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Gender: Female
Location: Central New York
Occupation: College Student
Age: 18
Member Since: November 4, 2005
Answers: 27
Last Update: November 6, 2005
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okay well i used to be best friends with this one girl for like ever. and then we stopped talking for a little bit because we were both really busy and she got all mad and said that i was mad at her and she could never trust me again. that was a few months ago and were still not friends. well i was wondering if i should write her (she blocked me and she lives in another state so i cant call her). because i am just wondering if shes okay and maybe we can patch this thing up. should i even bother?

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sure, send her a letter and tell her you're not sure what happened, but you'r enot mad at her, and you hope you two can still be friends. good luck!


On sunda is my boyfriends little sisters birthday party. It will be the first time I have ever met his parents! I want them to know I am a really nice girl and that I love there son alot. What kind of things can I do to show them that I am really nice and that I will treat there son well. I love him and I want to be with him for ever!

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make sure you bring a present for the little sister....not too expensive, because then you will look desperate, but not too cheap either. show some thought went into it. maybe bring cookies or something to put out just to be considerate as well. and other than that, just be yourself. good luck!


alright, i'm 14 years old and i'm around.. 5'3" or possibly 5'4" and im about 106lbs. I'm just asking.. is that really skinny? I mean, I have like, real high metabolism ( both my parents have it ) and all my friends say I'm too skinny and that I need to gain some weight. I'm just having some trouble. How would I go about doing that? Cause I'm not gonna sit there and like, pig out till' i die. I just don't want people thinking i'm anorexic or something. I mean I'm really not that skinny. I think I'm averagley skinny. =/ I don't know. Please help.




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106 is probably a little thin, but not abnormally skinny....do you think 135 is "fat" for just a litte taller than you? im 5'5" and last time i went to the doctors i was 135, but i think i've lost weight since i got to college, because the food here is so terrible....


i've been wanting to change my pictures around online. changing them to black and white. white and brown. making them look like cartoons,etc. i've looked for a free photo-shop type thing. but i haven't found any. if you have any suggestions or websites, please tell me.


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most computers come with a cheap (not so great, i dont mean inexpensive, it's a free trial version) adobe photoshop that can do all of that stuff....


how can you tell if a guy is flirting with you and not just being nice? what are some signs that he really has some intrest and isnt just trying to act sweet? thanks! (link)
most guys don't "act sweet" just by nature, if they're acting like that, they want something....but if he's flirting, he might touch you (not necessarily sexually, just like your shoulder, or your arm or something), he'll probably look you in the eyes when he's talking to you....average stuff like opening doors is always a good sign....i can't think of much else off the top of my head...hpoe i helped


Okay, here we go.I am 14 and I really like this boy. And he always flirts with me back and like puts his arm around me and stuff like that. but he flirts with everybody. I mean everybody. So, im not sure if he likes me, is just being friendly, is a natural flirt, or if he just wants to flirt with me. what to do what to do! (link)
i know a kid exactly like that. i think the best thing to do is just play it cool, flirt a little, but not too much. that way, if he really likes you, he doesn't think you're ignoring him, but you won't be made out as a fool if he's just playing around...


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im so insecure.. i really wanna change.. what i dont know.. is how to be confident. i really wanna be cause emotionally ill be so much better off and happier. i dont know how to look at me the way other people do. my boyfriend likes confident and im the total opposite.. i need to learn how to be..any suggestions.. at all..please (link)
i read in a magazine to look at yourself in the mirror every morning, and find one good thing you like about yourself (probably something that a lot of people ccompliment you about). wear something that emphasizes that area, and when people compliment you, don't say you disagree, just say "thanks" and smile. you need to tell yourself that you are pretty and smart and people wish they could be ;like you. i know from personal experience, most people feel like they're not as good as the next person, having no idea that that person thinks they're not as good as the first person. so as long as you don't convey that you think you're not as good as someone, they will think you are confident. good luck!




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