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Hiya, i share this advice column with my Best Friend Lily. My name is Victoria. We love helping people. We answer any kind of question and we try and answer it the best possible way. I Must warn you.. If Victoria is answering your question... you might find alot of spelling mistakes because i tend to type fast and miss letters. haha
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do you know how to make ur belly fat gone while exercising or some kind of solution? (link)
you dont have to do too much durastic dieting or anything, try to watch your fat intake. If your willing to do some exercise, do lots and lots of cardio, also try yoga and do some swimming, dancing, and crunches.


ok
so me and my best friend are pretty darn good friends
we live 4 houses down from each other so we're together most of the time
the thing that's been bugging me soooo much lately is:
she's religious.
i'm not
it may not seem like anything to worry about since we're best friend
but honestly, i feel like that is creating a wall between us. everytime we someone manage to bring anything up about religion or we're around someone who brings it up, it's always just awkward between us
i feel like it's my fault sometimes because there's no reason why i couldn't be religious
but then again, it's a choice i made to be atheist a long time ago and i've really spoken up about it in the past year or so
i don't think this should be a problem since we're such good friends but the weird thing is is that we've never talked about it. it's been pestering me SO much lately but i don't know what to say or how to say anything without making her feel all awkward and not wanting to talk to me about it
we're not really the kinds of people that can just sit there and talk to each other about such deep deep issues considering we're so different
what can i do?
any help is appreciated :D! (link)
i think you should casually bring it up to her. say something like " i feel a bit akward like we are growing apart because of your religion and your my best friend. maybe she will have some ideas for that


Okay, I'm sixteen and there's this guy that's somewhere around 21 or 22 that lives across from my grandmother. Everytime I'm over there and he's outside he stares at me and when I see him out somewhere he does the same thing. My mom told me that she thinks he likes me but the thing is he never actually smiles when he looks at me but he doesn't look away when I look back. So my question is this: does he like me or not because he's never actually talked to me at all or even waved. I don't actually know anything about him except where he works and that he loves eighties grunge rock (known from his t shirts). What should I do exactly to get him to talk to me or even acknowledge me beside the usual staring contest? (link)
he probably see's something in you he likes. maybe he thinks your attractive, or he just likes flirting. go ahead and talk to him. you'll never know if you dont try.


Im 15/ Female from Ada
Ok... my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. And well, me and him havent had sex but we mess around. Like oral and fingering and making out. Well he says oral isn't sex, so it doesn't go against the bible. By the way, he is very religious. I think that oral is sex... but I don't want to tell him my opinion. Because I don't want us to stop, I like it! So what should I do, we are totally in love and I wish we could have sex. What should i tell him to have him understand that I enjoy that kind of connection with him and don't wanna stop? In my past, I feel that I have always been rejected. And i don't want to feel that way with him. (link)
Okay, well you may like my advice and may not... When you really love someone you would appreciate there opinion. But at 15 you seem alittle too young to be having sex.


id really appreciate some new rap or hip hop songs to downloaddd thankss (link)
I really like the song "pop lock and drop it" by Baby huey




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