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Hey,my names Cassie and im 15 years old.I live in Brooklyn,New York and i really cant wait to leave >.< The things that keep me sane are my friends and music.Im not sure what id do without them.Im pretty good at giving advice,as long as you dont expect to hear what you want to and for me to sugarcoat things because thats not how life works,and its not how im going to give advice.I've always wanted to be a writer but im not really sure anymore.I cannot stand stereotypes,so if you use them,dont use them with me.I wish there was more people out there who arent fake,but what can you do?Anyway,ill be happy to answer most of your questions,so feel free to ask =]

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I'm dating a guy right now. he's really smart. i'm not just saying that because i'm dating him. he really is quite intelligent. he has a sore on the inside of his lip. he says it's herpes, but that oral herpes isn't contageous. that doesn't sound right to me. i always thought it was contageous. i looked at the sore and it looked nothing like herpes, at least not like the pictures i've seen in school. i don't know much about herpes, but i know i don't want to get it. i really don't know what to do.

#1 rule.when a someone has a disease understand that theyre probably in denial about it themselves.which is why the guy your dating told you herpes was not contagious.
Either he was lieing or hes not very educated about herpes lol.
The thing is, when a person has herpes its ok to kiss them if they dont have an outbreak at the time.(aka you should probably wait till it goes away to take the risk) and if it doesnt go away, make sure he sees a doctor.you dont want to get herpes.It wont be very pleasant.
=] good luck

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I used to have a ton of posters and random cut outs from magazines and stuff on my wall. Most of it kind of fell off, so i just took everything off of it. I need some ideas what i can do to redecorate it. Dont say leave it plain cuz its pink and icky. Your answers are much appreciated!

i have a bunch of my own collages on my wall and it looks really cute.what you should do to prevent it from looking torn up and ugly, instead of putting it straight on the wall try getting like oaktag or something and pasting all magazine cutouts,things you write or draw and frame it.It looks really good if the frame you get is like a bright color too.
hope this helped,good luck =]

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i'm 15 and have a boyfriend of a year and 2 months. i love my boyfriend but i also love it when other guys look at me. like, i have no intention of thinking of them in romantic ways, or even knowing the person, i just like being looked at. is that wrong?

There is nothing wrong with having good self esteem and to like being looked at.Its not like your dating any of the guys that are looking at you behind your boyfriends back.Plus,whats the point of good looking people if they cant be appreciated?
Enjoy the attention,i mean not too much or anything dont go up to the guys and ask for theyre numbers and stuff like that lol but its normal.Im sure your boyfriend doesnt mind being looked at either,so your not alone.

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me 16/f
him 16/f
ok so i have a guy friend and we're not best friends but i think he likes me.these are the things he does.
-hugs me randomly
-challenges me at sports
-pulled me onto his lap in a hot tub
-compliments me
-teases me a little
and when i flirt he flirts back but when we were talking in a small group of our friends he says he's enjoying the freedom of not being in a relationship. he's been in an on again off again relationship for a year.

so does he like me or am i just a summer flirt buddy?

Well, everyone sometimes enjoys the freedom of single life,but it doesnt mean that they would pass up a chance at a great relationship for it.On the other hand,he might just like flirting alot and being that your a good friend, it makes you to be the more "comfortable" person to flirt with and such.What you should do is keep up the flirting and suggest hanging out just the two of you.Something very casual like movies.Then go get some pizza or something, see if theres chemistry outside the circle of friends.And if he keeps flirting, then you should assume its probably not a social thing, more like hes really interested.Make sure you are too,and take it from there
good luck =]

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i really need advice. my friend is being a dick to me. she has call me a lesbian and i am not and we are always in a fight on aim. she has told every one that i am a lesbian my real friends believe me but really i am not. i really wish i had some good comebacks at her. i really do hate her. please give some advise and combacks please.

Your friend sounds like ...well not so much of a friend.Friends dont spread rumors about eachother that arent true.(especially since it can effect you love life and such)A good friendship should consist of loyalty and trust,which it seems this person is lacking.My advice is that you confront her about your friendship.Tell her shes being immature and only someone with wayy too much time on their hands will spread a rumor like that.She needs to understand that her attitude towards people will eventually lead to her being friendless.Tell her that you need trust in a friend and if you cant trust her,you cant be true friends.

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