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hey everyone im blue eyed baby and just tryin to help you guys out with everything. im a really good problem solver, and that's wer i got the idea to give advice! i love helping ppl and that's what im going to do with you. just ask me your questions, and no matter what they are, i will answer....i promiss.
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How do I cut holes in my jeans to look "natuaral"?

this is wicked easy. you have to go to cvs or any type of pharmacie and by one of those things that are used take dead skin of the bottom of feet. they are like a dollar. its long and skinny and has metal ridges coming out and you just rub on the spot you want to cut and it looks really natural...
hope i helpedd

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O.K., I am suposed to be seeing this boy who is my mom's boyfriend's son. he is cute. I am going to be really shy than the first time I saw him since we started talking.I want to go with him, but I hate long distance relationships. What do I do?

i would try not to get intrested in him. since its kind of weird. what if they do get married then what you have to break up with him. try to be good friends but not more..
good luck hope i helped!!!
R.K

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I need a job but I'm only 14. My sister who is 16 takes all the babysitting jobs, so I have nothing to do, execpt maybe once a year I pet sit. I am to young to get a job and a store or some place like that, so I don't know what to do. I really need some money right now, but I can't find a job anyware so I'm broke. Any advice??? I'll rate for good advice! Thanks!

well you could always try to tell your parents you will do extra chores for extra cash. or if that does'nt work put up flyers around your neighborhood about being a dog walker you could walk the dogs when you get home from school.so places allow bus"girls" to be only 14 and work there. those places are like the ones that are'nt chains like dominos but little pizza places in your community. talk to you family aunts uncles gramparents see what they say maybe your granny will give you like 5 if you water her plants or if you like help your uncle mow the lawn
well hope i helped$$$$$$$$$$$

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I know that this is really long and confusing, but I really need help, so please read this!!!!!

There is this group of 5 girls, and we're not a clique but we are really good friends; Girl 1, 2, 3, 4, and 5. So I will be girl # 3. 1 has just announced to this guy that she likes him. She is veryyyyy shy, and I used to be her very best friend. 2 is now hanging around with all these guys, forming another group of just guys, constantly flirting with them, almost turning into a slut. SHe used to be #4's best friend. 1 and 2 are now revolving their entire lives around this one boy, who really isn't anything special, and are basically ignoring us. One of the guys they have recently befriended is a complete pervert; you can imagine how that makes me, 4 and 5 feel. 1 and 2 are now constantly going to the mall with these guys, but not only that, they aren't inviting me, 4 and 5. Last Friday, we were walking home, without 1, so we were sort of in rows talking; me with 2, and 4 and 5 together (sorry if this is a bit confusing). My house is the first one we stop at, and then 5. 4 recently told me that when me and 5 left, 2 didn't wait for 4 but just kept walking, about 100 ft ahead of her, without even looking back ignoring her. These two girls have been best friends since 6th grade, and this is the first time that this has happened since. Now she is basically ignoring all of us, and walking to school today she ditched us for someone younger than us (1 wasn't walking with us). Why are they so mad? Do they have reason to be so mad?

So far, I think the only reason that they are so mad at us is because we aren't really supportive of them constantly spending time with that one boy and ignoring us. Talking on IM, 1 didn't respond to me because she was talking on the phone to the boy. 2 asked me if she was talking to me, and I said, no, shes probably talking to that boy. She doesn't stop talking to him. Then 2 got really insulted and said, "so? What's wrong with that? I talk to Tom (another boy who is also very annoying and completely perverted) all the time and we're not even going out. Yes, me and 4 know that, and we don't really apporve. She is talking to him so much that she missed a cancellation we had to make, because she was on the phone and we couldn't reach her. 1 also spends all of her time talking to the other boy, at least 5 hours a day, on the phone

Should we talk to them? Or should we just give up on their friendship, as now their lives are completely revolting around these idiot, perverted boys?

