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My names Amber, I'm fifteen & pregnant at the moment. I'm due around November 26th.
I love giving people advice about anything really, I've been through a lot for my age. I
have no problem answering any questions you may have to ask, I will not judge you for
anything you have to say. I'm very honest. =)

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Location: Kentucky.
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so if a guy jacks off and gets cum on his fingers then he fingers you can you get pregnat (link)
Yes, theres always a possibility you could get pregnant at anytime sperm comes in contact with your vagina.

I'd advise you to wait to see if you miss your period, If so.. Take a pregnancy test.
I wouldn't worry to much though.

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i asked this question on another site, i just need more peoples opinions with what might be going on

so, i have always had a regular period, every 23 days i have my period.. i had unprotected sex on the 22 day and so i was suppose to get my period the next day(monday) and i still haven't gotten it..and people have told me you cant get pregnant a couple days before you get your period because your not ovulating, so my question is can sex cause changes in your cycle.. i also have been having sex for over a year and its never changed before.. but maybe it has now?

( we did use a condom but it broke) (link)
It's possible you could be pregnant,
or Maybe your just a little stressed.
I'd advise you to take a pregnancy test asap.

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so is it true that girls find gay guys kissing hot? (link)
I don't.
I have nothing against gay guys at all.

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I am 19 years old and i have been having protected sex for 3 years now. i have been on birth control for about 3 years now too. i have always remembered to take my pill on time and on the right days. but last month in June i forgot for 3 days. i was really stressed out and forgot. so i got my period the next day and i have had it for the past two months. i have been taking my birth control and it wont go away. but the other day i had sex with my boyfriend and we didnt use a condom ( we weren't thinking) and he went inside me. and that was only two days ago. could i be pregnant? and why is my period 2 months long? (link)
Theres a big chance you could be pregnant, But sometimes people don't always get pregnant the first time a guy gets off in them, some do.
Everyones different.
I'd say take a pregnancy test.


i'm on my period but my bf and i were planning to have sex tomorrow. i think i will be ending my period tomorrow, but i will probably still have a little blood. should we still do it? it will be our first time. what is it like when a girl is on her period? (link)
You can wait a couple of days until your off your period,
I've had sex on my period, It's really no different.
You don't bleed when your having sex, Well I didn't.


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Is it possible to be pregnant if you are spotting while on BCP? I had sex on my 3rd day on the pill and the condom slipped off. On the 8th day of me being on the pill I had unprotected sex. I am having some spotting. At least I think thats what it is. Ive been on the pill a week and a half already. I was wondering if your spotting, is it still possible to be pregnant? (link)
It's possible you could be pregnant.
I'm almost 23 weeks at the moment.
Around my second or third month, I exspeircensed
bleeding & it didn't look like normal blood, It was like a dark brown, But I went straight to the emergency room & they said everythings okay, It's just old blood.
Bleeding during pregnancy can be caused by sex, Mine was.


Okay. So, I had sex for the first time tonight. Going into it, since i was a virgin, I knew it was going to hurt. And... it did. It wasn't horrible pain or anything but it was kind of like... the first time being fingered in the sense that I hadn't had that much in me before. It felt slightly good but slightly uncomfortable and a bit painful. It also didn't help that he was going for a longg time. Haha. I want to be able to really enjoy sex. My question is... will it get better? How long will it take until I actually enjoy this? Any experiences/comments? Thanks! (link)
It can take any amount of time, really.
I remember the first time I had sex, It hurt so bad.
even now, with my current boyfriend, It hurts bad & Sometimes it doesn't.

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Does anybody know how to take birthcontrol? (link)
Go to the health department, They'll prescribe you some birth control pills that are best for you.
He or she will let you know when is best to take them, Usually they'll say you take them a day after your period or something, But not all places are the same.
& You take one a day, every day, at the same time.
They'll give you anywhere from three months to a years supply of birth control.

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Okay, I know this may sound stupid.
But is it possible for a guy to pee while he's releasing sperm?
Like basicly peeing in you?
Just wondering. (link)
No, It's not possible.


my boyfriend and me broke up like 3 months ago but im still not over him!=[ whats a good way to get over him?! (link)
There's nothing wrong with still have feelings for an ex lover, But there's plenty of ways to help you get over it.

* Try moving on, Meeting new guys/girls.
* Hang out with your friends more often.
* Everytime your song comes on the radio, Turn the station.
* Delete/throw away pictures of them.
* Find a new crush, they could be a whole lot better.
* Ask yourself what might be in his head or his heart; it takes two people to be in a relationship and even though you feel the way that you do, maybe it was meant to be this way. Save your love for someone who feels the same way about you!


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how do you lose face fat!

thanks. (link)
You can;t exactly pick the place you want to lose some weight,
Do some exersises.
& Eat very healthy.

