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My name is alix. I'm fourteen &i live just moved to massachusets. i love all of my closer friends; theyre my life. i like cats, and my favorite food is soanish rice. i like going to the movies with all my friends; we do it every friday. it's a routine. i love giving advice about guys, but what i really love are questions from guys about girls. im really opinionated, but im usually not very harsh when i answer things.

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ok i know you can "pop your chrry" by simply putting a tampon in or riding a bike. but how do you know that you did. obv with the bike thing you would know. but what if your on your period so there is already blood. but i think i did the other day and i was just wondering for sure if i did. any ways to know how?

It would hurt a lot. Imagine ripping a very sensiive piece of skin.
Also, the blood would be different. Like, period blood is thick and usually not the same color, either pinker or browner. The blood you had from popping your cherry would be regular, thin, red blood.

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ppl tell me im very pretty adn have the look to be a model, i weigh like 120 redhair pale skin dont have many freckles but im only 5'6' im tryin to loose some more weight cauz uve got to be extremely skinny to be a model bu tbefore i go to that extreme, is there even a chance of me makin it, cauz i heard you have to be like at least 5'8' to be a model is that true?

It depends on what kind of model you want to be.
(Just so you know, there are always exceptions. You could make it if you're shorter. It's just harder, that's all.)

IF you want to do high-fashion, runway, 5'8" is like, short. Think about the most famous supermodels. They're so tall it's ridiculous. Do you watch America's Next Top Model(guilty pleasure, haha)? There was one girl a few seasons back who was 5'6" or 7", and they made a big deal about how short she was.
But if you want to do more print, catalog ads(I don't mean this like, ew, catalogue. Just so you know), you can be shorter.

And anyway, if you want it bad enough to lose weight and all that, then you want it enough to go out there an dgive it a shot anyway. See if you can schedule some go-sees, and see what they say about your height. And don't get discouraged if a few agencys say you're too short, try a bunch before you let anything they say affect you.
Good luck!

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Hey i'm a figure skater and my long program is going to be romeo and juliet a time for us but i need a fast bit to match can you help me?

Local God, by Everclear? the lyrics sort of match, it was used in the soundtrack of the Romeo + Juliet movie(1996 version), and its fast.

Lovefool, the Cardigans.

I Believe in a Thing Called Love, by The Darkness

As Lovers Go, by Dashboard Confessional

I've Just Seen a Face, the Beatles(or Jim Sturgess if you want the "Across the Universe" version, its really good too.)



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im soooo depressed. i missed the auditions for the clique movie. since i have read the very first book over a year ago, i wanted to be in the movie. back then they werent even going to have a movie but i emailed lisi harrison and begged her to make it into a movie. and i was checking her website daily. then her website stopped working. now i find out its becoming a movie and i totally missed the auditions. im an amazing actress and it has always been my dream to be in the clique movie. i know if i tried out i would get a part. im rly upset and i started crying when i found out that i missed the auditions. i dont even care what part i get, i just want a part so bad, i'll do anything. now im depressed. please help me. i need advice. btw im 13 and im white and im skinny. lol if that has anything to do with anything. im just following these instructions :]

Listen, I'm really sorry, but the chances of you getting a part now are beyond low. The winners for the sugarloot contest were chosen back in September, and although it's not really known information, based on the way most movies work the audition process is already wrapped up by now. The only chance you have at getting any part at all is through a highly skilled agent, and even that way you probably wouldn't be able to get it.
However, you do know that the clique is a series. Also, the movie is probably going to do very well, considering every girl between 11 and 15 loves the books. So, the chances of a sequel are relatively good. If you still want to go for it, contact an agent. Tell her that you want this part very much, and see if she can do her job and find out about if there is a possibility of a sequel, and if so, have her try to schedule an audition for you.
I don't know if you're familiar with all this or not, but just incase you aren't, I'll tell you that you will have to hire this agent, and that it will be expensive.

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hi, im 13. at a party that was hosted by a friend of my parents, i met his son who is 14. Were pretty close in age, but thats not what i care about I have a crush on him now, hes cute, not too sensitive, great with little kids, adn really funny but caring. We got along really well, and you could say we were flirting teh whole time. There were little kids there, too like 9, 10, and 5 year olds who were asking him if he had a girlfriend. He suddenly looked at me and said no. This went on for so long. Finally, when i left, i joked, saying i would stalk him through his email, he was like "What. are you serious?" and started laughing. He asked me if i had a screename, which i dont, and i had to leave. idk if you may know, but does he really like me, like want to go out with me?

