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there are these two guys who attenda summer camp i go to. i think i make both of them nervous because they both seem to shudder or their hands shake so obviously. well i really want to impress them, and i was wondering how can i?

where like really tight clothes... be flirty and all that jazz.... ask one out.. i did that to a guy in my camp... he said he would think about it.
omg!! where short shorts and a thong! bend over and smile in front of them... like drop a pen or something... wrks for mw+

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Ok well at camp this summer, i had a boyfriend 3 years older then me. You know we would hold hands and stuff and kiss and everything but like everyonce in a while he would grab my boobs and my butt and i didnt really like it but i just threw it off. anyways when i got back home, guys were all calling me a slut, and theres this guy Diantrey, and now hes like all over me grabbin my slappin my ass grabing my boobs tryin to undo my bra and stuff its getting so annoyin. now its starting to spread around my neighbor hodd now people are tryin to like hook up with me say hey baby wanna come over to my hosue tonigh. anyways i've been puttin it off but now its startin to get to me. does anyone have any advice how i can stop all of this???

ok... usually sluts where tight cothes.. one day come in with baggy clothes.. like army style.. and be like shut up punk.. like if the try to grab you punch em+

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Ok, I have this problem, I am WAY TOO NICE to my family. I give them advice, (after all, I do have an advice coulumn here)I'm supportive of them, and all they do is take advantage of me, then they ditch me. For example, my cousin has a weight issue, and I help her, and even doctors say my advice was good. She agrees, at the doctors office. She totally ignores me outside of it. When I bring it up she's always like "I have better things to do then talk to you" and on the phone I constantly have to call her name because she doesn't listen to me, and that's just 1 example. They ridicule me one minute, ditch me another minute, then ask me for advice like they are my best friend. What do I do? I turned to masturbation and porno as a getaway- masturbating while watching porno, but more masturbation then porno. Worst thing is that I'm a strong Christian, and their semi athiest ways are rubbing off on me.Help me! And don't tell me to talk to them and stuff, because I've done this in a civilized manner 1000 times, and everyone in my family is stubborn because they think I'm lying all the time because I'm the youngest,and I should suck it up and forget what they say. Help me plz, srry that its so long though.

omg... i wanna loose 10 pounds by semptember 1... how??????? no like running and stuff... help

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Hey Im gettin a kitten sometime this week. I dont know what to name it yet or iwhat it looks like. i already have a cat named daisy well i might rate high?! i dunno

since one is named daisy name one:
TULIP
ROSE
i have plenty more so leeve some in the inbox!

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OK, recently I had this weird dream that ( i asked a question before about my BF two-timing me) my BF and I were in a blech place, like a dirty basement, except it was a set of a movie... we weren't filming we were off stage. And somehow we talked about kissing and he said, 'do it if you want,' I was smiling by now.. and so I kissed him -- LORD IT FELT SOO REAL! Grr, I hate those dreams when they feel real but they're not. Anyways, do you think my dream was telling me something? check my other question out about my boyfriend two-timing me.

i wanna read about the two timing thingy.... how???????

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15/F I have this pain in the lower right side of my stomache (like where they say your appendix is)... its not a sharp painful pain, its just sore and it hurts. I feel it when I walk or sit down. I know its not cramps because my period passed already. It started hurting when I woke up with morning. Im really scared... could it be my appendix? Or one of my reproductive organs? Its only on my right lower side of my abdomen. HELP im so scared...

well it could be your appendix. BUT! even though your period passed you can still get a cramp . i got this one this morining cuz i popped up this morning fast......... that could possibly be.. it always happens to me... give it some time... if it is there tomorrow i suggest telling ur parents or go to the doctor.

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Ok I want to really please my boyfriend so this question is mainly for guys but if you girls can help me too that would be great. Ok so I want to give him something he will never forget sexually. What really turns guys on? Do they have favorite positions or favorite acts the enjoy being done on them?? It's our 3 year anniversery so I am really going to put all out. Thankyou for you consideration! I really need help

congrats!!!!

ok... um... wat i would do is get 2 handcuffs... attach his arms to the bed post so he can't move his hands.. spread his legs as far as you can and suck away... but then after that uncuff him then cuff ur self to the bed and let him do his job

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ok here i go, i'm 16, and my gf wants to have sex, i'm ready, but i don't know if "it" should be shaved. help please??!!

ok look... wat you should do.. or i did.. my b/f had the same problem (im a girl) he left it be and told me if i wanted it to be gone then i should shve it so leave it up to her

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ok well..

i was hooking up with some guy and we were going for about 6 mins and then he started to move my hand slowly down his pants but i just kinda backed away concerning i really dont kno what to do if i go down a guys pants and how to keep it there long. so my question is what do i do down there and for how long. thanks


ps. im 14 years old going on to 15

just put your hand down there and like take your finger and make a circle patern... play with the hair..... just wiggle it and stuff... i did it many times..

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can somebody please help me with ideas how to ask a girl out.

well since i am a girl.. i could probably help.... ok.. wat i know from experience is that.. usually a guy goes up to the girl and starts a conversation.. like for example... if she likes horseback riding... ask how is your horse doing??? and then go maybe we can go horseback riding at a movie and dinner on friday nite at 7??????? sumtin like that... or if she has a dog.. be like ask how is your dog? then go...i would love to see him again.... how about i can see him wen i pick you up at 7 on friday for movies.. sumthing like that..


rate me...... tell me if i helped

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i don't know that its exactly healthy but i was wondering if there is anything else (like a household item) that i can use that would work kinda like a dildo or a vibrator? i mean it doesnt have to move or anything...just feel good. cuz my parents would freak if they found a dildo or vibrator. is it unhealthy to use anything else? can i sterilize other stuff? if so, how?

