishing gr12.. and he's finishing University...
Is that a really big age diffrence to you?
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no i dont think so u just like older guys i think


So me and my ex, of three years recently broke up about a month ago i guess he cheated on me too, but whatever he broke up with me. So i have this group of guy friends and a few girls who i always hang out with and there is this boy in our group who ive recently started becoming really really good friends with. We text everyday, we have hung out at parties and outside of parties. We have kissed and held hands and flirted a lot i guess but other than that when we text he acts as if were just friends. Last night he told me he didn't want to get girlfriend close to anyone for a while, which i understand but then that makes us what? And he refuses to open up, to anyone, He keeps absolutely everything inside. His ex hurt him real bad and he wont tell me what happened. I dunno i just want him to open up to me. I want to prove to him that all girls aren't that bad. But i don't know what to do to prove that to him. And i could honestly see myself being with him in the future, hes such a sweet kid. I'm just not sure if he will ever let me in. Ugh, any advice on any of this would be greatly appreciated. Thanks! :) (link)
well im kinda in that situation (vice versa) i wont open up because im afrid of bein hurt again so maybe thats what the problem is and just talk to him about it and let him knw how u feel because if u dont open then maybe he wont know that you are interested in him


my mother is all up in my life. She keeps taking my stuff away because of my grades. My teachers won't help and i explained that. We can't afford a tutor or anything and i lose my concentration with people talking. My mom reads the notes i write and listens to my phone calls what can i do to get my mother off my back and my grades up

- Samantha White a 14 yr old (link)
well i think if you do better than maybe she wont be on your back so much but just remember your mom does things because she loves you and she cares




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