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Q: i am a freshman in highschool and so is my best friend , there is this guy that is a junior that i have known for a while named chad and i intoduced chad and cat and i started to like chad then i was asked out by another guy i named sam so i went out with sam. then chad and cat went out and i still liked chad but i never said anything about it, now me and sam are broke up and cat and chad are broke up and i like chad but i know cat would be really mad if i went out with chad because sghe said she would be cause i asked but now he aske dme out what do u think should do?
~blundered blonde~
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follow your heart see if your feelings for him is stronger or if your friendship is stronger
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Q: i dated this guy but the timming wasn't right .. anyways we have been talking and we are going out on friday.. actually i'm going over to his house .. my question is even though we have been through that and we have done stuff physically ..its like our 1st date since like 6 months ..are we supposed to catch up were we left of or start again? i mean physically
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no start all over maybe it will be better this time
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Q: help i get so depressed some times im starting to drink and i dont want to go any depper into alchohol. can you help me please i hate my new school im so unhappy
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Dont drink its the worst thing for it i know beacuse i used to be an achollic and im only 17 i just found someone that i could talk to and that would listen to my problems
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Q: My best friend in the entire world is going out with a guy that I liked..At one point in time I liked him and he liked me..but I never went out with him because my best friend liked him.. I dont know whether or not I should tell her this because, well they look really cute together, but the thing is, is that I think I still like him..
Clueless here..I dont know what to do..
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Just let them go out and see what happens maybe they will realize there not right for each other and then that leave it up for you
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Q: My best friend called me a nigger the other night. So should I travel the 758 miles just to kick his ass?
P.S. I'm white...:)
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i am that kid that called you a nigger and for correct terms i called a bitch also lol jsut kiddin with yeah you know i love yeah and bye
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Q: okay my best friend is going out with my recent ex and we went to the movies with a grroup of people but his girl friend could not go and we ended up sitting next to each other and in the middle of the show we started holding hands and yesterday his girlfriend found out and wont talk to me or him what should i do? cause he likes me and i like him...
signed CONFUSED
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go back out with him maybe it took that for you two to realize you all acutally care about each other
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Q: Alright, I came to the realization that I love this guy that I have been friends with for nearly 5 years. He lives a couple of hours away from me so we talk on the phone. My question is, should I tell him that I love him? Would it freak him out? Would it make things wierd? Should I tell him why I love him? Im in a biit of a spot right now. All comments are well appreciated. Thank you so much.
~Nokomis~
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Well you might think your in love but the hole couple hours away think hurts your chances of gettin to be with him
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Q: A year or two ago i went out w/ this girl. i liked her, she liked me. i dumped her ,because i relized that she wasn't that actractive, and she hated me. she wouldn't talk to me look at me etc. now i see her in the halls and at dismissle. now she really actractive. i don't want to go out w/ her or anything, i just want to be her friend again.what should i do?
p.s. she has a boy-friend now
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Go up and talk to her and see how she reaacts maybe you all can become good friends
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Q: There's this guy (We'll call him Zach) that one of my friends dated and one of my other friends like him. I promised my friend that I wouldn't ever do anything with him. That was before I discovered I have feelings for him. However, there is another guy (We'll call him Bob). Bob likes me, I like Bob. But Bob is really shy, and isn't doing anything. I've asked Bob out before, but that was before he liked me and that was before I got feelings for Zach. I really like Zach and Bob. But Bob is a bit more immature than Zach, but there isn't friend entanglements if I went out with him. But Zach is that person I can talk to and I know he'll listen and have answers for me. What do I do? I rate high for good answers.
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I dont think you need to do anything to hurt your friendship, talk to the bob guy and see if you can get him out of his shell maybe you all can get along with him after you meat the real him
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Q: well lately my friend has totally been flirting with my boyfriend.She knows she does it but she just shrugs it off.I hate it!!like we will be walking in the halls together and she will come right between us and rather close to him i might add.i dont wanna ruin our friendship, but me and this guy really love each other.we've been together through thick and thin.Please help me and i hope this wasn't to long.
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Tell her about it nothing is gonna happen until you tell her. If your friendship is that strong talkin to her about it wont break it up
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Q: 14/m
ok so i was talking to the girl that i used to like and still kindof do, we havent seen each other in a while cuz we go to dif schools but weve stayed familiar over the internet. i asked her yesterday if she wanted to make out or sumthing next weekend when we are gonna be at a bonfire at my house and she said YEAH! and talked about how she liked me and stuff.. so heres my question.. - how far do u think i can get with this girl?
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hey dont push it just let things happen naturally just see how far she wants to go, dont try to talk her into it just let her do all the work
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Q: Okay so I went to this party last night and this guy that was there was like "why the hell are YOU here?" because I'm straight edge and I don't do drugs and stuff.. And he kept insulting me and saying crap and it really pissed me off because we have mutual friends and he thinks I'm a "loser" because I don't do drugs and drink and have sex and stuff.. So what should I do to keep myself from kicking his ass? because he's really really starting to piss me off.. And I'm going to have to deal with him for a really long time.. So yeah.. Sorry if this is long.
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Just ignore the SOB tell him to f*ck off and to kiss your ass and that you are better then them for not doin all the shit they do
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I am 17 an i live in Ohio i love to give advice plus all my friends call me and ask me for it so I think i can help you all
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E-mail: Gender: Male Location: ohio Age: 17 AIM: Member Since: March 13, 2005 Answers: 32 Last Update: April 6, 2005 Visitors: 3462
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