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i'm a nice girl, summer's my favorite season. i've been in love, i've been heart broken. i have the most messed up family ever. and i might be of some help to you.

i know alot. i seen alot. ask me whatever.

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well i think you're the terriblest advice giver. my name is NOT eliza. and you WISH you had hair like mine. damnnit. (link)
actually, i love my hair, it's not blonde, and i can put colors in it because my parents don't care, so hahahahhahaha. :x


hello, my name is beatrice. i think i might be in love with my hair. i don't know what to do because it just looks so amazing and i swear it seduces me. i just need help. thank you amanda, i appreciate it. (link)
um, i think that some kid named jake harassed me with that name, and i think your name is really eliza, and you have some serious issues, and noone really cares about your hair.


my names larry (link)
hi, my names amanda.


what's a good straightener that works really well? ****PLEASE**** do not say *CHI*, *SOLIA*, OR ANY STRAIGHTENER OVER $45. sorry if i'm sounding overly-dramatic, but i really have like no money and i need a straightener badly and never in my life will i spend more than 45 or 50 bucks, (not even 50) on a straightener. thanks so much! (link)
my hair straightener was like 65 and it was bought at sally beauty supply, it's THE BEST flat iron i've ever touched. it's jilbere de paris tourmaline series, my friend had a flat iron by the same brand, she had an older series and it works just as well, that might be cheaper, anyway, before i had this one, i had a white revlon iron, and it worked pretty good, it was probably like 25 dollars, and for my second flat iron, it didn't do a bad job at all.


ok. so theres this girl. and she makes stupid advice columns. think you can help me insult her?

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no, i think you're a terrible person.
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btw, jessie, that's a little low buddy. :xxxx


I have this friend, well, actually, I would say more of "ex" friend. We were friends for about 5 years, and then, In the whole year of 2006, and the beginning of 2007, we became more like sisters. Seriously, we hung out every freaking day, we basically lived at each others houses, and I told her anything, and we were so alike.

We were fine, and then she accidentally told someone from another school a rumor about me, that she claimed that was true, and it wasn't, and since she told everyone, and she had never stabbed me in the back, I completely over reacted.

After about 3 weeks, we were fine. But I knew things wouldn't be the same -- and they weren't. She moved on to different people, and so did I. I would have to say, shes one of the most popular girls in the school, and definitively the prettiest. So believe me, being her best friend, was definitely a privilege.

After that, we were friends, but slowly, we just stopped talking. I knew why, but she just.. "changed" Her attitude, her friends, her personality, and everything.

I am bi-polar, and yesterday, I caught myself crying for no reason, which happens often. I kept trying to find out why, and I think I found out. I miss my best friend, I miss telling her everything. I never found another best friend, just friends. I miss her, I miss everything.

I want to talk to her, but I texted her asking if I could, and she said "only in person". I can't do that, I just can't. I am too shy to talk to her. I'd be too nervous, believe me.
What can I do? What do I say?

Sorry for this being so song. Any help is extremly appreciated. Thanks.


13/female.



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okay, almost the same thing happened to me, except she didn't say anything about me, something tragic happened to her, and it affected me, and i wasn't there for here, and she went off making bad choices, it killed me, for a year i did stupid things over it, and now we kind of talk, i wish i had done something earlier, but i didn't. and i regret that everyday, i think you need to talk to her, whether it be in person, or over the phone, or internet, or whatever you need t do, i think you need to start hanging out again. invite her to stay at your house, spend the night eating a half gallon of ice cream and just talking about everything. i really think you can get through this.


ok,i really need to build up my confidence,personality,and stuff like that. i feel like i want to change,for me,to feel better about myself. i want to be able to yell and scream and have fun,not care. what i need help is, how can i do all this***? how can i break down my wall i've had up for so long? (link)
okay, i had a lot of trouble building confidence in the past two years, i think i've got it down though, you honestly can't think about what anyone thinks about you. and i promise, they'll like you better because you're opening up and being yourself, if they don't, you don't need them. if life's about taking risks, then you need to go for you, you need to just act totally messed up, be loud, and fun, and i promise, it'll make you feel amazing.


ok so i just ended my first year of high school and i really just hate who i am. i'm not the person i want to be and i make too many mistakes and when my friends don't include me in their conversations when im around it just makes me feel invisible and horrible. i just dont like myself because i never know what to say to them. one of my friends i really like (as in like i want her to be my best friend forever) and i don't wanna say something stupid to get her not to like me because shes really nice most of the time and shes fun to be around. i dont wanna change myself cause thats just dumb. but my main point here is how can i get them to talk to me like they do to each other? thankss. (link)
you should never have to feel like you hate who you are, i think you need to open up and be yourself a lot more, and if you "friends" don't like you being yourself, then sweetheart, they're not your friends. another thing, don't spend all of your energy trying to make one specific person your "best friend" it's overrated, and you'll use up everything you have, i've been there. you should hang out with everyone over the summer, be you. and see what happens with everyone.


ok i want to re-do this question.. if thats ok with you.

I'm currently using Fructis sleek and shine shampoo and conditioner and I don't know why but I don't want to use it anymore. I want a change. Before, I asked you what brands you think are best. Well after reading some of the answers, i did research and changed my minds on some of them.

Pantene IS bad for your hair because they put chemicals in there, and after you use it awhile, your hair starts to turn bad.

Suave is NOT good because it dries out your hair and is cheap

Herbal Essences- Doesn't really do much except make your hair smell nice.


sooo that leaves me hanging by Dove and Sunsilk.

I NEED HELP! if you think that any of the information i've given is wrong, then please explain to me! I don't know why i've become so interested in shampoos but I really want to know what brand is healthy for you and what brands are not.

Any other brands that you want to tell me about that you think work great.

All i'm looking for is something that can make my hair less frizzy, smooth, shiney, soft and great smell.

my hair is straight but sometimes it can be a little wavy, it's allways frizzy. (link)
okay, sunsilk is amazing, and the one in the purple bottle is amazing and i think it'll give you what you want. i hate dove, it makes me feel icky. :x




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