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My names britt. I love school for some reason its really easy. I love my friends Britt(lol) && Tiffany (who looks like my twin). I'm pretty athletic even though I don't play sports. I'm really easy to get along with;unless i hate you, then i could be a bitch. But generally I'm a nice person. I'm 13 and have two dogs who are chihuahuas: && They are my babies

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17/F
My boyfriend, 20/M, and i have been dating for 3 months now. last night when we were fooling around, he asked me to tell him what i like so that he can do it. I told him that i didn't know. I told him that he was the first guy i'd ever been with, and that i don't experiment myself. (I'm very conservitive). Anyhow, this got into a huge discussion about it and now things are awkward between us. We had a huge sex talk and i found out that he has done alot of stuff before with other girls. i really want to do stuff with him, but i;m afraid of going beow the belt. How can i overcome this fear, and is there any way that i can make things not awkward between us?

dont do anything you dont want to do.

"waiting til marriage seems pointless, but when you do get married, wouldnt you want to give them something as important as your virginity, and not whats left of you"

you've only been going out for 3 months, thats wayyy to early to have sex. and even things before the waist. how would you feel if u guys did stuff and then he dumped you the day after?

oh, and to answer your question, dont do anything you feel awkward doing or you dont want to do. it seems as if your not ready, but still want to. to make it seem less awkward, you could dim the lights or even ask him to try and make it seem less awkward.

i didnt help much, sryy.

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okay well im thirteen tomorrow and my boyfriend is a year older than me and yesterday my boyfriend told me that his best friend which is my best friend's boyfriend kept asking him how far me and him have gone but he wouldn't tell him. then they made a bet that my boyfriend would finger me by the 27. and last night i asked my boyfriend if i was just a f**king bet to him and he was like oh how do you know about the bet? and no your not just a bet. and we only made it because he wouldn't leave me alone. and then my boyfriend told me that it was also because he feels weird because my two best friends and their boyfriends have sex and stuff and he feels weird because we haven't and he feels left out. and then i was like well what are you trying to tell me ? and he was like well maybe we should do it because i want to because i love you. and i was like no. and he was okay with it but then he kept asking why and stuff and dont i want to know what its like and stuff like that. and i was like yeah i'm curious but i'm not ready to find out. we have only been going out for almost three months. it would be 3 january 10th. and then he was like well i love you and i want to go farther with you. and i was like " okay, i want to go farther but not all the way " and he was like "would you feel comfortable with 3rd?" and i was like yeah i guess and then i found out today that my best friends boyfriend bet my ass that he wouldn't finger me and my boyfriend bet my best friend's tit's that he would. i don't know wahat to do. i don't want to let him finger me if its all just because of a stupid fricken bet. im not a whore or a slut but i'm also not prude. a little advice please?

Don't do anything you dont want to, nor regret.

If he would break up with you after, you'd probably feel horrible. and just because he wants to, and you dont want to. dont let him.

Its not being prude and whatever.


"i want to because i love you" sounds like its more of a bet.
No ever let anyone take advantage of you by telling they want to or you have to do something to show you love them. such as "if you love me you'll let me do it" just simply say. "if you love me. you'll wait"

something like that.

hope i helped :]

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what are some things I can do to get great skin? Please don't list make- ups because i only beleive in natural beauty

Make-up can make your skin look nice, but is actually bad for your skin.

Uhm, you could wash your face [not saying that you dont] and then put a little lotion on it.

There are Olay skin products that help a lot.

Stay away from sun without sunblock on. and tanning beds are horrible for it.

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i cant really explain it,

but does anyone know how to do something to the bottom of your shirt so its like knotting it. like if youre wearing a big baggy shirt and you wanna make it up to your belly button for example, instead of knotting it, theres something else to can do.

if you find a website with pictures step by step, or if you can explain it that's be helpful!

thanks!

just tie it to you liking, like with a ponytail and like how u would tie a ponytail and tuck it under.

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Hey,sorry if this sounds a little gross

i'm 15/f and its been about a year and six months since i got my period and everythings been good but a few days before christmas i got it but it was kinda brown and not that much i mean i didn't really need a tampon or anything but then basically from christmas for a week it came normal but since about the 29th or so i've been bleeding but just the smallest amouth and its been brown? and then today i put in a tampon just to be safe at school and i bleed quite alot..at least i think..so is this normal to have my period for about two weeks and have a very little blood but the blood being brown??

sorry if its gross but i'm starting to get a little worried and thanks to whom ever answers this it'll help me out a ton!

the days when u have a little brown. thats is spotting.

its perfectly normal. the brown is just dry left over blood.

its not gross, pretty much every girl gets it no matter. so theres no point in going to a doctor.

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What does fetish mean? I asked my friends but they left me confused.. and I don't think i was finding the right definition in the book. It said an object believed to be magic ?


Like.. "I have a neck fetish"


Does it mean that an object (fetish) is used for arousal?

When they have an obsession/like something.

"i have a neck fetish"
they like peoples necks.

people have weird fetishes, such as foot,toe, etc.

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what is that story, i think it is by edgar alan poe, about a man killing someone, then going crazy saying he hears the heartbeat under his floor?

-greatly appreciated

tell-tale heart.

i read that.

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I'm 16/f. I'm a virgin. I'm not plannin to have sex til I'm married. I'm just curious how do you get STD/AID?. I know for you to be able to get those diseases if you're havin sex wit a person that's already have it. But WUT IF I don't have it and my bf doesn't have it.. we have sex.. wut would the risk of me and him gettin STD/AID?? can you get STD/AID from havin sex w/o a condom?? or you can only get it if you have sex wit the person wit STD/AID.
PLEASEE HELPPP MEE!!!.

