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I love helping people..and im here to help you. So many things have happened at school that i have learned to be accustum to be there for my friends to help. My principal calls me thw white oprah!
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Im looking for a really good straightener i can buy online, i have a credit card except my mom says i cant only spend up to like..70 bucks, my hair is wavy and im not sure what to get. so does anyone know of any straighteners that i could get online, that deliver withhin like 7-10 days, and that would be within 70 bucks (including shipping and handling)?? Thanks so much for neones help! (link)
CONAIR! totally! i works great and is cheap and get Chi oil it helps
hearts!


my friend thinks i dress slutty, but i dont really think so because she's a slut and her clothes are a lot smaller and tighter than mine are. i like to wear tank tops and i have some miniskirts, but i havent worn miniskirts in months, and now i wear low rise jeans. do you think i'm slutty? (link)
You arent a slut..its called style and your littel friend needs to clean up her act..shes the slut


ok here it goes my house smells really bad. I dont know why i think its because of my grandma shes old and she just moved in with us. Theres a really bad smell coming from her and now the whole house smells! I dont want my friends over because it smells! should i still let them over and how can i stop the smell? (link)
Just get alot of smelly good stuff and sparay it all over do as much as you can..yeah your friends can still comeover..dont worry about that


What is the best fake tanner that doesnt turn your skin orange??

Thanks.. (link)
its spray on and it makes you bronze but i dont remember waht the brand is..why dony you just go to a bed?


OK... i babysit 2 boys... 5 and 8 years old.. they are crazy!!!! and when i tell them sumthing, they just ignore me and keep on doing whatever they r doing... how do i get these kids to listen to me!?!?
*ignored babysitter* (link)
Tell them they cant do that over and over again...if that doesnt work make them go into thier rooms..and they have to stay there until you say they can come out..also let them watch a movie..it really calms em down..then they are usually tired


ok i had asked a question this morning buti have to say something else that i need advice on that happened tonight...

ok well i just gto home from a party and this guy tommy asked me to have sex with him and i said no and he called me a tesse and alot of other guys called me a tease b/c i wouldn't let them do ne nasty stuff to me the tommy took me into a room and put duck tape on my mouth and then un zipped his pants and mine...and then he took the rest of my cloths off and made me stand on the bed naked he was just lookin @ me...then he fingered me and raped me and he told me that if i told ne one that he would do it agian and kill me...there was no way for me to go b/c hes a football wresaler and really strong...by the way im 16 and he was 18...i don't want to tell neone because hes on of my moms ex boyfriends son and she treats him like a son and i would never think that he would do nething like that...HELP what should i do? (link)
You need to tell someone...he wont hurt you..


Me and my close friend which is a girl were watching cruel intensions and it made us really horny, we both wanted to practise so we would be good when it came to us losing our viginity to a boy. So we practised positions and tongue kissing in our bikinis, and now all i can think about is being masturbating partners with her again.
I took 2 tests which both said i was i bi but cant figure this out.
f,16
p.s i never had feelings for a girl before it happened. (link)
Girls practce on eachother all the time..its totally normal but if you worried wether you a lez try with a girl and try with a guy...mayb your bi


... I'm 14, and my boobs aren't that big.. they are 36 B's... which is Alright i guess, but the problem is, I've seen other girls boobs, and my nipples are really big... their's arent!...
I feel so weird, and recently at the beach, they wanted to go skinny dipping and I didnt too, but I didnt want people to see my breasts and laugh... they're weird :( is this normal? (link)
dont worry...if you arent comfortable then dont go skinny dipping..and dont listen to the girl that said you were a whore..ive been skinny dipping..im same size as you...evert woman is different..your friends can understand that


what exactly is a condom ,where do u put it, do girls where them, and what do they do? is there a certain age to buy them? (link)
A condom is something to protect you frm having a baby when you ahve sex..girls dont wear them..just guys..And hen i say have sex i think you know where i mean they go..you dont have to be a certain age at all...and if you are sexually active and to embaressed too buy condoms then ask you parents..i konw that seems embarrasing..but it may work


Okay me and my boyfriend have sex but the thing is we have never used a condom and I'm not on birth control. I talked to him about it before and we agreed to start using them. But that never happened...I really wish we would but I dont want to say something about it again.....what should i do? (link)
YOU NEDD TO USE A CONDOM! dont get pregnat you will run your life...just be safe..black mail him..tell him you wont have sex with him until he puts on a condom..and any signs of pregnancy CHECK


hay, I got a huge problem!!! I get a lot of IMs from guys and they all want one thing, to have cyber sex w/ me. Thing is, I'm christan and I don't believe in sex before marriage. Well, I kinda let a few guys have cyber sex w/ me. I don't know what to do, cause they wanna do it again. Plz help me! PLZ!!!!!! (link)
Well theres nothing you can really do...just stop giving them cyber sex..its as simple as that


i m 13 & i have a crush on a 15 year old guy and i THINK he likes me too so my b-day is coming up this saturday and i was wondering what i could do to get him horny or @ least make him show that he likes me p.s. I WILL have a pool so any sexy things i could do in there w/out people noticing that much PLEASE HELP!!! :( (link)
Get a really revealing swim suit...but not so much your mom will hate you forever..just sit in sexy poses but not like you trying..and always dress cute..im sure he'll be horny by then
HAPPY BIRTHDAY


