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what is the TripleG Club..?? (link)
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good question. IM me to find out. xoxicedteexox
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tara...
how can you tell if people don't want to be around you, if they're too nice to tell yo uto your face? (link)
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i'm sure that people want to be around you! don't worry! the only reason they wouldn't want to be around you is if you were sick and super-contagious and if they got within 100 feet of you they would get sick too. or, of course, if you're being a b****. because i bet you wouldn't want to stick around one of them either. besides, if they were too nice to tell you, then remember that they can always act on their feelings rather than verbalize them. actions speak louder than words. so, they would stop calling. or stop hanging out with you. i bet they love you and you're just being paranoid. don't worry about it :)
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ok, so i really like sandwiches, but i never know what to make. i could always go with pep and pro, or maybe roast beef and tomato (light mayo), and there is always the classic pb&j. which sandwich should i choose?
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dear hungry,
those are all VERY good choices. all of them are my personal favorites. but, you could always go with ham :) or, skip the sandwhich and eat a hot dog :)
actually, i have a better idea. make a DM sandwhich. i know how much you like DM :)
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ok so i like this guy n i dont kno if he likes me... how do i tell him i like him?
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well.. there are several ways you can go about t doing this. ask him if he's into anyone right now. or you can ask his friends. or you can tell him you like him and ask him if he'd ever be interested. it's kind of hard to get up the nerve to tell someone you like them. but once you do.. it'll be worth it. good luck!
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ok sOo i like this guy and he knows that i do...and people are telling me that he does..lately we have been talking alot lately over the phone (which is definately a good thing :) )...but the last time we talked he was like kinda talking about this other girl and stuff...like wtf...i think he is just probably seeing how interested i am and stuff..but yeah it kinda bothers me...what should i do (link)
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he could be testing you to see if you like him.. or he could be clueless that you're into him and views you as a good friend... and is asking your advice on a girl he likes. the second option is a major killer, i know, i'm sorry. but you can be honored taht he trusts you enough and respects you and is letting you into his life.
if it really bothers you, talk to him about it. say, " i don't know if you know this or not, but i really like you. i don't know if you like me back, or if you like the other girl you mentioned. even if you don't like me,that's cool too because i would still like to remain friends." (assuming you DO want to remain friends, of course.) if you're not quite feeling THAT bold, ask him, "so, what's going on with this girl you were telling me about?" see what he says. hope it all works out for you...
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Tara,
Hey i had this boyfriend for about 4 months and now he has been hanging around me for the past 5 months and it is totally over! & i dont know how to tell him that, i think i am starting to like this other guy too. But the thing is he is going to be a senior, and i cant tell if he is interested in me. What can i do to get the one guy to leave me alone and take a hint && how can i tell if this senior is interested??
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you need to tell this boyfriend that you do not want to see him anymore. that it;s really over. if this guy has been hanging around you, you've either been giving off the wrong vibe or he's thick and doesn't get it. or he does get it, and is just madly in love with you. :) tell your ex to leave you alone. it's time to move on and he's holding you back and you don't like it. he should understand. about the senior.. get to know him more.. hang out with him. you'll be able to tell if he's interested. asking around from his friends wouldn't hurt either.
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hi Tara,
i heard about this site from a friend, it seems awesome and my friend described u as really awesome, too.
i have a little problem. i want a boyfriend so badly--or maybe not a boyfriend, just a friend. i used to be a really touchy-feely person you know like i like people to hug me and hold me because a lot of times i just get really sad and lonely.
i dont want a friend that's a girl tho. i dont trust girls so much. i'm a girl, just to let you know.
what can i do? i know that this is like a really vgue questionbut like, i feel like i dont deserve anyone...i know that i dont deserve anyone...it just gets so lonely sometimes.
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thank you! you're awesome too.
sounds like your depressed about not having someone close to you who you can go to when you're upset and just need someone to tell you it's ok. and you know what? feeling like that is ok. we all need someone to help us through those tough times. make yourself some new friends. and remember, you have to BE a friend to have one. you'll have plenty of trustworthy people to rely on, and who knows? maybe a whole new group of friends to hang out with this summer!
