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How to get rid of hickeys in an hour? (link)
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bottle cap & the spoon trick works great.
take a bottle cap to a coke or drink and twist it on your neck, itll hurt and make it red but then put a frozen spoon on it and youll be fine
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ok so i had sex earlier today around noon and ever since i've had cramps in my abdomen and it especially hurts when i pee. is this normal? (link)
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im no doctor. but it sounds liek you have a (uti)urinary track infection ... go to the doctors, itll go away
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i cannnotttt fall asleep as hard as i try, ive tried music, ive tried warm drinks, ive tried reading, watching tv, I CANT GO TO SLEEP!its driving me crazzzzzy i lay in my bed for at LEAST 3 hours. then finally fall asleep, does anyone know anyways you have tried falling asleep and it worked? THANK YOU!!!!!!! (link)
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i have the same exact problem, and it sucks. i would go to your doctor and let them know. you could be possibly stressing out alot lately and thats why you dont sleep well. (alot on your mind) or you could just have a disorder, dont worry its perfectly normal. they will prescribe you a medication to help you sleep =]
good luck
-ask_blondie
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ok well i ended my period on june 14 and i had sex near the end of june i had unprotected sex and well i had signs of being pregnant 2 weeks after wards but thinking it was just nerves and well i had my period july 1 and that is only like 17 days since my last period the weird thing was though is my period would stop for one day and then come again the next it was weird and light at times it came really short and didn't last very long at all and i read on the internet is that after you have sex if you get pregnant then you will bleed about 10-14 days after wards because that is the egg atacting to the uterious or whatever and it was 11 days after wards that i had my period but it said also that it could seem like a period but isn't and well now i feel sick and my stomach feels weird and im really sleepy
could any of this mean that i am pregnant i need advice fast (link)
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i think your probablly spotting, but i aint not doctor of course. so i suggest you go to the pharmecy and buy a preg. test. there not too expensive only like 14$ so just go for it, dont be nervous. if it comes back posotive you can try a free clinic if you dont want your parents/gaurdians to kno (its all confidental)(just to make sure). if the docotrs tell you your posotivly pregent, get panflits to tell you addive. of course you need to let your parents know, so you can ask the docotor to hel pyou explain to them, but i suges the father of your child is present. good luck, i hope you get the result you want =]
-ask_blondie
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during the school year i had this amazingly hot guy in my math class. he's 17 and im almost 16 but im in advanced math, he didn't fail he's pretty smart. anyway he's blond and has the most amazing eyes. i liked him during the school year and now we're in summer school together. i swear i can get horny just looking at him but that's besides the point. he's a really cool kid and when we're at school we talk constantly.he's the type of guy who will look straight into your eyes when you're talking and will listen to every word you say.he flirts with me a little i guess. i want to flirt with him alot but i guess his age intimidates me. well that and he's the most popular kid in the school and he could have any girl he wants. my parents would love him because he's really respectful and caring but he deffinately knows how to have a good time. how do i flirt with him without being obsessive? i would screw this guy in a second if i had the chance....he's that hot. ladies you know how it is, help me out a bit. please (link)
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deffinetly go for him. you guys alredy talk alot and obv have alot in common. dont worry about his age or popularity becuase if he wanted any other girl he wouldnt be talkin to u =] he obv wants you. just try to talk to him like you would with any other guy. o yeah and aobut the age? just think of him as being your age, hes only a couple years older, no biggy. =] good luck
-ask_blondie
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I like this boy and he is so cute. He is Italian and I am too, so I really want to get to know him but I seem to not be able to talk to him. I could talk to other boys but not him. Even the boys that I like the other years I was able to talk. I guess I want him to come to me. Well, I mean I did talk to him a couple of times because we got partnered up but very small words. Such as: 50ml, no, yes, and small words. When we pick our seats I want to sit next to him but I don't want to. At the begining of the year we started starring at eachoher, it was weird. How do I know if he like me too? Should I stop liking him? What should I do next year. (link)
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typical boys!! so hard to figure out these days. hun, all you have to do is be confident. theirs multiple ways to get his attention. you can find a cute outfit and wear it around him one day, seee if he compliments you or atleast dragg his eye on you. also, study him (not strangley) but just see what hes interested in. possibly a sport? or drawing or something. then one day just start a conversation wit him about it. or you could compliment him on something, trust me guys LOVE to talk about them selves lol. tell him you like his shirt. i hope things go well, have a good day =]
- ask_blondie
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Hi, i am 13/f and i am going to this family party, and i really want to have a nice, cute hairstyle, not just a boring pony tale but something kind of unique but nice. my hair is about 3in below my shoulders.
please help
thanks :] (link)
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lose curls, with you hair down. youll have everyone loving it.