I wouldn't say that he wanted to go out with you so much, considering you had only known him for a little while. But he was definitely interested in you, no doubt about it. If you hung out with him again, got to know eachother a little better, and everything stayed kind of the same, then yeah, he'd want to go out with you. Did you get his cell number, or myspace, or anything? You kind of seem like you didn't, but if you did, text him or comment him or something, saying that you should hang out some time.
See if you can find a way to get in touch with him. Maybe your parents could have their friend over, and invite him along. Good luck!

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im 15 and been with my gf for 3 months i like her a lot but im worried if we take things further down the track my penis is really small im really embarrassed im worried what she'll think does it matter much?

She probably won't. I mean, if you've been together for so long, she obviously likes you a lot.
But if you're so self-concious, I have a kind of idea. This is kind of hard to write, because there are rules on the site and I could get banned for saying some things, blah blah blah.
But here's what I say:
Before she finds out exactly what your size is, make her feel good. Meaning, before she gives you an hand job, maybe finger her or whatever. Just make her know that you want her to feel good. That's really all a girl cares about.

I'm sure it will all be good.

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what could you wear with this shirt, like would you wear a tanktop? or what what kind of shirt would you wear with it or what would look good with it?


http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_369585_-1_12630_12552

A white cami would look great, especially one of the ones with like lace and sequins at the top. You know, the ones that everyone has. But yeah that would look good, even if it was just a regular white cami or tank top.

Other colors would look good too, like light pink.

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what the heck is steriotyping mean??? is it like a person who labels peopl or what cauz ive been called a steriotyping kind of person adn i really dont think i am cuz i dont label myself i only identify what other peopl are cauz thats what everyone else already knows them as so like wats the big deal about steriotyping???

It's labeling people just like you said.
It's bad because it makes you judge people. Like, there could be a person who dresses like a goth, but is actually religious and does community service. Or a person who dresses like a huge stoner, but is actually really smart. If you looked at one of these people, you wouldn't know about the other things. And if you steriotype, you judge them and assume that they're just like everyone whose goth or something. And judging people is really bad.

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this summer i went to a boarding school for camp and it was the funnest experience ever! the people there were awesome and since i was with them 24/7, they became my family. now that i'm back home in my small, private high school..i've actually been mildly depressed. i miss the freedom and the laughing 24/7 and everything!! it's just not the same..i mean i like my friends here but they're not very fun at school and i definitely dont see them as much and i dont really like living with my family..i love them soo much but its just that i'll still visit them and call them all the time!! the problem is..i mentioned casually to my parents if i could apply to a GOOD boarding school like phillips exetor or andover..but they were like "no your school is good enough & its too expensive & far away"..i mean my school is alredy expensive so we could afford it and like boarding school would just be a good experience.im soooooo bored here!! and i would study hard there tooo trust me i'm a nerd haha but seriously i can't be happy anymore how can i let my parents let me go to boarding school??

I'm applying this year too. I'm going to be a freshman next year, and I want to start my high school at boarding school. Anyway, my parents agreed that I could apply, and if I got in then we would talk about it. I'm really smart and I have the grades and extracurriculars and everything, but the chances of getting in are very slim. Tell them that you want them to give it a chance, and see what they say.
Also, maybe try to convince them by saying that it would definitely be best for you because you'd probably get into a better college, and you'd be happier, and that you know that they know that it's what's best for you.

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Im trying to get over this guy I liked, and my friends are trying to convince me it wouldn't have worked out anyways. hes a jock, he probalby only talkes about football and boobs. I talk about the wonderfull music were playing in band, (were in the same band class, same instrument) and how beautiful nature is, and how i love to express myself though dance yadda yadda...
are my friends right? would it have worked?

It might have worked, it might not have. You never really know this kind of thing. But honestly, they really could be saying that to help you get over him. If you felt really emotionally connected to him, then it could have. Why are you trying to get over him? If you really like him, then keep talking to him. You don't have to flirt if it's because he has a girlfrind now or is unavailable for some reason, but don't stop talking to him. You'll miss his company.

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what are the best girly perfumes i can get that smell amazing and fruity and sunny and just GOOD! im asking for one this xmas and these are my options. give me your reviews on them and maybe other perfumes you think are good.