In order to get STD/AIDS, one person has to have it, it just doesnt pop out of no where. You can get it without a condom, if one of the people have it. STD are spread through sexual contact- vaginal secretions, semen, sometimes even through saliva [oral sex]. AIDS is passed through semen, blood, breastfeeding,and one more thing, i forget though.

To answer you question: You can only get it if u have sex without protection USED CORRECTLY with a person with STD/AIDS.

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hey i was just wondering if there were people out there (or here on advicinator) that think that what hitler did was ethical and support him?
Because i totally dont and i was wondering what were there reasons for thinking so

Some people actually do, but personally i dont. Its because they are predujuduce[sp?] We watched a movie on people who were. it was said how they could say stuff like that. So the people who hate jewish, handicapped, gypsies, and other groups targeted by hitlers, they probably think what he did was so.

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21:33] me: hiiiiiii
[21:33] me: hahaha
[21:34] me: yeyeyye
[21:34] friend: hii
[21:34] me: oops wrong person
[21:34] me: ahahaha
[21:34] me: ok bye
[21:34] me: XD
[21:35] friend: okayy
[21:35] friend: how meann
[21:35] me: how is it mean
[21:36] me: it was wrong person
[21:36] friend: haha nvm
[21:36] friend: byeeeeeeee
[21:36] me: ok bye
[21:36] friend: where do you have to go
[21:36] friend: ?
[21:36] me: no where
[21:36] friend: us aid
[21:36] friend: youu said ok by
[21:36] me: cause u said bye
[21:36] me: i wasnt supposed to im you
[21:36] me: haha
[21:36] me: so yeah ok byebye
[21:37] friend: haha ok whatever bye


am i mean for this? haha just asking

yeah. pretty much.


if i was the friend. i'd be annoyed.

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Okay whenever me and my boyfriend are messing around and i like touch him or poke him down there...he always tells me im making him hard?? im not sure if this is a good thing or a bad thing or even what it means..haha cause hes comeing over tonnight soo pleeasee help! thanks :]]

i guess thats a good thing.

making him "hard" is him getting sexually aroussed.

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alrighty so on monday me, my boyfriend, his sister and her husband are going to six flags. i havent been there since i was like 2. and looking at the website it looks like all there are is rollercoasters. ok so im scared of hights like no other. my bf said i didnt have to go on them but then i would look stupid just standing by myself for a few hours. and i would just not go but i have trust issues with my bf. what the helll should i dooo. i only have til tomorrow to figure out if i want to go or not.

thank you soo much

if i was u. i'd go one one atleast.
u'll probably like it, thats how i was.
and now i cant get enough of em.
you'll never know til u try it.

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hello! i finally had my little daughter 2 days ago... and i need some good names. she has blue eyes... and blonde hair. i want unique names... not like lizzie,.. or emily... or jessica... and i like names that begin with C's. i dont know why haha.

http://www.babynames.com/Names/Girls/?let=C

that gives you some pretty good names and some very very unique names that start with C.

Good luck.

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does anyone know how to get rid of the words that come up all the time. I go to google and then if i type 1 letter like "C" i get all the other words i wrote before like cat and stuff (underneith the text bar). Does anyone know how to get rid of them words? Thanks :) (I hope you get it lol)

Hover your mouse over the word so that its like highlighted, and click delete.

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I'm getting high lights next weekand I'm deciding whether I should get it folied or capped. Which ones better and brings more color to your hair and which ones less damaging?? I need answers really soon because I'm either gettin gthe highlights done tommarow or next week.

If your doing them yourself at home, i'd pick a cap.
But if your getting the professionally done, i'd go witht he foil.

Hope I helped.

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I have the sims 2. In the past four monthes or so i have downloaded a good bit of custom content from the sims2 web site.

I installed it properly and it was working great on my game until i downloaded the sims 2 open for business a few days ago.


Since then NONE of my custom content has worked and i went in and made sure it was enabled and everything. What do i do to get it to work? do i have to resave it somewhere else now that i have an EP

currently all of my custom stuff is saved in downloads in the sims 2 ea games file.

I have tried searching the internet and the sims2 website and i didn't find anything that could help me


any suggestions? because i HAVE to have my custom content on there!

I think you have to resave it in the open for buisiness folder somewhere.

Hope I helped.

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I'm a 14F going into highschool and I'm BARELY 5'1"!! Are there any special foods/excercises that could make me grow?

--Short Freshman.

No, there aren't.
You don't stop growing until your like 20.
Be happy you are short, I wish I was.

Hope I helped.

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can someone pop your cherry by fingereing you? adn how far does their finger go

If they do go in deep enough they can.
Depends how far they put there fingers in.

Hope I helped.

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ok i live in condos. with only my dad is
overprotective, and i really want to exercise but he wont let me go outside by myself. so i end up not getting exercise. :(
someone tell what to tell my father, or what kind of exercise i can do inside plz
thx

Running in place, cruntches, push-ups, sit-ups, mountain climbers.
Buy dumbells and work on ur arms if you want.
They at like 3 dollars for one at walmart that is 5 pounds.

Hope I helped.

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okay i'm about to turn 13 and i havnt had my period yet. i live with my dad so its really hard to bring up that subject, and i cant shave my legs because, again, its hard to bring up the subject. what should i do? i cant go to anyone else either.
thanks in advance

You just have to tell him when you start it, it will be hard to sneak it if you do, he'll understand since like you can't control having your period and that every women has it.

Or you could write him a note, or email him about it or shaving your legs.

Hope I helped.

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