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ok theres this guy that i work with and to make a really long story not so long he has a gurlfriend and hes really famous for playing mind games and than breaking hearts hes a want to be player and he knows that hes playing mind games with me and that i being really stupid telling him things that i shouldnt like how much i like him and that i really cant trust myself around him he knows that im vurnable and he uses it against me im a virgin i havent done anything untill i meet him but i gave him head and he fingered me and afterwards i feel really sluty becuase he talks to his gurlfriend right afterwards and than he talks to me about all the other gurls he fucked and left, he flirts and flirts than sometimes nothing until he wants something so should i just drop him or become friends with beneifits you know just get the good with the bad because im 17 and still a virgin and he was my first oral but he wants to take my virginty but i know because of what kinda guy he is so should i stick it out and see what happens and hopefully he turns my way but than i think that hes cheating on his gurl that he suppossidly loves with me and every time i try to say no he sweet talks me and runs down my defenses, or should i just tell him that im better than that and just stay as friends and nothing more and try to work with him and not let him force and talk me down to it please help me lost and afraid (link)
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i dont think that you should be doing anything with this guy unless you really like him. The first guy that i had sex with when i was 14 i was in love with! so dont do anything that u will regret that is all that i have to say. i hope that helped.=)Amanda
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I'm 16/f. I'm a virgin. I'm not plannin to have sex til I'm married. I'm just curious how do you get STD/AID?. I know for you to be able to get those diseases if you're havin sex wit a person that's already have it. But WUT IF I don't have it and my bf doesn't have it.. we have sex.. wut would the risk of me and him gettin STD/AID?? can you get STD/AID from havin sex w/o a condom?? or you can only get it if you have sex wit the person wit STD/AID.
PLEASEE HELPPP MEE!!!. (link)
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you can only get stds if your partner has it. but you can get it when you have regular sex and oral sex.i hope that i helped.
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i might be prgenate and if iam im not to sure of how to tell my parents .. wat should i do (link)
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first of all you need to find out if you really are pregnant or not. because you dont want to tell ur parents and then it end up not being true. If your parents are the strict type i would tell them when you are getting in trouble for something else. like say: mom dad whatever u r thinking right now it is worse. ok and then tell them that you are pregnant. If they are not the strict type then you should just approach them and tell them that you need to talk to them about something very important. tell them. i am sure that they will help you out with it no matter what the situation is. i hope i helped.=)Amanda.p.s.good luck
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i've been on the pill for almost a year.. and i got my period when im not supposed to. what does this mean? could it mean im pregnant?? (link)
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you cannot get ur period when you are pregnant. Thats all. So dont worry about it.=)Amanda
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14/f
theres this guy that ive known for like ever [9 years to be exact] and we've always had feelings for eachother and we've always been close but he doesnt exactly live very close to where i do. but when we see eachother its like we were nvr apart. so im going to spend a week with him and his family because we very close and im kinda hoping that maybe him and i will do stuff [sexually]. and im not sure if its wrong for me to be hoping or wanting it to happen. i mean in some ways im nervous about doing anything but then the other part of me is like yes do it. I'm not sure what i should do?
is it wrong for me to want to do stuff with him?
[hes 16 & im 14] (link)
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there is nothing wrong with it hun. If you feel strongly about it then go for it. That is all that i have to say.loves.=)Amanda
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Ok...I'm 15/F and I was wondering if it would be a good idea to tell my mom that I want to go on birth control just in case something happens between me and my boyfriend. Or should I go on it when I am positive that something is going to happen? And do you think it's ok for a 15 year old girl to lose her virginity or do you think I am too young? Thank you. (link)
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hey hun. I lost my virginity when i was 14. there is nothing wrong with doing it young. birth control helps but it also helps with acne and regulating periods. i hope that helped.
=)Amanda
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i think i might be pregnant. what are the signs of being pregnant and how can u get a pregnancy test whithout an adult with u? (link)
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um....there are many signs of pregnancy. fever nasaea(sorry cant spell) morning sickness, tender breasts, um missed period. A way to get a test is just to go to the store like walmart or target and get a pee in a cup or one of those like first response. But if you feel like you need to go to a clinic then you have to go with an adult. i hope that helped.
=)Amanda
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is it possible to get pregnant if u get raped? (link)
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yes it is. especially since you dont plan it and the guy prolly doesnt have a condomn on so yeah u could very well be pregnant. Id get checked. i hope that helped.=)Amanda
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what is a wet dream? do girls and guys get them? (link)
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guys get wet dreams girls dont. A wet dream is where there is ejaculation from the penis. thats all. I hope that helped.
=)Amanda
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what is a snail trail
it seems reli strange askin but i think ii have an idea but i thought it meant one thing and my friends are makin it out to be something else n dnt wanna ask them cos they'll laugh lol (link)
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a snail trail is a white discharge that comes out of a girl. during or right before her period. I think that is what they were saying. i hope that helped.
=)Amanda
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I'm not sure if this is a sex question or not, but I'm asking anyways. >_<
When I think about certain things (fantasies I guess), white stuff ends up in my panites. Sometimes, it jsut happenes for no reason. There's is usually some in there every day for whatever reason. It's been happening for years and I'm starting to wonder if it's normal for not. Is in the same thing as "cum"? Sorry, I'm not very educated in the sex category.