- can can (paris hilton)
- daisy (marc jacobs)
- l0lli (its a "o" in the middle btw) pop (lancome. never smelled it but the bottle looked cute? lol)
- juicy couture (juicy couture)
- Escada Sunset Heat )Escada)
- with love (hillary duff)
- Brit Sheer (Burberry)
- covet (sarah jessica parker)
- ralph hot! (ralph lauren)
- princess (vera wang)
- diesel (that fuel for life thing.. it smells amazing.)
- delicious night (DKNY.. and i love love love it)

hm thats all i can remember at the moment. um so rate them and please keep in mind that this is for a 13 year old girl and i want my perfume to be not too sophisticated but like really nice smelling so everyone when you walk into the room's like "wow what smells so good?" and maybe somewhat fruity-ful cause i like those kinda scents. i dont go to beauty stores a lot so i only have a few samples from my teenvogue mag lol. btw i didnt put the perfumes in order of how i like them.

Alright, I know a bunch of these so ill like tell you what i think about them.

Daisy: I thought it was gonna be really great, because it was so heavily advertised and everything, but it smelled kind of just like rubbing alcohol. It was pretty disappointing.

Juicy Couture is absolutely amazing. I want it too. It smells so great!

Escada Sunset Heat: I haven't actually smelled this one, but I have two similar Escada perfumes. They're good, but you get tired of them for a while. They're kind of sickly sweet.

With Love: its pretty good, but it's not great.

Ralph Hot: It's so good! plus, you said you liked fruity, so thats great.

Princess: I have it and I love it. It smells like vanilla sort of. It's amazing. It's the kind of thing that someone older(15+, maybe) might not want to wear, but you're thirteen, right? It's great.

Delicious Night: I smelled just a sample of this, but I didn't really love it.


If I were you, I would probably go with Juicy Couture or Princess. They're both kind of playful, which I think is sort of what you want. If you want it to be a bit more sophisticated(not sophisticated, just a little bit) I'd choose Juicy Couture.

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I am doing a school t6alent show...and i dont know what to do.....sing, dancfe,cheers, and more.but i need ideas for what i could do....where could i get the ideas


From..Sommer





http://answers.yahoo.com/search/search_result;_ylt=Apm3P7H9K1dQVDv0Eb8DgBeJxQt.;_ylv=3?p=talent+show+

look at all these. there are a lot of great ideas.

an idea that i like is taking a song and lip syncing it, and doing a dance to it. you can make it funny.
also, maybe do a little skit. you can write it or go on google to look for one.

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does anyone know the name of the song on the new ipod commerical? something like "music is my boyfriend" thank youuu

Cansei De Ser Sexy - Music Is My Hot Hot Sex Lyrics


and next time, just google "lyrics ______" and a line or two from the song.

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Im captain of my JV cheer squad and me and the co-captains were going to get our team together to do something nice for the varisty girls, because they are competing in a few weeks. We were thinking like some little chocolates with a message attached to them..but we wanted something really creative..like a candy bar that could kind of compare with like good luck or something sweet. Any ideas? Thanks! :]

I kind of like this idea because it's creative, but it's still sweet and it's sort of similar to chocolates.
http://www.vegasimage.com/customer/product.php?productid=735&cat=38
They're fortune cookies, and fortune cookies are supposed to be lucky. Plus, everyone loves fortune cookies. And they're way cute!

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Okay so ill give u sum background.. me and this guy we'll say his name is tyler dated for 5 months. I fell so in love with him at the beginning of the relationship then he was different later on in the relationship and all we ever did was fight and argue and he was insecure so he was really protective and would freak out if another guy talked or texted me. So then we finally broke up. We broke up almost a week ago. Well, we still talk and he wants to be with me but thinks he messed up too bad. most of the time when we talk he acts like im still his girlfriend or like im his property and goes around threating people. He irritates me soo much but I cant seem to get over him and when he mentions his chick friends it drives me crazy and makes me sort of jealous. When other guys ask me out and things i feel like im cheating. How do I get over him? So i can move on with my life??

If you really want to get over him, ask him to just stop talking to you so much. Tell him that you really want to get over him(and be nice about it), but that you can't with him constantly saying he wants to get back together. Tell him that the breakup is final-- you both need a little more closure. And he's probably mentioning his girl friends to make you jealous, so don't let it get to you. Tell him that you don't just need to get away from your relationship, but you need to get away from him. Once that's final, give yourself a good week to wallow. Be upset, eat ice cream out of the container, and watch tragic romance movies. But after that week, get right back on your feet and go looking for some more guys!