I will really appreciate and rate any answers.

hi well in my opinon you should find a way to talk to 1 and 2 at the same time, and tell them what is going on be like we have been friends since 6th grade (or whatever) and be like are we going to let some pervert boys get into your friendship. it seems like by what your telling me they have totally become boy crazy which is ok as long as they don't forget who their friends are. talk to them that is the key point for them to relize what they are doing. its good that you and 4 and 5 are still not acting like this but you will be to someday. so hope i helped try to do whatever you can to be friends again.. and remember people do change and if you don;t want to be friends with a "boy crazy,on the virge of becoming a slut" type of girl then thats ok..
byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee goood luckkkkk

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okay so im not exactly sexually active, but ill have my clothes on, and sometimes during a moving my bf will like "touch" me... but like i had been tanning.. and got of course a little burnt cause i hadnt gone in a while. But okay... then i shave n stuff.. well i think i like cut my self.. And i itch ALLL the time at night... and after my bf will touch me.. i start to like hurt.. or it like burns kinda. What is it?? I was scared cause i know like crabs and scabies or whatever make you hecka itch.. but i dont have any of the other side effects... just that i itch. I dunno what to do. I put lotion and the next night im still itching... any ideas or anyone that can relate n tell me what they did that worked? greatly appreciated.

hi i think you should defiently tell your mom. i actually had a yeast infection and i use to itch down there to. for the yeast infection there is a cream you can buy at cvs that will solve your problem. if you aren't comfortable telling your mom or you live with your dad or something you can buy it your self.if you have a yellow disgard then you probably have it. one brand that i works is monostat. ok hope i helped

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I'm going to the USA in September of this year. Yes, I know that's quite a while away but this is going to be a busy year for me as I'm starting college. Anyway, I found some good air tickets on Qantas for $1100 and I have a week to nab them. I have the money and all.. I'm just curious. Should I wait until further on in the year? Or get the tickets now? For my own peace of mind I'd like some confirmation of when I'm going and that I'm definitley going, but I'm worried a better deal will come up.

Thanks.

i think that you should defiently buy.your getting a good deal since i don't know where your going from i don't no if thats really low. but i know that when i go from boston to lebanon in june my ticket is $1600 so i think you should buy it since it will give you some basis to know when to pack and all that fun stuff lol... good luck hope you like it here...

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i recently read a question asking if a tampon will make your cherry pop... i wear tampons and what does making your cherry pop mean? please answer IM CONFUSED!

i found this from an answer to a question simialar to the one you asked so i pasted it to show you.

They can break your hymen (aka pop your cherry), but they can't make you lose your virginity. The virginity is not lost when the hymen is broken, otherwise a lot of girls would have lost their virginity by riding horses, bike riding, climbing a tree, etc. Some girls are not even born with an intact hymen! So, yeah, it doesn't mean anything.

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I don't really have a best friend, but I have a group of about 10 close friends at my school. I also have two other really good friends at another school. Two of my friends at my school seem to hate one of my friends at the other school. They constantly talk about her and make mean remarks about her looks, even though she's really pretty. Sometimes it seems like they're jelous. But they claim they aren't. I've told them to stop and I've told them she's never done anything to them. But they don't really listen. I know that some of ya are probably gonnna say "if they're your real friends, they'd respect what you say" but I mean, you'd have to know them to understand. I told my friend what they say about her and she doesn't care. But the other day she e-mailed one of my friends and they brought other people into it and now everyone thinks I lie even though I told the truth to everyone. Things are good again with me and my friend that gets talked about, but I'm not sure about one of my other friends.. Help.

hi
i think that you should stop worrying about what the other girls think. they should'nt matter to you. in hte end you are the only one that knows you best. turn to your family for help always friends will come and go but family will always be there...i know tha you really care what the other girls say since they come to your school but try not to i mean life is'nt about worring about stupid immature girls who have nothing better to do in their life.
this may have nothing to do with the subject but my mom tells me blood can never become water.. so understand it how ever you want... hope i helped by and good luck. in like 10 or 20 years when you have a great life married maybe kids have a great education. you will think back to the time when you actually cared what people thought espically shallow people like them girls and laugh at yoour self so byeeeee

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hey this is gunna sound realli weird but im just going to ask...okay im from the middle east, and middle easterns are known for having alot of body hair..and i have that problem,i have really hairy arms and its sooo embaressing!! i have tried waxing and bleaching..it works, but its still noticeable!! my friends advice me that i should shave it but im too scared cause i know its just gunna grow back darker and even thicker...any advice?? srry its so gross and nasty i know but its worth a try...please dont say like ew thats gross or nething..i just need some help..thanks

hi
i am also from the middle east to. i am lebeanse. i don't think you should shave your arms because then it will grow back discussting. and it becomes wicked prickaly. you try to save up to get lazar surgeory well good luck..
p.s i don't no enought people that speak arabic do you.. i hate that i don't know people that speak arabic to oh well.. byeee

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