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I get jelous really easily. If I see my friends together without me, I instantly get jelous. I like get into this depressed state and start thinkin know one likes me. Or if they`re talkin about a good time they had together and I wasn`t there I get all upset. I really hate to feel this way, I know I can`t be their WHOLE lives. What should I do ?

I DO TOO!!! but i talked to my friend acaully she was like my best friend aboutit and she understoOD and so she started inviting my places with her n our friends and i felt better and belive me i always go jelous but by not letting her no she dosn't no you get jelous easily. belive me just talk to her

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what is a good site to get music for free? i only have real player, not windows media.

o geez !! TRY LIMEWIRE IT WORKS REALLY GOOD THE SITE IT www.limewire.com AND LIKE YOU CNA DOWNLOAD ANYTHING but if you do'nt like it go to www.launch.com

RATE MEE PLEASE
julia

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I'm a 17/F, junior in high school. I'm seriously debating dropping out my senior year. Just finish out school until I'm 18 and no longer legally have to attend. I simply hate school, all it does is cause problems and drama in my life. With the things I've done, I wont get accepted into college anyway, so I figure I'll go to a community college when I'm ready because you don't even have to graduate to go to one of those. I already have a job that I absolutely love, so finding a job because I'm a dropout wont be a problem, and I'll be going to college anyway. Everyone I know is a senior this year, so next year will be miserable when all my friends are gone, and teachers suck, and other people are just self centered assholes, that I don't want to be around anyway. What are the pros and cons of dropping out for me at this point? Is anyone out there a dropout? Any experiences to share?

DO NOT DROP OUT OF SCHOOL !! BELIVE ME!! what you need to do is try to start over TODAY AND DO EVERYTHING YOU CAN TO GET BETTER AT SCHOOL, YOU NEED TO GET EXTRA CREDIT OF SOMETHING belive me dropping out of school won't solve anything and your life will be ruined just pray and go to church and try to make new friends and join a like club at school that helps people but by dropping out of school and gonig to a community collage will get you somewhere unill like next year...then your screwed..JUST THINK ABOUT IT

GOOD LUCK

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I just broke up with me boyfriend yesturday. but I still like him and I miss him should I ask him back out or just live with what I did

talk to him and tell why you did what you did and if he dosn't want to go back out then your going to have to live with what you did but TALK TO HIM FIRST Before you do anything

GOOD LUCK
JULIA

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well i have this friends..actaully shes my best friend..like im really close to her and i feel i can be myself with her and shes just like me but my mom dosnt like her and is trying to break us up!!!! i've tryed everythign but my mom wotn listen to me!! what should i do i dont wanna loose are friendship!!!

wow i'm going through that same thing and its acaully with my best friend also. her name is alesha and i guess my parents didn'y get a great vibe from her parents and so they always assume things and now i can't even spend the night at her house anymore and its getting to a point where i can't take it and the best thing to do it talk to them about it and join a sport with your friend b/c then your mom can kind of get to no her a little better. thats what i did and it worked!! i hope everything works out

julia

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i was wondering if anyone knows a song with these lyrics:

Because Im waiting for, waiting for you darliiing. Wait for meeee too. Wait for me as i wait for you.

ill rate 5's for best answer

It's Wait for me By: Rebecca St. James

hope its what you wanted

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Okay, as childish as this might sound, I needed to ask it anyways. I'm 15 female, and this other girl named; Rachael is 14. Rachael rides my bus & she was my first friend at school. I just recently moved here, she was/still is a loner too! After about a month she really started to annoy me, & I guess you could say I really don't like her AT ALL. But, she still follows me around, talks to me, etc. I'm not mean to her though - Seen as; I'm nothing like that. I'm seriously one of the nicest people alive. I really don't like to yell at people but if it becomes necessary, then I do. Today on the bus she took my purse because stupid me left it in the seat while I went back to my locker to get a book. When I got back she said, "I threw your purse out the window! Your love took the purse I don't have it!" Which really pissed me off. I asked her nicely for about 5 minutes, then I just lost it and totally flipped out, I really wanted my purse back & I knew she had it. She gave it back 10 mins after that and I ignored her the rest of the way home. When she asked if I was mad at her I said no, because I think it might seem childish if I were to say yes because she stole my purse & I defintiely didn't want to be the immature one in the situation. I was wondering, if I did right? Did it seem childish of me not to talk to her, or do you think that I did right? Thanks!!