http://img2.timeinc.net/people/i/2006/celebdatabase/jessicasimpson/jessica_simpson1ALT_300_400.jpg
^^ check it out
- ask_blondie
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My boyfriend and I see eachother every day and talk on the phone every day. I am 18 and he is 21. Sometimes we get naggy or fight about stupid things. He always has to be right and he sometimes says hurtful things not meaning to hurt me. I was wondering how we can strengthen our relationship so we dont ever fight and we are happier together. I love him so much and I love spending time with him. We have sleepovers sometimes and we are intimate. We have been dating for 3 months but we moved really fast. (link)
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hey hun
one of your faults would have been moviing so fast, its not a bad thing, but i do kno that by takin things slower would have helped things last longer. 1stly you need to sit down with your boo and tell him how you feel. let him know what hurts you and explain to himm you realyl liek him but dont like how he treats you sometimes. possibly sugest goin on fun dates, like amusement parks and walks on the beach or maybe a bike ride or something were you gusy can get along. try to keep busy with him all the time and spend time together. if that dont work try to spend less time together, maybe monday-with him; tuesday-freinds; wednesday-him; alternate days. itll make him wanting you more and more; means less fighting. =] good luck
- ask_blondie
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13 f
well ive been diagnosed with EDP (erythema dyschromicum perstans) its a really bad skin pigmentation and ive been to the derm and they said that they cant do anything about it.. and i feel like they just gave up on me and im strong i wont give up my horrible skin like this.. iofanyone copuld help me with the treatment or how to cure it or what can help me with it it would be great.. please help me people ive had this for a year and a half and io cant wait for it to be gone. please help. im begging you (link)
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im sorry to hear about your skin pigmentation =[
my in school suspension teacher ahs the same thing and im not an expert but what he does to control it is he goes tanning. i know your only 13 so it might not be a good idea, but they have spray on tan you can buy in stores and tanning lotion. the tanning helps my teacher cover it up somewhat and it blends in. you vcan also look on websites about edp for more info. good luck hun =]
- ask_blondie
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okay so basically i like this boy named matt. we always cuddle and hold hands when we're at our friends house but the only problem is theres another girl.. he has been basically in love with this girl kelly for the longest time. matt & i live in new jersey and kelly lives six hours away in a different state. he said he's seen her 5 times in the past 3 years..so nobody really thinks it could work but they both like each other. my best friend megan said he talks & acts different around lauren & i as opposed to other girls so how do i get him to like me more than only a bestfriend? are there suddle things to do? any advice would helpp =) (link)
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long distant relationships never normally work out. you need to sit matt down and tell him how you feel. i know that sometimes its hard in person, so maybe on the fone or in a letter or something. just tell him that you realyl liek him and explain that long distan reltionships dont work out well. i wish i had more addive for you but the best i can tell you is to tell him how you feel for him. i know how you feel, i have the same problem. =]good luck
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Ok I have a best friend but we don't go to the same school but we hang out on weekends and go to the same church. Well I don't really think of her as a best friend anymore. She's been getting more mean and bossy. Since I know her really well she thinks she owns me and can do whatever she wants. When me and her went down to the pool I was bouncing a ball and it bounced on her head when she was getting out and she got so mad and she hit me with her goggles. And it was one of those soft bouncy type balls. Yeah I sorry about that, she didn't care. Well I got over that and then we get to her house when I'm walking I run into her, not on purpose, and me into the wall of her house and my hand got scratched up and my fingers were bruised and I was holding my hand and I was about to cry. She walks right past me, "I really don't think it hurt that bad." So it turns out I start crying, she doesn't care. Then another time she actually makes me cry and I've never been like that before and I go home. My life hasn't been easy and she isn't helping at all. When I go to church she is the only one that I hang out with and she acts like she is the sweet and innocent girl and everyone thinks that. And I'm the one looking bad.
Then I really don't like her parents. They make her seem like she is better than everyone else in the world. She gets everything she wants. Her parents are always 'right' in her eyes and their eyes! And they are better than me and I know they talk about me. I'm tired of them and her. But sometimes I have to go over to her house. But sometimes she can be really nice, and actually I like her mom but definetly not her dad. Can anyone help me stop hanging out with her!? (link)
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ouch! sounds like a very painful relationship.
i use to have a friend kind of liek that, she was very bossy. what you need to relize is that, whether she says shes your friend, shes not. noone is a friend that does that to eachother. you should sit your friend down and explain to her (dont be too nice, but not too mean) that you cant be treated like your some sort of slave or push around. you have feelings as well as everyone else in the world and she just has to expet that. tell her either she changes her ways or you guys need time apart. if you take a break & if shes really your true friend, then she will come around appologize. its not easy to stand up to a friend expecially when ur a teenager. but you have to do something, its not right. theres other fish in the sea and youll find plenty new friends. better ones =]
good luck hun & have a good day
- ask blondie
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Hi, I'm 15/f. I weigh 117 and I'm 5 feet 7 inches.
Sometimes I ate ALOT and overstuffed myself (like 5 meals a day, plus a bunch of snacks in between)...but lately I haven't been feeling very hungry...but I've still ate a fair amount.
Anyways, my weight has stayed the same. I really want to gain weight (maybe 10 pounds) but I don't know how.
Is my weight unhealthy? I know it's not very much, but I figure it can't be too bad for me, because it's not like I try to starve myself.
Please don't just give me a link to a site where there's a calculator for my BMI or whatever.
Also, working out doesn't do very much either. I did cross country and track, yet I weighed the same during those seasons.
So, what can I do? (link)
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hi =]
dont worry about your weight. your only 15 and your still growing. i have sumwhat the same problem as you. i too, wish i weighed a little more. i have 2 addives for you, you can either go to your phisician(docotr)and ask for ways to make this work or if you want this confidential, then you can try eating foods such as more dairy, & lots of meat. dont worry kiddo, soon or alater youll gain the weight you want, but i think personally being tall and thin is perfect =]
have a good day & good luck
-ask blondie
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