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I love him
He hates me now..
We used to talk alllll the time
now he doesnt
and i cant talk to him
I would do anything to talk to him again
He hates me and my friend
and he stares at us... its weird
I think its becuase we had a bit of a sexual past
i can not get over him, as many times as ive tried.
I need some sort of help
thnx!
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i am sorry that you are going through this. i know that it is hard on you. i would have to know what went on with you two before telling you what is going on here. but as far as i can tell, you love him.. there are hard feelings from him.. and he doesnt love you... maybe because you messed up in the past? i dont know... he might be mad and holding a grudge from things in the past. he needs to get over them, but you have to realize that it is really hard to do that. it takes a lot of time.
i myself know that it takes a LOOONNG time to get over someone... it took me like a year to get completely over my ex. even if i dated other guys, i always went back to him. he was my first love... i dont know if your guy is your first love.. but those are the hardest i think.
maybe he doesnt like your friend and feels uncomfortable around him or her. bottom line.. you need to give him time (as much as it might hurt you).. he needs it. and you need it too... to get over him. then when you two are sure you're good.. i would say talk and make sure there are no hard feelings and stuff.
good luck and im here to talk if you need more info or just someone to talk to!! =]


I am really into acting and i really want to become an actress. but i dont do drama or anything like that but next year i am. I want to become a famous actress and star in movies and tv shows and things like that. but i dont know where start. My school dosnt have drama this year but next year they will but i having second thoughts about taking it and i dont know why. So my question is what would i have to do to become a famous actress?

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if you want to be an actress, you need to take drama. get started now with it and then you'll be better off with a background of what you want to do in life. you will get a lot of experience in drama. if your sk0ol doesnt provide enough, i'd say look for acting sk0ols.. and try to get into those. they are really good and that's how a lot of the actors/ actresses came to start off in the acting world. there's a lot of things you must do to become a famous actress, but if you really want it.. you can do it! just put your mind to it!!
good luck & im here to help anytime!


Everytime my boyfriend comes over we just watch movies and makeout. Its getting kind of old, is there anything else we can do? (Not anything sexual I mean) Were both 15 so we can't drive yet either. Thanks. (link)
hmm, you need to spice it up! maybe go out.. go put put golfing, see a movie, go rock climbing, have dinner, do something fun. and i'd say take a break from the makeout thing... and get to know him.. like have a good conversation.. it will help & it will let you get to know him better & you will enjoy being with him. the conversations & getting to know each other better will spark your interest in each other =]
good luck!! im here to talk!



Okay whenever me and my boyfriend are messing around and i like touch him or poke him down there...he always tells me im making him hard?? im not sure if this is a good thing or a bad thing or even what it means..haha cause hes comeing over tonnight soo pleeasee help! thanks :]] (link)
hmmm, welll if he's openly telling you that you are making him hard, i think he might be hinting something. it's a good thing if you want to be physical, but a bad thing if you dont want to be. he's pretty much putting himself out there & saying "im horny & ur turning me on" in hopes that you will 1) feel the same or 2) do something about his hornyness (aka please him). but dont do anything unless you are 100% comfortable! good luck & im here to talk if u need to!



hi, i was wondering if anybody knew how i could lose some flab on my thighs (inner thigh) and how quickly could i lose it? thanks (link)
you need to run.. that tones up everything & especially legs!! then you could do the leg press... low amount of weight.. (probably no more than like 5) & more reps ( more times you do it) makes you tone (and no you wont get all muscular lol). after a few days you should see it working. good luck =] im here if you nees anyhting else


I'm 16 years old, and my boyfriend is significantly older then I am. Let's just say he's old enough to go to bars & drink legally and what not.

He doesn't party a lot, but he smokes weed and it annoys the hell out me. When he goes partying with his friends, he'll always call me & I'll just start FREAKING out on him.

Like when he drinks alcohol it makes me soo mad when he calls because, well I don't know why. Then we'll get into an argument and I'll insult him. I don't know what's wrong with me.