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so i hooked up with my best friends boyfriend! what should i do! (link)
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RUN AWAY NOW. no, that's the wrong thing to do. but i can assure you that you're going to seriously consider it. too bad, you still can't run from this. you're going to have to tell your best friend. it is so WRONG to make out with your best friend's boyfriend. and if she's your best friend, she deserves to know the truth. tell her, explian to her that you're extremely sorry and upset because of your actions, and that you can understand if she is angry with you. actually, if my best friend did that to me, angry would be an understatement. regardless of hurt she might be, you still have to tell her the truth. i wish you the best of luck.
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hey tara!
ok so i have this friend who has this amazing boyfriend, except he doesnt like live in the same area as her. and she's always worried about whether or not he's going to find someone else, but i just keep telling her to stop worrying about it, but then she sees these guys and hangs out with this one guy who she is always like "hes so hot blah blah blah" or something....like i dont get what is going through her head, but she has a boyfriend, and she thinks that since he doesnt see her hanging out or talking with these other guys, then it doesnt matter. but then she's worried about him and whether or not he's hanging out with other girls. should i tell her boyfriend? what do i do?
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dear confused,
don't tell her boyfriend. that will end up in both your friend and your friend's boyfriend disliking you. and you don't want that. instead have a serious talk with your friend. be like, "listen, i know it's none of my business abotu the decisions your making, but i need to tell you that what you're doing isn't right. it's not fair to your boyfriend, who has no clue. and then you wander if he is doing the same to you. if you're not ready to handle a long-distance relationship and be completely faithful, then you shouldn't be going out with him." see if that hits the nail on the head. if not, make sure to warn her of all of the things that can happen if and when her boyfriend finds out shes not being loyal. if that still doesnt work, there's nothing you can do. she's making a mistake, and she's gonna learn from it eventually. and if she wants to do it on her own, your work is done.
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okay so i was at this party this weekend and this guy that ive been friends with for a while but always had a crush on was prtty much flirting with me. he then like took me into this room where we wee by ourselves and we were standing really close and about to hook up and he was like i cant do this? so then i was just like whatver and we still flirted at the party. then when i got to school that week he was liek completely avoding me. i dont kno what to think if he likes me or what now? cuz i still do like him a ton (link)
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that can be frustrating. and it's pretty hard to tell whether he likes you or not. maybe he just wanted to have fun and flirt. or maybe he was really into you and did want to hook up with you but was afraid. or maybe he was confused about his feelings for you. there are so many different possibilities its hard even to name them all. why don't you try telling him you like him... and ask him his reasoning for his actions at the party. who knows? maybe it will all work out. good luck.
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so i think i like the guy that my BFFL likes...what should i do? (link)
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oh no. that's never a good thing. i would see if you can overcome your feelings for him... and don't let your friend know that you like him. steer clear of him, see if avoiding him makes your crush go away. if you've been avoiding him for a while, and you still like him, then you have two options. you can either continue to hide your feelings and pray you get over them, or have a talk with your best friend. hopefully she is understanding about it, but most girls are not cool when they find out their best friend likes the same guy. i wish you LOTS of good luck. you're gonna need it.
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How do u win a hot babe girl with blonde hair like you ur hot attentions???? (link)
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good question. i don't know how to tell you the answer. i guess if you really want a hot babe girl with blonde hair (like me! haha) then you'll figure something out.
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ok soo its shan...and i juts want ur opinion..cuz it means someting to me....is the whole thing with u kno who...***** is it worth my time?? (link)
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well to be honest with you babe, idk. i don't know ***** yet, but he seems pretty cool. i mean, he did come over and hang out with all of us, he didn't object to giving you a ride, and he seemed like he was into you. i will have to talk to you more about it to understand the situation, and then i can give you better advice... so let's talk about it sometime! :)
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haha yeah i thought it was pretty stupid of him.and yes i tried talking to him about it..and he still denies it.. (link)
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then this guy is SO not worth your time. move on, because he obviously is a jerk. and we don't need jerks in our lives, do we? nope. we're better than that. and i know you can get a guy who will treat you with respect and not use you and then deny it. hopefully one that won't use you at ALL. and there are plenty of guys like that out there... so go find one!
