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Ok well im bi and my friend is freeking out about it and he is going to tell my parents and if they find out they will freek out and i dont know what to do cause he is really serious about this and i need help

if you`re going to be bi for the rest of your life, your family needs to accept it.. and they can`t do that unless you tell them.
xx♥cali rae

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I'm growing my hair out to past my boobs but now its like 4 inches longer than shoulder length and i have sideswept bangs that are to about my upper lip...it's kinda at an awkward stage. It's medium brown and pretty straight with a tiny bit of a wave to it. Any suggestions on cute styles I can do?

sweep your bangs to one side, and actually, you should get them trimmed. get a straightener for when you fix your hair, preferably a chi- they work best. or, since your hair is wavey and sometimes people dont always have time to fix their hair, you can scrunch it. aussie sprunch spray works really well. and it smells good! =) anyway, i hope you look fantastic. hope i helped!
♥ cali rae

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Hey! I'm quite aware that this question was asked several times, but I'm throwing a party about 30 people, half boys, half girls.. we are all in our mid-teens... we wont really have supervision.. and I need some games that inclued interaction with the opposite sex.. you know?

Well Thanks in advanced!!!

honey if you love me smile.
if you want to know how to play, inbox me.
♥ cali rae

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ok alot of people keep telling me that there my freinds the they go behind my back a say that their not. i really like these ppl but i guess they dont like me .. what should i do?


ur one of these ppl

thanks
Shana

i don`t know how i could be one of those people.. i dont know anyone named shana.. please tell me who you are.. i want to fix that.. IM me.
xx♥ cali rae

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How do you know when a guy likes you? thanks

depends on how shy you are.. either get someone to casually ask him or write him a note or if you`re real straightforward, ask him yourself.
xx♥ cali rae

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i wasn't exactly sure which category this went under .. buut i havee these stretch marks on my boobs .. cause they grew AL0T in a short amount of timee and well i have thiss prom coming up its not mine its this guuys and i bought a strapless dress and you can see the stretch marks .. are there any lotions i can use to make them go away?

i`m really really sorry, but i dont know how to help you.. i`ll bet there is something you can buy somewhere.. but i have no idea what to tell you. i`m real sorry i couldnt help
♥ cali rae

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Is there any good brand of masacra that anyone knows about that makes your eyelashes seem longer and doesn't look clumpy and flake under your eyes? Im currently using Maybelline mascara and by the time half the day is down some of it flakes and lands under my eyes and makes me look like I'm dead...which is not good. Can anyone help me?

merle norman.
♥ cali rae

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ok i need help yesterday 4/14/05 i was baby sitting my best friends little 4 year old brother because she went on vacation and we were playing hide and seek in my woods and after a few minets i could not finde him then i herd him scream!! i finally found him crying and screming on the ground a stick got poked rite in his eye im not sure how far back it got i pulled it out but half of the stick broke off into his eye he is getting very sick and i can't get any thing done with out his parents permission and they don't even kno their coming back on 4/19/05 in 5 day and i don't kno wut to do HELP ME PLEAS!!!

you need to call them, smart one.
♥ cali rae

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i straighten my hair EVERYDAY untill its straight enough..but the girls at my school have the hair thats perfectly flat..and straight ends..like pointy straight and it looks really cute..all their frizzys are hairsprayed down or something, did they fri their hair..or how do i get my hair like that?

it must be your straightener. you need a chi. they work really well. i have one and i like my hair. it'll make it beautiful! hope i helped
♥ cali rae

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i recently got my belly button peirced 3 weeks ago, its healed really nicely. my boyfriend gave me a really pretty ring for it for my birthday and i can't wait to change it. Is it too early to change it, because it says wait 8 weeks, but its healed and i know a otn of people who have changed it earlier, thanks!

when i got mine done, i was really anxious to change it too. i did after about 2 or three weeks, i didnt bother to wait the whole 8 weeks cause i felt it was fine. after i changed it, nothing happened, it didnt get infected or anything but it matters how much you clean it and how well you take care of it. hope i helped.
♥ cali rae

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ok my b/f was at the dance and he told me that he was not goin to go to it if i was not there so i dint go . then when i came back from church camp i found out he went and ever body was tellin me that he was all ove this girl and then when i asked him he said he went casue his best freind went and he said he did not dance with anybody. then i asked the girl if he danced with him and she said yes i was all over him and everybody at school is tellin me that he was to and he said he wasnt so what do u think i should do?

