My name is Chelsea, I'm 17 & a senior in high school. I like giving advice and helping people in general. I have the most experience in areas like family issues, dealing with friends and losing friends, pregnancy scares, and moving. I've made mistakes and learned from them. That's where my experience comes from. So why not help someone in the same situation that you've already been in? I'll try to do just that, and if you have a question don't hesitate to ask!
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is it really bad to have a dog lick your private area? couldi get an infection or something? (link)
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well, dogs mouths are known to be cleaner than humans believe it or not. so i dont think it could do anything bad to you, no.
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do they have clubbing for teeagers? (link)
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depends on what city you live in. maybe research some of the clubs that are in your town online and look for anything that says something about a "teen night"
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ok, i just got a razr and it has different, erm, icons then my last phone. what i mean is that when i'm looking at text messages, i don't know what the little symbols next to the message mean. for example, what is the envelope with the white I in a red square mean? also the little green arrow in a square, and a white box with black arrows around it? i think the check box in the square means received and read, but i'm not sure. if you have a Razr and know what i mean, please help! (link)
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if you click menu, then go to settings and tools, then scroll down to system settings and choose that. then go to icon glossary, and it should tell you what they all mean
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In sims2, how do you make werewolfs? I saw trailors for sims2 pets, and I have it, And I was wondering, how you could find one, or make one. thanks! (link)
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sometimes at night there is a dog that will walk aroung your yard, its a black ish color and it has glowing yellow eyes, you need to greet that dog and pet it, try to build up your relationship with it. then one of the options should be to get bitten by that dog, and then your sim will turn into a warewolf at night.
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So yeah I've gotten fingered. Sometimes I can't get an orgasm from just fingering so he rubs my clit. But it's so sensitive .. it makes my legs shake. It sometimes hurts because it's sensitive. Is there anything I can do?
I cannot seem to get an orgasm from fingering and then getting attention put on my clit.
Why does it hurt? I get this throbbing feeling and I end up moving because of that. (link)
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When your legs start to shake or its feeling really sensitive, try to relax, see if that helps any.
Maybe you should try clitoral stimulation before inserting a finger, that way you might be more "wet" and turned on, it might feel better afterwards
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whats the website where you can play dance dance revolution? for free (link)
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you might be talking about stepmania
in that case, if you are
www.stepmania.com
you have to download songs too
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just wondering. at what ages did you guys have your first kiss? and where was it?
i'm just wondering because i'm 15. i'll be 16 in september and i still haven't had my first kiss. (link)
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mine was when i was 13, in a mall. it was pretty bad, i wish i could do it over.
when it happens to you make it as special as you can
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Okay so my best friend's gonna have sweet 16 soon, its going to be on the 25th this month and I am in charge of the songs...
I usually listen to rock( although i do prefer rap and hip hop songs at the parties...)
but she loves rap and hip hop..
so anybody have a good list going on for me?? like a good dance musics that's hiphop and rap
this is what i have so far
-Rock yo hips
-Go Getta
-This is why im hott
-We fly high
-Money Maker
-What you know
-King Kong
-Shorty like mine
-Chain Hang Low
-Leather So Soft
-Ice Box
-walk it out
-2 step
-pop lock & drop it
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Gouda - E40
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13/f. I think I am depressed and its not helping that everything is overwhelming me and stressing me out. Also I'm going to say before hand that I know most the things on here don't sound like a big deal but keep this in mind; I'm a person who gets stressed out at the most littlest things. So please, please understand that I'm having trouble here.
1. I am super stressed. nervous, and scared about going to high school for the first year. Most my friends are excited but I'm not. I'm rather shy, so its hard to make friends. And I've been working my butt since 7th grade, to get the social life I have now in 8th grade, which is practically no where. I have friends, but only 2 of them we actually make plans with each other and stuff. I am scared that I will not be able to make friends in school next year. I am terrified to the point where I will just start randomly crying from thinking about it.