OKAY SO IN LIKE APRIL I HEARD THAT ONE OF MY FRIENDS WAS IN A CAR ACCEIDENT AND DIED EVERONE HAD IT IN THERE PROS AND I WAS GOING TO GO TO THE FURNAL BUT IT GOT CANCLED IT WASNT ON THE NEW OR ANYTHING ALOT OF PEOPLE WERE UPSET ND DIENT UNDERSTAND AND NOW THAT THERE GETTING OVER IT THERE STARTING TO WONDER COULD SHE OF JUST FAKED HER DEATH AND MOVED ? OR SOMETHING ALOT OF PEOPLE THINK SHE MOVED ToO BOSNIA BUT ARNT SHURE

MY QUESGTION IS ARE THERE ANY WEBSITES I CAN GO TO TO SEE LIKE WHEN PEOPLE DIED AND STUFF OR ANY THING I CAN GET ONLINE TO PROVE TO PEOPLE IF SHE REALLY DIED ? OR ANY SUGESTIONS OR TIPS I DO RATE!
PLEASE HELP !

I DIENT REALLY KNOW HER I TALKED TO HER ONLINE.. BUT ALOT OF MY FRIENDS DID..

THANK YOU !
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When the paper comes look in the obituary section..deaths should be in there..but maybe she did move just wanting people not to know..people do that sometimes


there is this boy that i like alot. he is sweet,kind,and o so hot. but then there is this other guy same thing. but i like the first guy better than the second guy because he is older and more mature. i can't stop thinking about the first one. i am confused. but then i found out that the first one doesn't like me at all. he doesn't even care that i like him. he barely knows me and he is starting to hate me already. so here are my questions.

how can i get the first guy to start to get to know me?

who should i pick?

i will rate with reasonable answers (link)
I cant reallt help you..but this happens to the best of us..just stop with the 1st guy..move on..maybe in the future he will start liking you..if any of your friends are friends with him tell them to to talk about you to him..he doesnt sound mature he sounds like a jerk..but best of luck


whenever someone asks a question on advicenators, there are always these stupid and arrogant people that leave pointless rude comments that dont help anybody at all and just makes people feel bad. is there a way to ban some of these people from this site? (link)
Go to your settings and tell the site to ban those ruse people


i'm 14/f, and i've never had a boyfriend and i've never kissed anyone. a lot of people think that i'm the type of girl that can get any guy she wants, or the type of girl that has had a lot of boyfriends. i dont think i am that type of girl, and when i tell people that i've never had any experience with boys, they find it shocking to believe. is there something wrong with me? i'm not really shy, but i dont try to flirt with guys or anything like that. (link)
Dont worry...your time will come...your just not into boys yet..when the time comes when you really like a boy tell him and express yourself...from then your relationship rockets off..but having friends that are huys is better than having a boyfriend..cause when you hang out with them its so much more fun just as friends


okay so i had sex with my boyfriend last night and ever since then i have been throwing up and i keep needing the toilet i no im not pregnant and there is no chance i could be cuase im on the pill and he used a condom, ive had sex before and never felt like this whats wrong with me have i got a desease or something im gettin really worried please help i will rate high (link)
You might have a disese..but the only way to help is tell your parents and they can help..or just go to the doctor..i hope you get better..next time you have sex..be even more careful..maybe the condom is making you sick..it can happen


ok I have this layout code and I really like it so I wanna keep it but the little buten at the bottom of the padge that says next is black and you can not see it unless by some chance you run your mouse across it. Does anyone know how to change the color to like purple or pink or white or something. lol! I am going to paste the code and PLEASE give me answers I RATE HIGH!!! THANKS!

THE CODE IS BELOW!!!
so hott (link)
I have a xanga...and its really hard to keep up qwith i dont really understand waht your saying...just copy and paste you bckrnd and then save changes..then look and see if its there..if its not start all over again...it just takes awhile..and i dont know how to change the colour


hey how can i lose wieght like eat healthier and wat are some exercises i can go to lose some weight like in my stomach area. i mean i not over wieght at all but im starting to get a little belly. lol so i wanna get rid of it. so wat kind of healthier food should i eat and what kind of exercises should i do a day??? (link)
Im like you..im not over weight..but i wanna lose my belly..I play soccer or move when ever i can..i lift weights..ride a bike..ANYTHING...and eat raw veggies and fruit for snacks..ANd you should try not eating after 6...a woman lost 45 pounds! I know we all get up in the middle of the night and want to go eat oreos or ice cream..just wait till morning and eat a healthy breakfast to start off your day..and get alot of sleep it really helps


everytime i have a crush on a guy,it always remain as a crush...nothing ever will happen after that.for sure ,the guy i like endup liking my friend or they will be so close that they wont realise im there anymore.to make it short,guys dont find me special im always the another girl in a crowd.but im prettier than my friends most of the time.at this moment i have a crush with a guy but as expected he is interested in my friend.im not angry just upset.so what should i do so i wont feel like a loser again!!!! (link)
Dont worry...you arent a loser..this happens to everyone...just wait and time will tell...when someone reeally likes you..then they will show affection or tell you..and mabe you could get to know him/her better...and dont call yourself a loser! ANd your friends shouldnt take the boys/girls that you like...i take that as back stabbing




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