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I get mad really easily, and people notice. How do I control my temper before it gets way out of hand? (link)
Your already on your way ,just by admitting you have a problem .Try and think about what triggers you off and that might help .


i know this is really dumb, but i REALLY need advice. okay well recently on myspace i got a message from this guy who was really hot and he thought i was hot, so we exchanged AIM screen names and were talking like all the time. then eventually we started calling each other and now i talk to him online & on the phone every single day. i'm starting to develop feelings for him and i don't want to. there is no chance or future for us, he lives across the country from me! i don't want to stop talking to him though because he is really sweet and funny. is there something wrong with me for liking him? is there any way i can continue talking to him without liking him like THAT ?? please help im going crazy (link)
Have you noticed that a lot of people on this site and everywhere are having these wonderfull relationships online .Try to compare whats great about it that you havent had in a conventional relationship and you may be able to understand that its just fun for now untill the real intimacy that you need will come along to replace it.


my mom wants to watcha movie rent one that is well sooooooooo what should i get i mean i have no idea.. what are some new movies GOOD NEW! please help fast hurry lol thanks! (link)
I cant really think of any movie stupid enough for someone who has to ask this question .Your on your own .


ok i've known this girl for 3 as of the last day of school this year.
and me and her would flurt on the phone and in person and talk about datin for the whole time we've known eachother but jus recently i ask her out for the first time, because it was the first time we were both single, and she said no so i asked her to the dance and she said yes but she stood me up. after cryin and forgivin her i asked her out again and she got my hopes up for almost a week then choose a faggit over me and really hurt me so i cried and yelled for about a week and forgave but should i. after all of this shes been shuttin be out and not very talkative and i really like her maybe even trully love her and i d k wat 2 do so some 1 please help
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Get rid of her .I could explain more but why .


yo right my SUPOSE to be BESTFRIEND i think is hiding from me that she goes out with one of my ex boyfriends and im really pissed....like me and the boy and me were REAL serious and it would hurt me to see her with him...I think this cause she be walkin wit him in the hallway he be over her house and they be on the phone and she said she wont tell me who she go wit..oh and plz dont say no lil smart comments cause its not cute people come on here for advice not smart comments well thanx in advance i rate high (link)
When you say one of my ex boyfriends ,does that mean you have lots.I know its not a nice feeling but if he were nice he wouldnt be doing it to you so you havent lost a lot either way .Move on with your own life .The ex is just that an ex.


IM STARTING HIGH SCHOOLL!!!


What are osem ways to get really popular?!?! (link)
If you have to ask that question ,you have problems .Stop being stupid and just be yourself


ok, let me introduce myself, nd put sum rules, first nobody answer telling me to stop drinking or anything, because im sick of it. I wont put my name on because its confidential, and here i go. I live in toulouse france and i have a best friend called bobby-joe (we shall say). Bobby is mrs popular, and i've known her for a year now. And bit by bit i have quite simply fallen in love with her, now again nobody tell me how im not 'in love' trust me, i know, i cannot do anything without thinking of this girl. I do not go places unless she is going. i dont go online unless she's there. I dont call anyone but her, i save all my credit for texting her. I fail exams because im looking at her. Its too much, and she doesnt know, she thinks we are friends. We go to parties and things together and we have a fucking amazing time. I love spending time with her, and sometimes just for the night, if we have too much to drink then sumtimes it becomes more than a friendship, and to her it means nothing, but to me it makes my month. She just blames it on alcohol and keeps on thinking we're friends. I am a jealous friend but i think i am a good one. I talk to her about everything and she talks to me about everything. Problem is she has got a lot of people who fancy her and a boyfriend who is a fucking model and 2 years older. I've known her for a year but i feel as if my whole life evolves around her. She can control how i feel for days with a single word. Right now she just had a go at me about the main problem we have with our friendship, im over-possesive. last time i was with her we went to a fair and she got with another guy just because he came up to her and called her sexy, she barely new the guy. i got so angry and she knew it, later i tried to talk to her about it and she told me to fuck off that she was 16 and could make her own decisions. I hate it, i love her so much, i dont have time to explain why, but its about more than her looks, or even her obvious personality. I dont know how to tell her how i feel or how to explain it once i do. I just know that i cant keep being her friend. Eventiually we're gonna fall out of even that because im so obsesed with her and cant let her out of my site. I feel left out if she talks to someone else. Last weekend we spent friday together in a restaurant, then the saturday at a lake with some friends, then went to a party, had a bit to drink, got together and lay on a field for hours looking at stars and talking about things. I know i would be so happy with her. please somebody help me, i need a real answer to a real problem. (link)
I think your out of luck .Shes very young .Stop spending so much time with her,you seem like you are way too available for her .Back off ,see if she needs you as much as you think you need her .


Okay, there is this guy (his name is Gage Tyler) that I am like crazy for. He always tells his friends that he doesn't like me, but yet when one of my friends asks him if he does like me he doesn't answer them. Or like if I come around him, he always leaves, but sometimes comes back around me. It's really weird and all of my friends say that I am too good for him, or he isn't good enough for me. And one of my friend's thinks that he is mentally abusing me?!?!?! Well, please help!! lol. (link)
The friend that thinks hes mentally abusing you is probably mental herself .
He is probably a bit shy and not sure what to do.
You know,if you want him so bad ,why not let him know .What you got to lose but do it when his frieds arnt around .You just might be surprised.




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