i think i know who this is, but im not sure. anyway, if it is who i think it is, then i saw him there and he wasnt all over the girl, but he is the kind of person who flirts. if this isnt who i think it is, then you should trust him and believe that he would be honest to you about something like that.. if it happens again after, or in the future, then i'd consider taking a break. hope i helped.
♥ cali rae

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okay so what are you supposed to do if you have like a 5 best friend group and we tell each other everything(but i try not to). Because i mean if i tell one of my best friends something about another one of our friends they end up telling them and then they like try and act like its okay they told but its not and they get all mad because they say that im the only one mad. And i'm sick and tired of them acting like "Susie" is the best one in the group and they ALWAYS have to be the one to have her attention and thinks shes like the most wonderful person in the world and end up hogging her. I mean its just not fair. Should i just keep my mouth shut and not tell them anything? Please Help!

well, i think that once you are told something, you should keep it to yourself unless you know the person wouldnt mind anyone else knowing. as for the attention thingy, just try not to blow things out of porportion. everyone goes through a stage when they think they are the center of the world. l0l. anwyay, i dont feel like i was much help, so sorry- but please continue to ask me things and please rate.
♥ cali rae

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hey. i'm a 12yr old grl and my best friend and i like the same guy. we both asked the guy if he liked the other friend and he said yes both times. if she asks him out, and he says yes i'll be heartbroken. but i'm afraid to ask him out for me cuz he broke my heart b4. what should i do?

talk it out with your friend. if the guy says he likes the both of you, i dont think he is worth it anyway. if he has broken your heart before, why bother? plus, you wouldnt want to ruin a friendship.
♥ cali rae

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on your questions that you get, when i read them i feel like i know who it was that submitted them and one of them may be talking about me..

i feel the same way sometimes.. like on the last one, i think i know who asked it. anyway, dont sweat it.
♥ cali rae

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Okay, well there is this girl in my grade, and she wont stop flirting with me! what's even worse is that she sometimes does it it front of my girlfriend, and that really pisses her and me off!! I'm not interested in the girl at all, and by now she should know it! What should I do to stop this?

A man in much need of help.

well, just tell the girl how you feel. tell her that you have a girlfriend and that you are not interested in her. if you are worried about hurting her feelings, dont do this in front of anyone. maybe just IM her on AIM or something and talk to her about it without being harsh. as for your girlfriend situation, make sure your girlfriend knows you are not interested in the girl. hope i helped. and quit cussing!
♥ cali rae

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ok heyz, this boy in my class likes me and its totally obvious. but the thing is he went out with my best friend and if he aske me out then what should i do should i say yes or no.because this other guy likes me and hes already sorta asked me out so i dont know what to do about that. its not really a date what should i do... help me soon!?!?!

through that whole story, you never even said if you like the guy or not.
♥ cali rae

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ok i asked about the games for my party earlier..and if they were too babyish..most of you said no, so thats a good sign. My next question is how many games per hour should i have? i dont want to overwhelm everyone with games..should it be once every half hour? every hour? thanks you guys

i have come to find that schedules dont work well at parties, and people tend to find something else to entertain themselves.
♥ cali rae

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i have the worst time getting up in the morning. I fall asleep around ten and TRY to wake up at 6:30. my alarm will go off, ill wake up, but then i go back to sleep till 7:15 and miss the bus. Can anybody help me wake up better in the morning?

when u wake up, no matter how tired you feel , go wash your face, it will wake you up. also, try going to bed earlier.
♥ cali rae

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When my boyfriend and I talk on the phone, he always switches over to another call. Well with his phone I am able to hear the voices, and it's ALWAYS another girl's voice.. could he be cheating on me? How do I bring this up with him...

when he comes back, ask him who it was and if he lies and says one of his guy friends' names, thats when you have a problem.
♥ cali rae

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besides babysitting, what are other little ways of making money at age 14, and also besides getting a real job (bc my mom won't let me)

There isn't a lot.. You can clean and do chores around the house, clean your neighbors' houses, rake leaves/mow lawns, shovel snow, garden, tutoring, or have fun while making money by holding a car wash! Hope i helped!
♥ cali rae

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