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hey i love to play basketball i've played since i was 3 and i run everyday and i work out!! i love to cook and to give advice i dont judge people but i try to read them and explain what i think about them!! i can be a girlie girl but i love getting down in dirrty....i wrestle with the guys and i always win(and no they dont let me win!!) well if you need advice send me something!!
Gender: Female
Location: monroe
Occupation: i play basketball, volleyball,swimming, track&field, i babysitt an di cook for my family anf friends
Age: 14
Member Since: October 28, 2005
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Last Update: October 30, 2005
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My boyfriend just asked me if it was alright for him to spend the night at his best friend's house. His four best friends are girls. there's gonna be two other guys, but I still don't really like the outlook on it; he's gonna be all night with 5-6 other girls.

is this dumb of me? (link)
honestly yes but then again no reason are ye sbecause if you really love him you should trust hima nd no worry about it even though you do dont show it and yes because thats alot of girls to be with and only two other guys thats odd!! but you should trust him.....maybe you should show up out of nowear and surprise him...tell me how it goes good luck!!


I have a big halloween party this saturday. Thing is .. everyone is dressing up slutty and fun and cute, but every costume i think of that hasnt been taken already, is just lame (think lindsay lohan's in mean girls) and i really need ideas for a halloween costume .. or something i can make up for one. IM DESPERATE!!! Anything you can think of, i will love u for life. (i rate high)


THANKS GUYS!! (link)
okay try to be something out of the world like a victoria secret model or soemthign thats flashy, be a hot 80's chick something that people will be like omg look at her be a los vegas show girl now thats a good one !! lol tell me what you think, about those answers


I have this friend. She has been my friend all of my life literally but lately we've been drawing apart. :( what do i do to get this relationship back togeter? (link)
okay you really need to make lost of plans make ur on holiday (even though that sounds gay but it works) like make the holiday a best friends holiday buy a gift for her like just a ramdom gift go to the movies try to call her and talk to her about everything hope that works!!


I am a kinda...traditional gurl. i would prefer the guy ask me out. i want this guy that i like to finally realize that what he has been looking for is right in front of him. but i dont want to just come out and tell him that i like him... what should i do (link)
well i'm sorry honey but sometimes you just have to do it. i say you call him up ask him what he thinks of you and ask him if he would ever consider going out with you and if you two date show him what hes been missing!! i'm not trying to be mean it just sometimes you gotten do things for love!!! and if he says no then just ask him if you two can hangout go to movies bowling w/e!! and maybe you'll get closer and then date it might take time


Hey, I'm a 14 year old male. I have never had a girlfriend and I'm ok with that and I don't intend on getting one anytime soon, but what my question is, how do I become a girl's best friend. As I said, I'm not looking for a girlfriend at the moment. I want to be close friends with girls and I want them to be able to be open with me. I usually just sit with my group of friends which I'm pretty much the "leader" of and observe the girls from far away. I want to be able to talk to girls and feel open with them and them with me. How do I do this? Thanks a bunch. (link)
okay to get closer is to just call her up and talk to her about anything be yourself and if you be someone eles and she finds that out you can be screwed but it depends on the girl. just ask her out to dinner and to a movie or just to hang out at your house or even go bowling something fun and somewhere that you can still talk about anything....hope it works out!!


Drama!!everygurl goes through this...but in my case i'am sooo..sick of it my new main drama case is a SCHOOL...it involves my friends and some close people,wat do i do when sumone tells me that they think i'm talkin shit about them when i'm really not and then they befriend me b-cause of it even when i diden't do it!!ADVICE PLease!! (link)
okay you know what i have the same problem all the time in monroe wisconsin.......small town big big drama.....tell them if your my real friend then you would believe me and if you trust me you would belive me but if you dont then you just lost a really good freind it works so good!! hope it helps otherwise write me back!!......bigJ2009


hey everyone. my formal is on FRIDAY and i have 3 really noticable pimples on my chin! im so freaking out so how how how can i get rid of them quickly?! everynight i use Stridex and i wash my face so any other ideas? pleaase help (link)
okay something that really works is putting toohpaste on them over nite!!....yes it sounds nasty but it seriously works and if you pop them put an ice cube on then and then dissapering ointment on them!! it'll help you soo much because thats what i do and i have a great face!! good luck


I'm 16 and I've never been in love. I'd just like to know if anyone else out there has ever been in my position, because I really feel alone. All of my friends throw around the word "love" after having a 2 hour bf/gf relationship. But, I'm scared when I'm older that I won't ever have that one person to wake up and want to be with everyday! It like scares me. Had anyone else been in my position? (link)
its okay some people just take a while to find that right one......thats why girl dates alot because they dont know if "he" is the right one, you just got to put yourself out there try hanging out with girls, call them and ask them random questions, tell them what u think of them after you've hanged out with them alot!! or even ask their best friend what she thinks of you!! hope that helps


i dont get this well i never take in more then 2000 callories a day more like 1000-1500 but like im putting on weight!!! the only way i lose any is if i dont eat for a day or i have no breakfast no lunch and like a salad for dinner which i have sometimes! but i dont get it.
i did lose about half a stone last year im 51.6kg and 5'2 btw im almost 15 if that helps x x x (link)
okay if your not losing weight try eating really heathly and only about the size of your fist. try not to eat to much toast or bread, eat small amounts of meat and lots of veggies!! hopefully that helps and i'm 5'11 and i've lost lost weight from doing that but i also run everyday and work out so try doing that!! good luck!!





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