Sorry this is so long, but I really needed to know.

i don't think its childish b/c she needs to no or she will keep being like that but just tell her you think it was mean and she will understand...hopefully just don't yell at her

GOOD LUCK

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I am 17 and a female. I have light brown hair. I want to lighten it up. Has anyone here tried lemon lights by john frida? Has it worked on your hair?

well i have an it works really good!! i'm a girl too and belive me its worth it

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ok, well, today is Halloween, as EVERYBODY knows. and i'm 13/f and i'm going to go trick-o-treating. but my parents are making me go with this person i go with every year and she gets on my nerves so freakin much. so how can i get my parents to let me go with the people i want to go with?

Well tell them about it and if they don't understand try to perswade your parents to let your friends come with this girl that you said gets on your nerves and maybe things will work out;) good luck and have fun !!

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Hi,

My name is Todd, I'm an only child, and I am 15 and in High School. I have a really good friendship with this girl who has some problems. We're not really dating, but she's a really nice person and she's very kind, however she's depressed quite a lot.

I found out that she cuts herself since I saw cuts on her arms, and when some people asked she said it was nothing. I knew something wasn't right since she's never usually been cut like that. I didn't want to tell her that I think she's cutting herself, since I don't want to make her feel worse, but I just wish I could do something to make her feel better.

I always listen to what she has to say (although it's not much [as she says]), and I always try to do great things for her like get her gifts and make her feel better.

I know, from what she told me, her family has issues since she isn't really given much attention. It's not that her parents are mean, it's just that they don't really care about her. She also has two older sisters (who have children also) and one younger sister, so things get hectic over there, from what I know. Her two older sisters occasionally come up once a week or so, and she is left to babysit her nephews and niece.

I always try to let her know that I care about her 24/7. I'm going to invite her over to my house this weekend since she's been to my place before and my parents are happy to see her. Plus, it's a lot quieter. :-)

I know I can't "give" her my family, but I want to do as much as I possibly can to make her feel better and less depressed.

I'm concerned because I don't want her to commit suicide, since that would kill me. ;-(

If you have any advice or solutions you can give me, PLEASE TELL ME.

One of my ideas was that if her family doesn't do anything for Thanksgiving, I was thinking of having her over for Thanksgiving, since my parents won't really be doing anything since my immediate family moved away.

Thank you very much! :-)

Talk to her about it and make sure she knows that you care about her and that you really want her to stop doing this because if she dosn't no that then she might not get the feeling that your trying to help her by just inviting her to your house which is still a nice thing to do !! I hope everything works out ok

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The other day i went to a haunted house. but, before i went with my friends ernie and roy. we went ot a bar and drank alotta budlight. I didn't think anything of it until when we go tinto the haunted houses i peed my pants and all over myself. My friends ernie and roy won't quit making fun of me and laughing at me. What should i do?

well laugh with them about it because pretty soon it will be old news and there will be something else to laugh about && if they still don't stop be up front with them and tell them how you feel

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i know i don't have breasts but when i get near a guy i try to push them out.[it works kinda] but i think now boys are looking for that. im 13. what should i do?

thanks in advance

ash

stop trying to push them out!! love what you have..i'm 13 too and belive me don't push them out b/c soon enough the guys will find out your trying to push them out and it might be a little weird having the guys no that..

