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I'm a 17 year old guy from the city of Stockholm, Sweden. I've spent most of my life in the suburbs, and just recently moved to the inner city, It's so much better. I'm kinda short i guess, like 180cm (that's around 6 feet if your too lazy to google it) or maybe less, i dunno. I'm studying Science / Computer and Math at the moment, don't know how that happened, cause I hate math and I hate science, stuff change I guess. I do ok in school though, specially the artsy stuff like music and 3dmax.
I'd say music is my main interest, I'm the singer of a punkrock band, and it's basically the best thing in my life right now.
I'm not with someone at the moment, and not exactly looking to be either.
Please don't ask me about help when it comes to programming, I really suck at it, I only listed it as an occupation because i somehow manage to get paid for it ones in a while.
Other than that, ask away, i'll be happy to help.
and by the way, they should really ad a drugs category here, think it could help a few people.

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ok i was just wondering is it a safe bet that someone is not a preditor if u have seen them on their webcam or what cause i really lik this guy who really likes me and ive never met him face to face. ive seen tons of pics of him and him on his webcam and hes 16. i would talk to the computer teacher at school or something, but i wont see him intil winter break is over. thanx i rate high

um, did you see him through a live feed, or just a bunch of picures? because pictures are easy to get someplace else, but a feed is harder to fake.
and if you'd like to meet him, make sure you bring friends, maybe even tell him to bring some too, and don't meet him in private.

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i am 13 female and i think that i am lesbian. i dont want to be lesbian and i want to stop. how do i stop being lesbian? i havent make out with a girl yet but here are the things i like: 1)girls kissing. 2) "perfect" breast. 3) cute faces. and 4) hearing girls moan during sexual things. i think that the cute face and perfect breast thing is just me being insecure about myself but what about the other things? anyway how did i become lesbian in the first place? is it in my genes or something? i need help!!!!!
i rate 5"s for good answers!

relax, it's probably just your hormones acting up, your going through puberty, so it can be hard to tell what you like.

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Okay well my dad bought me 6 tickets to the Houston Bowl like 3 weeks ago. I asked my best friend, Ryan to go with me the second I got the tickets and he said yes. They were great tickets in the nice, club area of Reliant and my dad got us a limo and everything.


The game was today and after the game we were supposed to go back to his house because he was throwing this big New Year's party.


He called me this morning an hour before we had to leave for the game and said he wasn't coming. I asked him why and he just said "no reason" and hung up. I called him back and asked him what his problem was and if he was mad at me. He told me that if I cared about him the least bit I would know what I did. I thought about it and could not come up with one thing that I did wrong.


At the game the rest of us were talking about it and I told them that if he was going to be like that then why would I go to his party. One of my friends that was there was going to a different party so I said that I would just go to that one since I knew people that were going there too.


Well someone from our Houston Bowl group had called Ryan during the game and told him that I was going to another party. He then called me and cussed me out and everything. I still had no idea why he was mad to begin with so I told him that unless he tells me why he's mad then he can't cuss at me and stuff. After that he just hung up.


What am I supposed to do here? Should I just ignore him until he decides to tell me what the matter is?


17/f

um, maybe he wants you to be more than a friend or something, and he heard about you doing this or that with another guy? I don't think he'll tell you what's wrong just because you ignore him.

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Okay so I went to this party at a hotel, and there were supposed to be parents there, but when I showed up, it was only a bunch of friends, withs lots of alcohol and stuff... So I got drunk and stuff, and it ended up the guy I was in love with was there. But he had a girlfriend, and his girlfriend happened to be my best friend, but me and her were fighting at the time. So I was sooo drunk that I wanted to make her as mad as possible, so I made out with her boyfriend and gave him a handjob. Now idk if she's gonna find out or w/e. I need help... should i tell her or let just let it go!!

Um, you should make the boyfriend tell her, cause if you do, and he denies it, she'll think that you are lying, and hate you for trying to brake them up. Anyhow, what you did was bad, and she will be mad with you, whatever you do.

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What happens if you take too many sleeping pills?

Uh, you'd die, or become a vegetable.
And as far as heaven goes, in christian religion, if you take your own life, that's not where you'd be going.

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OK, see I'm going out with this guy...and he's really really sweet and nice and everything, he's what I think every girl would want. BUT the only thing is...he's not good looking....at all I guess...he's not like the ugliest person on earth...but he's just not cute at all. And like I'm afraid people at my school will make fun of me, because you know, Blue Valley..think about it..girls here..we judge...what do I do? Do I dump the guy? or do I keep on going out with this guy and ignore everything?

I think the main question is, are you attracted to him? Does he turn you on? If he does, who gives a crap what the other girls have to say about him?

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For Christmas I got a free card that allows me to download 60 free songs. I'm on a downloading spree right now, but I can't seem to remember lots of the songs I want to download.

If anyone could reccomend any type of songs, besides country, that'd be great. I'm feeling like listening to music tonight, so if you could help me out it'd be great. Thank yaaa.

The bouncing souls - manthem
The bouncing souls - sing along forever

feel good punk, can't beat it

also, try finding some catch 22 songs from their cd "Keasbey Nights", it's new jersey ska, great music.

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Hi. I like this girl a lot so i figured if i got her a present some sparks may fly. So i want to give it to her, but i can't figure out if she still has a boyfriend. I think they broke up, but im not 100% sure. If I give her the gift should i try and kiss her if they're broken up?

I don't think you should give her a gift at all, you don't need to buy her ya know, and unless your dating a gal, it's just a bad idea.
See, if you give her a gift, and generally treat her like a queen, she'll think "oh, what a nice guy, he's a good friend." and there you are, stuck in the friends zone, and it's usually a one way ticket. All girls are different, but for most, you have to be a challenge, and also a bit mysterious, so if you really like this girl, don't treat her like you have to deserve her, treat her like she has to deserve you (i'm not saying treat her like crap or anything, then she'll just hate you). And don't reveal all to much about yourself, keep it intresting and she'll come back for more.

a saying that's usually applied for something else works quite well here:
"Why buy the cow, if you get the milk for free?"
and that's what your doing if your treating her like a queen, your giving away milk for free.
You might not believe me, you might not wanna believe me, but you should.

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