I think it's just jealousy. But, how would I overcome this? (link)
my ex would do the same... always calling me when he's out partying and when he's drunk. it made me sooo mad, then i'd get sad though because i wasnt there to be with him (like to take care of him)! it's not right to do that... it's like he's teasing you kinda if that makes since. he's telling you he's partying and telling you that you cant come. i would talk to him about it... tell him it upsets you when he calls you like that & when he is out & calls you. that is the best thing... to talk it out. otherwise, it could build up until one of you cant take it anymore. i dont think its jealousy... i think you care for him that much... that you dont want to know when he's doing that stuff because it hurts you. ur best bet is to talk to him. =]


Okay I like this guy and I think he might like me. Does anyone know what boys give as signs that they like you? (link)
- he always smiles
- he opens doors for you
- he brins you flowers
- he calls you
- he hangouts out with you
- he acts kinda 'goofy' around you
- he might act shy around you
- he flirts with you
- he picks on you (but laughs when he does it & doesnt really mean wat he says)
- he sits by you at sk0ol
- he writes you notes alot
- he can talk about anything to you


can someone tell me honestley through expierience how much getting your belly button pierced hurts on a scale of 1-10. (link)
i have mine done! it wasnt really that bad. everyone's pain level is different, mine is usually bad lol, but it wasn't then. i was more nervous than anything. friends that had it done told me it hurt like hell and that they cried. i was soooo scared. but then i got in there, and got it done by a tattoo artisit guy (which was really good at it!) and he did it really fast and quick. it hurts afterwards, like give it a day, it's sore. i think you can take it.... just dont look at it.. i did and i felt naeseaus. once you get it done, its sooo cute & there are s0o0o many rings to put in it!! good luck!! =]


Does anyone know where I can purchase iron on transfers for hair? I'm not sure if you get them on by means of iron, so they could be called something else. (link)
go to michael's craft store.. they have them for jeans and everything!! im sure they'll have them for your hair. and iron on transfers work trust me =]


okay i am on my sis computer again- > i go bac to school thusday and i really need help. I am about 5'4. I already know what i am going to wear. I am wearin dark blue jeans with no pockets in the back and a green shrirt that i got from WeT SeaL . I am getting my hair done tomoorw and i am getting it conrolled half of my head. My hair is madd curly. Ont eh frsit day of school should i wear my hair in a messy bun my hair down the curls or strightin my hair ..
please dont selate this i really need help

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Well, your outfit sounds very cute! i would go with the curls, because they look reallly pretty and would go good with your outfit. jeans and curls are always a good combo because they both are casual yet classy and feminine. hope i helped ya! if u have any other questions, feel free to ask, im here for ya! xox0 maNda

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Hi ok im 14 and well ive never been kissed.. i mean i could have been kissed a couple of times but i kinda said i didnt want to but i wanted to so bad its just i dont know how!! i mean what if u bite the other persons tongue or what if they bite you!? and then what if the other person has braces and u get scratched or sumthing else??? like idk i just keep on getting this ideas in my head and get paranoid!! i dont think ill ever kiss anyone unless its just like a peck.. please HELP!!!!!!!
p.s can u give me tips and how to french kiss??

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hey gurlie, its really simple to kiss someone. all you do is like open ur mouth and both of your tongues "dance" around each other. the whole braces thingy is a myth. i had braces and made out with someone. just relax..it will all seem normal and really easy once u get used to it. oh yeah, and alot of guys like to have their lips bitten and their ears sucked on. if u need more advice just ask me, im here 4 ya! xox0 ~maNda


awhile ago me and my now exboyfriend got in a really big fight. ends up that, that night he took my "best friend" to a hotel with 3 other guys and just her. they ended up having sex. both of them deny it whenever i ask, but i know for a fact it happened. its been over and done with but i still have so much hate for my friend, and for the guy too. i dont know what to do.. or who i should be more mad at. i know i should let it go bc it happened a while ago.. but i cant help thinking about how much they both screwed me over. (link)
Well, that happened to me once.....my boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend. It seems to me that he just wants to screw around. If that's so, he's really not worth your time. Honestly, you need to just try to let it go. It may take some time, but you can do it! You'll find another guy that is alot better for you and that won't screw you over. Hope that helps ur situation!!




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