2. We have to do this thing for our foreign language classes as part of the end of the year exam, where you leave the middle of class to go to your language teacher and you have to have I believe 4 conversations in the language you take with them. Well, you were also supposed to go to a few practice sessions which counted as a grade. I didn't go to any because I just kept putting it off and before I knew it I couldn't. I am pretty good at the forein language class. I went down and she asked why I didn't go to any and I told her the same thing I told you, that I was putting it off. And I apologized and stuff. Lucky for me she was SUPER nice about it. She did not get mad or anything. She just told me to go to a practice session Friday (today) and stay after another day to do the talking thing with her. I wanted to just get the talking thing over with, and I understand 100% that I put myself in this situation and that it's my fault I didn't go to practice things. Well, I was soo stressed about the practice session that I begged my mom not to make me go to school today. She let me stay home.
3. We got back interms and I'm failing a ton of classes. My grandma passed away in late April and I missed a few days of school to go out of state for her funeral and I was so stressed about the work I missed that I failed a test I missed (that I was making up later) and didn't get some assignments she never gave me but I didn't ever know about them. I'm failing 2 classes, not doing so well in 2 other classes, and doing good in the last 2 classes. My mom is not mad at me but she wants me to work harder to raise them up but I'm very stressed out. I do not want to go to summer school which is manatory if you fail at least 2 classes which I am right now so I NEED to get my grades back up.
4. My dance recitals on Sunday and I've been working, so, so, hard to get the dances down. I've got one down but the other there are a few parts I just can't get no matter how many times I practice it and people are explaining it, I forget it within a minute! I'm working SOO hard in dance but I'm so scared to mess up on stage infront of hundreds of people. Also at the parts I can't get, I look at the people around me but it's hard to keep up with them.
5. I have been lazy lately. Not feeling really up to what I usually like to do. And I know thats a sign of depression. I also know loss of appetite or gaining appetite is. I eat a lot of junk when I get home from school. ALOT. And I'm skinny not fat or anything and I think I'm pretty so I dont have NO self-esteem or anything. But I'm scared I'll get fat but I just can't get myself to put the junk down and eat healthier things. I'd never ever let my self go anorexic or bulimic though.
6. My homework is overwhelming. I put little effort into it too. I know its my fault. I don't care how much you say everything going on here is my fault because I know it is, that I'm the one that got myself here and put myself in this situation. I just can't handle it all. Please help me. What should I do, how do I fix it?!
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I know you're nervous about entering highschool, it is a scary thing. I am in 10th grade now and I was nervous about starting lastyear too. But the thing you need to think about it, a lot of people are nervous about it so you are surely not alone. Secondly, highschool is a place where a lot of people come together. Now I don't know about your school but at my school there are about 700 people in each GRADE. It's a place and time in your life to make new friends, and you'll love it once you get used to it.
I'm sorry to hear about your Grandma, maybe you should consider some after-school tutoring? Or ask your teachers if there is any extra credit work you can do. The good thing is you have your mom on your side, don't be afraid to ask her for help.
I know what it's like to be nervous about a dance recital, it happens to me everytime. When you have spare time just practice them if you can. Turn on some music and do them in your room or where ever you are. Go over the steps in your head, that always helps me.
Try to eat right from here on out, the end of the year is coming and school is about to end so it's hard to keep up with work.. but maybe right all your assignments down and do them RIGHT when you get home so you aren't putting them off the rest of the day. That usually saves some last minute scrambling
If you need anything else, you can ask. Hope I helped
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im a bit concerned....i have only been fingered 3times. im seventeen. and wenever my boyfriend does finger me, i bleed a little. it does not hurt after and the bleeding stops like after a little while...is something wrong with me? (link)
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No nothings wrong with you, if you've only been fingered three times then your hymen is probably tearing, which is normal. It can happen from being fingered or even putting a tampon in. It won't bleed anymore after you get fingered more often.