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Hey, I wanna audition for the part as Claire in The Clique movie. (I dont know if auditions are still going though.) :( If they are, what do I have to do? Please help me out. Thnx :)

The open auditions are over. There was a contest on sugarloop.com where you would send in an audition tape and five people would be selected to audition for people from the movie, but that ended in September. There might have been other open auditions, but I do know that they are all over. There's a chance that if you go to thecliquemovie.com and sign up for the email newsletter, you'll hear about more auditions, but it is unlikely. At this point, you probably will not get an audition without an agent.

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I'm extremely worried about my GPA..And I don't know how to calculate it. Please help me out..

Last year, I had a 3.9. And that was in my freshman year. This year (Sophomore), I'm messing up in Chemistry, and so far, I have a C. Chemistry is honors for me. The other classes I have are : English 2 Honors : I have an A, A.P European History: I have a B, Algebra 2 Honors: I have an A, Creative Writing (not honors): I have an A and P.E (not honors lol): I have an A.

I think that the Chemistry will seriously screw my GPA up. Will having honors classes help me somehow...by not dropping me down too much in the unweighted GPA? ;_;...And if I get like a 3.2 GPA or something...can I pull it up to a 3.7 or something easily if I get better grades? :( I'm sorry it's long and confusing. Any help would be appreciated.

Don't worry, your GPA is a 4.1.

But you might want to check if gym is calculated into your GPA at your school. I know it's not at mine. So you should find that out. It would probably be in a school handbook or course guide. If it's not, then your GPA is 4.2.

Honors and AP courses are good because they raise your GPA. So say you have a B in an honors class. That would be a 3.0, but since it's an honors class, it's boosted up one grade level, so it counts as an A, or a 4.0.

-edit-
Oh, and so you know how to calculate it:
First, find out how many "points" you get for each grade.
A+ 4.5
A 4.0
B+ 3.5
B 3.0
C+ 2.5
C 2.0
D+ 1.5
D 1.0

Average all your points together, and that's your GPA.
(Again, I know that it's like that at nearly all schools, but if you didn't know that, you might want to double check. But it probably is.)

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Alright so does anybody know any good, reliable websites that sell designer purses for cheap? Like under $50 or so. I've gone to my local flea market one too many times, they usually don't really have anything too great. Although, I am looking for one purse in particular, http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2939367?Category=&Search=True&SearchType=keywordsearch&keyword=Juicy+Couture+Handbags+in+All+Categories&origin=searchresults in black. If anyone can find this on a reliable site (no bidding sites such as ebay) I will be very grateful! Thank you soo much in advance!!

I hate to say it, but you're not going to find that bag online for so cheap. The only place you would find that bag for so cheap would be maybe a used clothes store.
And honestly, I don't think you'll really find any designer bags for under 50 online ever. The only place you might would be ebay, but you said no to that.
So save up your money so you can afford an expensive bag, compromise and get a little wristlet or something, or get a knockoff.

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I saw this "HEROES" preview on the internet (it was a real one "official") and i just wanted to know the song, if anyone knows the song?! The preview had Hiro pulling out his sword, and mohindur with all papers flying around him. Peter holding his hands out like Jesus and claire squating about to touch a lake!

Some of the lyrics are:

It dont matter to the sun
If you go or if you stay
there will be a tomorow
But imagine... etc. It stops there.

IF ANYONE KNOWS THIS SONG IT WOULD OF GREAT HELP!

Thanks!

Maggie

It Doesn't Matter to the Sun, by Garth Brooks.

and a suggestion: next time you want to know, go to google and google "lyrics [a line or so of the lyrics]."

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which one....
http://www.discountdressup.com/newarhastwio.html

http://www.discountdressup.com/noname18.html

i kinda like the bage one..but i wasn't sure..
its for homecoming

If you have darker skin or hair the olive is a perfect olive tone, and it flatters anyone who's skin tone is more olive and not so much pink. If yours is pinker, the other color would look great on you. I like both dresses a lot.
The shape of the beige one is gorgeous, with the gathering and everything. If you have a smaller bust, then wear it. If yours is larger, go for the olive one.
The olive one is a little more sophisticated, but you're in high school, so you don't have to worry about that.
I think that, if I were you, I'd wear the beige, unless your skin tone is olive and you ahve a larger bust.

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