By the way, I'm 15/F (link)
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this is a thing called discharge. it happens sometimes right before your first period and it happens while a girl is on her period too. It has nothing to do with fantasies. i hope that helped.
=)Amanda
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im going to the hair salon monday and i was thinking about getting my hair layered. i just wanna know exactly what it is and if you have any pictures that would be great. people also said it feels like your hair is thinner. is that true? cause i want my hair to be thinner. thanks! (link)
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hey im amanda,
if you want to see a pic of me with layers then go to my advice column. it is a close up pic so it wont look very layered but it is. believe me and it gets thinner a lot too. i also had my hair thinned. thats what they can do too. i hope it helps.=)
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ok,i have NO idea how to style my anymore![it goes down to the middle of my chest and i have side bangs] these are all the things i've done so far- pigtail braids,thin black head band,striaghten it,half up half down. [these are all with my bangsdown] ok,so basically im lost at what to do now. my hair is naturally wavy. i want a variety. i dont like putting little bows or clips in my hair,thats just not me,and i hate how everyone does that.so basically something that is really cute but not too common. any sggestions? thankyou! (link)
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leave your bangs to the side and get one of those silver clips or use bobby pins and take a little section at the top of your head and make it like a little bump. then dont use a brush. just use your fingers and pull all the rest of ur hair back into a ponytail and then use a clip and clip it so that there is the rest of your hair on the top of your head. And then use hairspray and a toothbrush to make it curly. i hope that was explained so that you could understand it.=)MANDA
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My average day, foodwise, consists of this: 2 pieces of wheat toast, cheese cubes, and coffee (breakfast.). Half peanut butter sandwhich, sunchips, granola (lunch). Chips and salsa (snack), Lean Cuisine veggie frozen meal (dinner). I drink a bottle and a half of water a day and treadmill for 30 minutes.
Any tips for changes I can make to lose 10 pounds quick? Healthy. (link)
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WATER WATER WATER. IT WILL HELP YOU LOSE WATER WEIGHT. i hope that i could help.
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Anybody know a place that does Body piercings (tongue/nose)In the Orlando Fl area For 15 or 16 year olds? (link)
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i dont know about orlando florida but in colorado there is a place called freaky's u could check and see if there is one there.
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By playing sports how can you pop your cherry and would i know if i pops? How do i know if i already popped it?
Sorry, for all the questions, im just really curious:-)
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um most of the time you pop ur cherry after sex but that doesnt happen soemtimes. you may not know. some girls never pop and some girls do when they are running or when they put in a tampon. but it may hurt a lot and bleed or it may not even hurt at all. ihope it helped.=)Amanda
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Okay my dog is real sweet and she is so lovable! But she dosn't do well with farm animals but we sorta have alot of land so we got chickens, we got 2, she killed both of them. Then we got more and now we are afraid she will get them again. She is sneaky can probably find a way to get to them. She attcked one but we stopped her. And sometimes she finds ways to get out of the fence and goes somewhere else and we have to go looking for her. And now my dad says we are going to have to get rid of her. I don't know what to do. I love her but she is not very good with chickens. What do you think I should do with her? Is she good to keep? (link)
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she is def. a keeper. you know what i would do. put a little bit of vineagr in your hand and let your dog smell it and taste it. see your dogs reaction and if she doesnt like it put some viengar in a spray bottle and spray some on the chickens and if she gets to close to them spray her with the vinegar. i hope that i helped and i hope it works.=)Amanda
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how do you ask a boy out in a note please tell me (link)
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personally i think that you should ask him out face to face but if you are uncomfortable with that then in the note write how you feel about him and then ask him if he wants to date you.nothing difficult really. i hopeit helps.=)Amanda
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What's the difference between a hotel, a motel, and an inn? (link)
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my uncle told me that the difference between a hotel and a motel was that hotels had cards that went into the doors and motels had keys. but i have no idea. hope i helped.=)Amanda
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15/m
I swear im depressed, i cry alot like everynight, i feel like shit and want to die sometimes...
okay well i was fine until i met sammie, then we were goin out and i really loved her and then we broke up and all and i got crushed, ever since i have no been the same... like now 2 months later(this past sat) she tells me she likes me alot but doesnt want a bf right now, and like now im crying harder cuz now tomorrow is my birthday and i want to hang out with her so so so so bad on sat. and for like the past two days after she told me how she felt she been ignoring me and when i call her she says shes in a bad mood and doesnt wanna talk to me... well i asked her to hang out with me on sat. and she said oh idk i might hangout with chris(her best friend but i thikn more) i swear if i lose her im killing myself, i know ill do it, shes everything to me... i cant lose her... (link)
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i am told that a guy falls in love 3 times before he turns 25. sometimes it might be secret love but it doesnt sound like it. i think that you should tell her how you feel.she might come around and you wont lose her. And you cant think like that. talk to her. she might come around. I know that this prolly isnt the answer that you were looking for and i am sorry if it wasnt but i hope that i helped.=) Amanda
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