Hope I helped
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So my bf fingered me and have me oral...
My question is, i don't know if i had an organism or not? There wasn't a time that it felt really really good, and if it would feel good it was for like one second then stop
Also I heard that if you rub ur clift it will make a big differences, he said that he couldn't fine/see mine...and i have no idea what i'm really looking for, can someone help?
And how come it didn't feel good, && please don't tell me to feel myself for what feels good and what dosn't (link)
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When you have an orgasm you will deffinitly know that you did, it doens't last VERY long, but long enough for you to know that it's happening.
If you use the information that the person below me has given you, tell your boyfriend to focus on your clit for a while, it's okay to finger you inbetween clitoral stimulation, but being fingered non-stop can start to hurt, and believe me that's not fun.
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ok i have this friend we will call her A ok so this friend of mine i like she's really cool and all but then she's kinda a whore and i dont really like what she's been doing i mean i understand some people like doing stuff like that very often but i mean she is like obsessed with guys everytime we are hanging out shes like we need boys every single time and it kinda pisses me off not to mention my friend D like this one guy named Jordan and so A and D were gonna hangout with jordan and his friend Derek and they are both pot smokers anywho they wanted to 3 way with A now D likes Jordan so i told A she cant do anything with them and A doesnt like either of them but she said they are gonna be watching a movie and that something's gonna happen during this movie but D will be there so i am so confused right now i mean i like A but she's kinda a whore and i dont really like it how she's do something with any guy if they ask her to it's kinda pathetic to me so what should i do any advice for this sorry it was long but thanks in advance (link)
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If she tries to invite guys just tell her you really want a girls night. And when she tries to talk about them all the time maybe try and casually change the subject. My best friend was exactly like this, and I was in your place, so I know what it's like.
Whatever you do, don't just ditch her because you'll regret it in the long run, trust me.
If you do think you're jealous of her, just try and focus on the good things about you. Everyone has good qualities to them and you aren't and less of what she is. So just realize that you are your own person. Maybe she feels the need to be in a relationship or feel like she has someone who loves her all the time, some people are like that and some people aren't. There are good qualities to everyone, and you could be doing what she's doing if you really wanted to, you guys are just two different people.
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I think I'm going through a fit of depression.
I've been looking up symptoms & I literally say yes to every single one.
Here's my little story:
I have a best friend, our parents are friends & we've been friends literally forever. But she's a grade lower so we don't have the same friends.. so I don't hang out with her when I'm with my grade friends.
But that's not what this is about. Just that, she's my only friend, but I feel like I have none.
I talk to all the people at school but.. none hang out with me on weekends/after school. They all have their own friend circles.
All year + last year I've had three best friends [besides the other].
We hung out all the time.
Then, two started hanging out with an older girl & got into drinking & smoking.
Me & the other friend don't do that, so we just hung out with them like on one weekend day & each other on the other most of the time.
But then, they stopped hanging out with that girl.
So randomly, one day, the third friend started smoking & drinking with them.
So now I feel like they don't want to even be my friend. We haven't hung out in weeks, & they never call me.
I'm fine with losing them if they're going to get into that & ditch me for it but.. I have trouble with it because now I have no friends in my grade.
& it's embarrassing.
I already have social anxiety disorder, which is why I suspect depression.
I don't know what to do. Lately I feel so worthless.. I never hang out with friends [besides my one] & it seems like they don't even care, or notice.
I once called one about another's birthday, & I said can I give you the gift at school since you guys don't hang out with me anymore & I see you at lunch.
& she didn't even acknowledge me saying that, she just said yeah sure I think we're having a small party.
So I was like.. okay.. well if you want me to then maybe I can come.
It's just made me so depressed. I feel worthless. I feel like a burden to them, & they don't notice. I'm increasingly angry all the time. I have no energy. I'm always sore for no reason.