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I won't really be shocked of nobody answers this, because it feels so unanswerable. But, my sister had a friend in my grade, and the friend talked really bad about my sister. So I told her it was bugging me, and she was really rude to me about it and used profanity in front of people at school. I ended up crying in the hall, and the next day my sister talks to her again when she knew I stuck up for her in a crowd of people. In other words, she doesn't care, I saw her talking to the girl today and I just wanted to scream and cry. Theres really no ending to her selfishness. I can't tell anyone, because it's a very long story, my mom doesn't care, my dad has no control. I'm just wondering how I can deal with my sister and mom treating me like crap without just screaming at them like always. It hurts to know that someone you stuck up for never even cared. What is the best way I can cope with this?

the best way is to talk to your sister about it and if that dosn't work then tell your sisters friend that if she really is her frined then why do you talk bad about her but i you shouldn't take crap from her if your sister dosn't care at all just forget about it and soon engough things will change

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can anyone help me think of some love songs that are about knowing someone for a long time& then falling in love with them? I'm trying but I keep running a blank! thanks in advance! :D

i wanna love you out loud by the rascal flatts or this i swear by nick something hes jessica simpsons husband

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I'm not sure exactly what I should or even can do for my cousin. I'm 19/f and he's 17/m and we were really close growing up, almost like brother and sister. I knew a while ago that he smoked pot and I've been telling him to stop and everything, but I had no idea how bad it really was. Last night we had a really long conversation online (we live 4 hours away now) and I guess he smokes enough to get "the shakes" after 2 days of not having any. I had no idea he smoked that much, I thought he only did it every so often. He also told me that he cuts and that he's attempted suicide on and off since he was FIVE YEARS OLD! I don't think that he would really go through with it, but it's so scary to know that he's thinking that seriously about it. He started smoking really heavily when he broke up with his girlfriend. She cheated on him and then dumped him because he didn't trust her anymore. He says that pot is all that is keeping him alive since then. His parents divorced when he was really young and his father has been married two times since and is now going through his third divorce. My cousin lives with his mother and her second husband which have a very bad influence on him. They live a really horrible lifestyle and abuse him by giving their own children more priviledges, making him babysit, and not allowing him to have certain things around the house like soda or peanut butter. He's been through a lot of relationships, some since the girl I mentioned before and he's far from a virgin. Our family has treated him like crap since he was born and they have such high expectations for him especially because he's the fourth of his name. They all love him though, especially me and I hate to see this happening to him. I'm really glad that he was honest with me, but I'm so worried about him. What can I do to help him? I've talked to him and tried to encourage him and I don't know if it's working. I hate to see this happen to someone I care so much about. Any advice at all would be wonderful. Sorry it's so long.

take him to church with you and have him become close with god..that may not sound like alot but it will help

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what if your boyfriend does not know your kissing his best friend and me and his friend act wierd around him

thats not good and you need to tell your boyfriend the truth or stop cheating on him or at least stop kissing!

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Ok, my gramma has cancer and shes dying. We dont think she will make it until Christmas. I have a big family, and we are all very close, so it's a sad thing. But for some reason, i just dont feel sad. I feel guilty, it feels like i dont care. I know i do care, but i dont feel sad. It seems like everyone else is sad except me. Am i like a bad person? Is this normal? Please help!

omgosh i went through the excact thing with my grandpa. YOu see i felt like i should feel sad but i did only see him about 2 a year if i'm lucky and i new i was sad but i just not very much && this may sound weird but when he dies at the funerel you will start to cry really hard and you will no that you really do care about her! don't worry your not a bad person

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does anyone know anybody with cute aim profiles i think wut a loserr x , and x SiMPLY LO x3 do but im more preppy does anybody know peoples sns with cute ones.?

omgosh yes but don't let her no that you are stealing her profile of she will like blow up!! her sn is: AF x MO0SE and AF xo HCO

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i had a boyfriend for almost 3 years we did everything for eachother i thought he loved me but i guess not...i found out he cheated on me 3 times and he is in the military..he got stationed in germany met a girl and brought her home..wat should i do??

tell him how you feel and if he still does these things try to move on sweetie

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ok so my boyfriend i went to a boy girl party and we palyed spin the boottle andi got my kirst like REAL kiss by then like an our later he give me the middle finger and told me to shove it cuase i wasnt "cuddling" with him. Then he apoligized and i gave him a chance and he was like kept getting mad at me b/c i wasnt lik making out with him. He was acting all perverted, do i dump his sorry ass. And how shloud I say it?

yes!! he tottaly just wants to makeout with you n stuff and theres no reason to do just what he says so he won't dump you...i mean face it...he just wants to make out with you

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