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Ok..I have reeeally curly hair. I want it to be straight but when I try to straighten it there are 2 problems:
1. It takes me 1 and a half to 2 hours to get it completely straight.
2. My hair only stays straight for a day or overnight..even if I just straightened it.

Are there any easier ways to make my hair straight and make it stay straight for a while?

Thanks ahead of time. I will rate high for helpful answers.

Sincerely-
Curly wanting to go straight

you could ask you mom if you could get it permently straightened or get one of those straightners that keep your hair straight for a long time or try getting a biger straightner or you could always ask your beautition or who ever cuts your hair how hope this helps

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um i just put this under a random category but...im going on a really long road trip in a few days and im gonna need some serious entertainment...any ideas besides anything that involves reading?(i cant read in the car, makes me feel sick and stuff) thanks soo much i rate

well if you have a cell phone ask your mom if you can get games on that , bring a portable cd player and some cds and if your parents allow rent a portably dvd player or buy one the ones for cars and bring lots of your fav movies hope this helps

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ok im a girl im 12 and i like this guy and my friend asked him out for me and he said "i dont no" for like 3 days then she kept asking him and asking him and finallly he just said no and then after that i found out that he was going out with a different girl and hes best friend kept asking him why he said no and he said that there was a reason but he never would say what the reason was. (i think it was that he had asked the other girl out and was waiting for her to give him an anwer) and him and his girl friend broke up a couple weeks ago and hes been single ever since do you think that i should ask him again?

sure if you wat to but if he says no again dont worry theres alot of fish in the sea youll find you nemo dont worry hope this helps

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I'm like a hugeeee tomboy. Like I wear long shorts and football jerseys. Im 14 and going into highschool, never had a boyfriend. Will i ever get a boyfriend. I mean, i dont wear makeup, and im big bulky and muscular. I want a bf, but i think maybe they are intimidated by me. Changing the way i am is NOT an option, i like who i am. PLEASE HELP.

the reason you cant get a boy friend is because they consider you basicly as a boy they dont consider you girley or there type you basicly a guy with long hair to them [ if u have long hair but you know what i mean ] hope this helps

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is it normal to get a cold in the summer? because i think i have one i have a really soar throat and my nose is sooo stuffy! also what can i do to help get my nose unstuffed?

yeah it normal its probly allergies or something like that i have a cold too just ask you mom if she can get you cold medicen and if your on allergie medicen dont skip takeing it

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If someone that used to like you a lot and asked you out a couple times but you said that you werent ready for a boy friend right now, started to like someone else, should I not feel jealous ?

actully no cause you said no to that person and you never went out with him and are not going out with him you had your chance he moved on realising you were gonna take a while and were probly never gonna go out with him, your just regreting that you lost your chance with that person you shuldnt be jelious hope this helps

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ok well my best friend..regina ..we always hang out & stuff we look at hott guys on the beach..& yea ..like shes always so mean though..like she would say sumthing then say .. " not " .after it ..& it bugs me but i would never tel her that..but like i cant hear very well from blasting my music..so when she says sumthing ill be like .." what? " then shell yell at me for saying it..i dunno what to do..but like she always makes fun of my boyfriend.& i never make fun of any of the bfs she has had..so yea i need help..

just ignore her when she says stuff like that and when she says it act like it dosent bug you or any thing and when she makes fun of your b/f dose it relly mater you love him and if she being mean tell her to shut up dont make fun of him say i dont mak fun of your b/f and if try talking to her that shuld help i meane your being a relly nice friend for not insulting her or makeing fun of her b/f & b/fs and maby shes not a relly good friend im not saying break your friens ship up just lay low make some new friends or hang out with some other friends you have hope this helps

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i really want this girl to go out with me but i dont know how to get her to go out with me and she has a b/f and i dont wanna be a jerk to her b/f and steal her from him if i ever do get her what do i do???

just be normal & urself and wait till they break up and you dont know she might start to like you adventully just be urslef andd don trry to break up her and her b/f

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is it me or when u fall in lov it makes more sence to ask some one out that u realy like?

p.s i do have a g/f AND SHE IS SOOO SWEET!!!!

* i thing it makes more sence to you cause if that person was to say no the other person [ ur g/f ] you would still have and wouldnt be heart broken cause u had them eaven tho u didnt have that other person



idk that has never relly happend to me i have always liked my b/fs and never relly thought of asking any one else out so idk if you dont relly like you g/f but like some one else im not sure do what you thing is right

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k. i met this guy like 3 months ago. when i met him he told me that he didnt have gfs b.c his last relationship went for 2 yrs & she cheated on him.. well now he likes me and calls me baby and stuff but hes still afraid to ask me out and it makes me mad to just sit here and wait on him .. and i dont know what to do??

hmm... maby get a friend to talk to him and be like you shulf ask ____ out and if he says no or something have them be like why she likes you and stuuf ... like that if that dosent work try talking to him urself ♥

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i think ive gone mental but im not sure im banging my head of the wall and tryin to do back flips of the wall and punching myself is there something wrong with me and if so how can i fix it?

hmmm... maybe Just try to take deep breathes and relax, Punch a pillow or something if u get mad, or talk to one of your friends, parents, or anyone that your close to you to help also maybe try something calming like yoga or meditating anything like that

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hey i have a problem i have a boyfriend but one other person likes me and he has a girlfriend so do i tell my boyfriend and his girlfriend or leave it alone

ummmm... this is a tough one :-\ i would just leav it alone you dont want to start a fight or get ppl saying your lieing or blaming you for something you never relly did anything to make that happen so if i were you id just kkep your lips sealed

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im haveing trouble with this one kid that i have to babysit and he is a really big trouble maker and there is no way i can get him to be good what should i do ?

well when i baby sit this one girl wants to always do things shes not supose to do or touch so to keep him occupied have him tell you things that he likes to do but hes allowed to do the things hes allowed to do out of hs list of activites and it shuld keep him good i hope this helps

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umm .. i have this friend and i love her to death! and she seems different now cause we make plans then she blows me off! and she has been kind of rude too! but we have had some good times too.. i dont get her sometimes like i dont think she likes me anymore.. should i be friends with her still?

ps. - you know me!

maby your friend just wants to hang out w/ other ppl and needes some space give her time its not like she dosent wantt o hang out w/ you maby she just wants to be with some other people just not always the same person hope this helps

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