What should I do... about the friends/depression thing any advice at all?
sorry for the novel. (link)
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I was in a situation very similer to yours.
Maybe you should talk to them about how they're making you feel, and hope they'll understand. If they don't then there are plenty of people in the world, and you can find new friends that will treat you right.
And I DO agree with the person who answered this before me, you need to find ways to improve your self-esteem. Do things that you like, are good at, or that just make you feel good! You aren't worthless, no one is. You just need to find things that make you feel better, because everyone has worth.
If you are depressed to a point that you can't take it anymore, maybe ask your parents to take you to a doctor or phsycologist, that way you could get the help that you really need. Also, group therapy with your friends wouldn't be a bad idea. If you have some kind of peer mediation thing at your school, you could try that.
If you need to talk or anything you can send me a question or talk to me on AIM my screen name is ccc dubyah.
hope you feel better
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ok well im am totally in love! with my bestfriend and i have heard from some of his friends that he likes me and really wants to go out with me! But idk if i should do that because we have about 2 weeks of school left and we rarely see eachother over the summer! which sucks. I have been wanting to kiss him for a very long time. but im scared to do it unles i know its ok. soo do you think it would be ok if i kissed him?. (link)
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Well, then ask him out! People say the best relationships come from the best of friends. As far as the summer thing goes, just make time for eachother if you want it to work out, call eachother when you aren't able to see eachother in person.
Have fun, good luck
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what are the some songs that are like
*you and me - lifehouse
*stickwitu - PCD
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as in cute love songs???
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here by me - 3 doors down
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I recently heared that PSP's get internet service. is that true? & do you ahve to pay to get on the internet. Also what other things can you do on a psp.
thanks in advance (link)
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If you are considering buying a PSP, I reccommend that you rethink it. They are a good system, and they do have some good features (internet being one of them). But they are very expensive and really do not have many good games made for them. And if you want to trade it in, you only get 70 dollars cash back. So unless you're sure it's what you're looking for, maybe you should try some other options.
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I'm looking for rap music that is similar to
2Pac (Feat. Elton John) - Ghetto Gospel
- Rap music that has a mix of both rock and rap, sort of like where is the love by black eyed peas... (link)
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Bring The Noise - Public Enemy & Anthrax
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What are the bands that the Red Hot Chili Peppers imitate in their Dani California video? (link)
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I know they did some Misfits, that was supposed to be "goth rock".
The point of the video was a long the lines of musical eras throughout the history of music more so than mimicing specific bands or people.
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ok...well i have limewire 4 my music downloadin and all that but i cant firgure out out to get all that music to where i can burn or how i can burn it off limewire...please help i rate! =) (link)
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gaah this took me forever to figure out too. what you do.. is where it lists all your songs in the Shared Library folder.. in the middle of the screen on the right hand side is a button that says Explore. click that, then a list of all the songs you have downloaded should pop up. right click on the ones you want to burn onto the CD then click 'add to playlist' and windows media player should pop up and when you have all the songs listed click copy!!
=) good luck hope i helped
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ok... i have a best friend who has been bugging me lately... i don't know, she is just annoying... like when i'm not talking to anyone at lunch she goes "are you mad at me?" and i'll be like no and then she'll get all quiet and today i asked her a question and i didn't hear what she said so i was like what? and she replyed in an annoyed voice and i was like sorry i couldn't hear you. and then i didn't wait for her after lunch.. lately she keeps saying rude comments and i can't take... i also feel as if she likes my boyfriend, but i am not sure because she acts like it but when i ask her she says she doesn't. She keeps asking me if i am mad and i say i just don't feel like talking... right now she is iming me and asking that but i don't no what to say... i'm not sure if i even want to be her friend anymore... pleaz help WHat should i say to her and should i still be her friend? (link)
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tell her what you think, but in a nice way that doesnt hurt her feelings. talk about it and you two will more than likely work it out, good luck.
hope i helped
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