1. straw
2. bed post if u have one
3. chair leg
4. a toe
5.electric toothbrush
6.pen
7. highlighter
8.bike handle
9.wire
10.lollipop stick
11. popsicle stick

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I've been masturbating and I've been using a water bottle and my finger.. does anyone have any other items I could use to masturbate? Will rate 5's =]

here are some things
1. my favorite!! A STRAW! this way you can look inside and see my face lol
2. pen
3.
highlighter
4. bed post if you have one on ur bed
5. chair leg
6. toe
7. wire
8. stick
9. baseball bat
10. baseball
11. superbouncy ball
12. celery
13.if you have a figurine of a light house use dat
14.end of a light bulb where you screw it in
15. boobs
16. TAMPON


in an advice asker thingy..... go to my page... and tell me if myne were good.. i have plaenty more.. just put it in a nadvice asker thingy requested for me

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i have to pick between two things i reslly love a dog or a laptop what should i choose?

wat i would do is.... first get a laptop.... then save some money.. u can get some really cute newborns for 100 bucks off the internet save ur money then get a dog

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ok i have a really big problem. i wear a training bra and any tank tops, short sleeve shirts, or really light fabriced shirts i wear, my bra shows ALOT. and also the even bigger problem is on tank tops, my bra has a higher up arm hole so you can like see the bra alot on the arms. this has stopped me from buying new clothes, and i always try to look for the clothes that cover me up the most!! im so mad cauuse I just want to be confident and free about myself and not worry about this! its all i think about. yes, dont say ask my mom cause she always asks "well why are you being so mad, whats the problem" whenever i pass the opportunity to buy a perfectly nice shirt!its cause im too embarresed to tell her about it. the only reason i have a bra is cause my mom bought me 2 old navy ones like a long time ago and they like hardly fit me.please dont make fun of me, i really want to feel good about myself and not have me bra practically in full view. HOW CAN I SOLVE THIS ANNOING PROBLEM??????

ok... wat i would do.. well i did do it.. cuz i have the same problem as you..... go to like a limited 2 or a mandees some store like that and ask or look for this shirt called a cami. it is a tank top that has a bra built in it.. it is very helpful... and you can't tell that it is built in. i love them lol... or you can get a strap less bra...hope you take my advice seriously.. oo.... if ya wanna kno some places to get camis ask me

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is it true that if you sleep without ur bra on that you breast will grow bigger faster???

totally!!!! i left it off 4 2 nites and i went from a cup size a to a size E which there is no such thing... i have to get it speacially made..lol... they are huge!!!!!! lol.... jk.... no it is not possible.... it makes you more comfortable... and my cuzin says it is healthier lol... it lets your boobs breathe..lol..i dunno

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well i havent gotten my period yet, and i m short(i m almost 14) and everyone says when i do get it i will get taller, and thin out. does anyone know if that is acctualy true? pls help!

i don't think so... i got mine a year ago and that has not happened yet...... you only get taller and thiner wen you go through your growth spurt. since your growing so tall you stretch out so your fat is like gone..lol...

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okay you all say will some of you say that if your ready to have to sex you should talk to the person about it well see i love this kidd lets call him joe like a friend adn he is so great and we plan on having sex we talk to eachother about it and it doesnt seem werid does that eman i am ready and also when me and my old boyfriedn wanted to it was weird talking to him about it but its not weird when i talk to joe what does this mean i am so confused i would really like some feedback becaseu i mean its weird me and joe have gone out before like on and off but i dont really love him but when my other boyfriends want to it feels so weird and unusual ahh very sconfused what should i do any advice???????????????????????????????/////

ok.... first of all......... havoing sex.... its not planed..... it just happens.... talking about it isn't the same as doping it.. i mean would you be comfortable getting naked in front of him?? and possibly getting pregnat?? think. how old are you?

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My sister is fifteen years old, but she acts like she is at least 30. We are the same age, but I feel that im am so much more machore than she is. I try to poin her in the right direction but She doe's not seem to want to listen. My mother just stoped careing, she let's her go were ever and when ever she wants to leave. There have been roomors about my sister from everyone, But my mother refuses to listen to them dispite the way she acts and dresses. It would be great if I could get some help with her. I have run out of opptions, and am afrade of what might happen next.

P.S. She has already gotton pregnant.

just explain to your mom in a nice calm way. first maybe start talking about ur school day or a t.v. show. then let it out. just say that she is scaring you and you want her to stop.

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Ok well I'm 13 and now that its summer I havent seen my boyfriend much. Were pretty close but I dont think his parents know were goin out and I would feel weird callin him. I'm kinda shy. And I dont go to his house so dont even tell me that. I really miss him this summer I havent seen him since like June 13 and my softball game a couple of weeks ago. Please help me I really miss him and I really want to see him more.

Yours truley,
missin him

if you really love him then you wouldn't be so shy about going over. just one day call his house. ask for him. then explain the situation. just say i want your parents to know about us....well.. since you havn't been seeing him for a few weeks you might want to check up on him to see if there is any other lady. hope i helped... i need help... give me advice on my questions

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I got my hair highlighted & it was WAY to bright, it makes my skin look pail & everthing, & it was supposed 2 b in streeks, but the lady made it look more, everywhere...

anyway, is there a way I can dim it down afew shades without having 2 go back & dye it again?

thanks

14/M

well... wat i would do is....... well if ur a boy spike ur hair so it isn't as noticeable.. then i would wait till it grows out or stay out of the sun

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