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so i hooked up with this guy a while ago.and now he is denying the fact that we hooked up.what should i do? (link)
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ouch. that hurts. why would he deny it? i despise guys like that. it shows that they used you just to hook up... and wern't interested in anything else. i hope you wern't seriously interested in this guy. because he sounds like a major butthole. confront him about the situation. ask him why he's denying it. tell him that it DID happen, and yes, you understand no relationship will probably come of it, and it's over with and done. you can't take it back. so why bother to deny what happened? it's no big deal. keep your cool, discuss it calmly. then walk away confidently. and guess what? you just got the upper hand. NOW who are people going to beleive? :)
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what do u think about kissing on the first date. i mean i asked this girl out on a date and ive known her for a while. do u think she'll mind if i kiss her on the first date (link)
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it depends on the girl. i like kissing on the first date. but make it short and sweet... and no making out. a peck will suffice. or if she wants to do more, then go ahead. just whenever the moment feels right. you'll know.
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so tara would you ever date a freshman guy? a lot of guys date girls that are younger than them but girls usually dont and then if you do ppl are like oh thats pathetic but age shouldnt really matter right? and i was talkin to some freshmam guys about it and i was like so would u ever go out with a sophomore and they were like no and i was like why and they said well they dont usually go for younger guys and i was like well i prob would and i know some others that might and so now my best friend likes a freshman too and she doesnt know if he likes her because they text each other a lot but when it comes to hanging out he'll be excited about it but isn't willing to do it and same with me and this one guy...so whats the deal with these younger men??!!??
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i really don't know about dating freshmen guys. but maybe that's just because i havn't liked any. to be honest a lot of freshmen are older than me, so he wouldn't really be younger than me, lol. but i'd still have the upper hand, being a sophomore, of course! he probably is scared to ask you out because, well, your a big bad sophomore. and you would NEVER like a freshman, right? wrong. you need to let him know that you actually DO like him and want him to ask you out. he might just be too scared and nervous. so give him all the signals in the world, and if that doesnt work, then you can just straight up tell him how you feel. good luck.
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ok.. there is this guy tht i like and i think he likes me to but he wont admit it. i dont kno what to do... do i ask him if he likes me? or do i ask him to go on a walk and get him around me to see how i am.. but the theing is tht he goes to my school and he knows me i kno he does... wht should i do?
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you should talk to him. and ask him if he feels something for you, or if your just wasting your time. if he doesnt like you, thats ok, you can move onto other prospects. but ask him, or your going to spend forever obsessing and wondering, and tahts just not healthy for you. so go for it, dont be afraid~
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k well theres this guy that ive liked forever and i dnt rly kno if he likes me but he always is rly mean to me but i kno thats his personality bc hes rly sarcastic about everything. sometimes i cnt even tell ifhes kidding but i dunno if i should stand up to him cuz i hate it when hes like that .. but i also dnt want to seem like a bitch cuzi do like him. how can i tell if hes kidding or not and what should i do (link)
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why do you like him if hes a huge butthole? personally, i wouldnt like him. he doesnt treat you the way he should. stanf up to him. tell him you dont expect to be treated that way. and then find a nice guy. one who respects you.
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heyy ok so i just recentely hooked up with a guy who is my ex bf... but i rly do still like him and he hooked up with me and he knoes how pissed i would be if he was using me. then after that we havent been talking and its like akward but i still like him alot. do you think hes still interested in me if he hooked up with me? (link)
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to be honest with you... if he knows that you would be angry with him for using you, then thats why he is avoiding you and has not been talking to you. think about it... what caused you too to break up? do you think that he would use you? and has he used girls in the past? its possible that he misses you and since the incident does not know how to approach you because he doesnt think you like him... but not probable.
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