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i'm a very sexual person and it seems like my boyfriend hasn't been able to keep up lately. i'm alrite with it. i understand that he is older than me and that he works alot. i have no problem handling it myself. the problem is, he has a problem with me masturbating. we've discussed it and he seems pretty stubborn about it. i don't know what i should do. should i tell him that it's normal and i'm going to do it regardless, should i just do it and not tell him, or should i try to tough it out and deal with a dwindling sex life? (link)
He probably feels threatened by you being able to "handle it yourself." But he'll probably never admit it. Have you asked him specifically why he doesn't like you doing it? And ok, even if he doesn't like it, it's your body, and who says you have to tell him anyway?

You can't tell me that he doesn't do it. Even guys who have sex constantly still have their "special me time." :)


why do i keep on having my period late?
i have my period later and later every month! and my mom is freaking out saying im pregnant, but im not. i just want to know why im getting later every time i have my period.

thanks! (link)
Some people naturally have a shorter or longer cycle. I know that before I was on birth control my cycle was about 32-35 days; now its 28 days. Go see your gyno, and ask questions. That's what they're there for!


hi,therez this girl she likes me i like her im going to ask her out..just wondering how 2 be a good boyfriend what do girls like in a boy or boyfriend??..thanks (link)
Be honest with her. Don't cling, but don't push her away either. Let her know how important she is to you. Be yourself. And I know it sounds silly, but talk to her! She should be the person you feel most comfortable with, and yeah, that takes time, but it makes for the best relationships.

We like small romantic gestures, like flowers. Or even (funny enough) if you know her favorite soda and bring her a can or give her your last stick of gum...simple things like that show you really pay attention to her and she'll appreciate that.


what is a reasonable curfew for a responsible sixteen year old? (link)
I was a very responsible 16 year old. I never had a curfew. All I had to do was tell my parents where I was going and when I'd be back. It was kind of a unique situation, but it always worked out. As long as you're open and honest with your parents and they have no reason to not trust you, it might work out.

Kind of idealistic I know, but I plan on doing that with my kids, up until they breach that trust.

Otherwise, I'd say Midnight on weekends, 10:30/11pm on weekdays.


hi,theres this girl we have kissed but it was just her kissing me an i said im a better kisser then her lol she said well next time i see her i can prove it to her..in 2 days im teaching her how to play basketball and when i see her im going to tell her to close her eyes an im going to french kiss her i wana no how to make her get goosebumps and where to touch her like on her check and run my hands down her spine an that like in the movies when a girl doesnt no what to do after the kis

or girls tell me how you liked to be kissed thanks.. (link)
I have to say, spontaneity is fantastic! I love my face touched, hair brushed away -- Soft and slow kisses are the best! Oh and a little tease right before the kiss never hurt.


How can I make rice taste more interesting?
I like to eat it with sugar on it, but I
know thats probably not very healthy! (link)
Basmati rice cooked with a few cinnamon sticks in the pot....gives it a great flavor without adding much.




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