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Hi, I have some really bad oder problems..I'm pretty much saying that i smell. really bad and i don't know what i can do about it. sometimes i even get these huge sweat stains on my shirt and it's pretty gross. what can i do? (link)
- I'd suggest taking more baths/showers, Washing underneath your arms more frequently.
Get a stronger deoderant & try spraying perfume underneath your arms, Buy baby wipes
& when you start sweating, Go to the bathroom & wash your arm pits, applying more deoderant.

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my hair isn't that long about to my neck but i love scene hair and I'm black so i wanted to know if there were any suggestions (link)
Heres some ideas that could get you started.

* http://images.google.com/images?hl=en&q=Scene%20hair&um=1&ie=UTF-8&sa=N&tab=wi


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I want plugs like the purple one in this picture

http://bodypunks.com/images/tapersimage.jpg

is there a specific name for what they're called?
where can i buy the online?
and i want the hole in my ear to be the same size it is now (for earrings), what size can i get to make this possible?

Thanks in advance! (link)
I'm not really good with giving advice about this kinda thing,
But I'll help you as much as I can.

Sorry, I'm not 100% sure on what they're called.
Click this link.

* http://www.google.com/products?hl=en&resnum=0&q=Buy+ear+gauges.&um=1&ie=UTF-8&sa=X&oi=product_result_group&resnum=1&ct=title

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I am terrifyed of getting my preteen shots. do'nt you have to get like 8 or something?! i'm freaked and mom says she won't come in because if they look "down there" she will be freaked. i;m scared i bet my heart rate will be like too high. i have major needle phobia-help (link)
I used to be so scared of getting of getting blood taken, I had no clue why.
I'd just always cry before the shot, & Get really nervous.
I got over that one time, by thinking about Christmas time when I was like
twelve, & They took my blood & I hardly noticed.
I've had ten piercings now, [took all out but two]
& I have two tattoos, Needles don't bother me at all anymore.
:)

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Okayyy people. I HAVE A MAJOR PROBLEM I woke up today with like 5 or 6 zits on my face. It's horrible. My face hardly ever does this but I'm going on this trip thingy with my friends in TWO DAYS. I dunno how to get rid of these zits that fast do you?


THANKS A BUNDLE,
-meg

oh p.s. PLEASE don't tell me "it's what's on the inside that counts". THaNks (link)
I'm just going to tell you to do the same thing I tell everyone else with skin problems,
Because I do this myself & It does work for me, Everyones different.
I do this every day, right after getting out of the shower.
- Changing skin products to much/fast, can also cause break outs.


1) Apply clean & clear all over your face.
2) Wait about ten minutes.
3) Get a hot wash cloth & wash it all off.
4) Dry your face off really good with a dry towell.
5) Apply some good skin lotion on it.

My face is really smooth & clear.
=)

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i was piercing my nose and it started bleeding so i freaked out and stopped. is it bad to stop 1/2 through? (link)
You should never pierce your nose on your own,
There's so many germs & so many infections you can get.
I'd suggest going & getting it professionally done, I'd say it
doesn't cost anymore than $70.

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hi.
Can y'all help me for some funny, whitty, t-shirt designs. stuff that you would like to see on t-shirts, or something?
im thinking of designing shirts, printing them, and then selling them. The only problem is ideas. thanks a bunch :) (link)
Here are a few links to some websites you may like, that have tons of T-shirt designs on them.
* http://www.uberprints.com/?gclid=CM_K47ag0ZQCFQmdnAodbzvHrQ
* http://www.customink.com/p/0030/index.html?cm_ven=Google&cm_cat=Design-Variations&cm_pla=Designs&cm_ite=t-shirt%20designs&gclid=COOWssmg0ZQCFQ4hnAodSytWqw
* http://www.designashirt.com/?ovchn=ggl&ovcpn=google&ovcrn=t-shirt+designs&ovtac=PPC&wcw=google&gclid=CKmeidmg0ZQCFRdinAodCHXYqA

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My bf and i went to have sex for our first time and i rolled a condom onto his penis and it broke i put another on and it broke he said it felt a little tight is there a certain way to put a condom on are there a few different sized ones? (link)
I'd suggest getting a bigger size.
It explains on the condom, or condom box on how to put it on.

Hope I helped.


recently this group of immigrants from africa came over and i was to show them around school...a couple of them were girls and i ended up dating and having lots of unprotected sex with them...they were about 17 so theyve deffinetly have had sex in africa...i always puilled out in time but do u think i might have AIDS or HIV? what should i do i dont want my parents or anyone else to know. (link)
If it was unprotected, There's a really high chance of you having an std or hiv.
I'd go & get checked as soon as possible If I we're you, Because it's better to
treat the problem before it can get any worse.. Start using protection because
all those people you've slept with could've slept with anyone unprotected that
was infected with an std.

- As for your parents, They don't have to know.
Go to your closest clinic, They will usually just do a mouth swab on you & Your test
results will be back in a few minutes.

Hope This Helps.
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