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My name is Janelle, nice to meet you all.I'm asian (half asian...) and proud of it; even though I seem to be getting whiter and whiter by the day.
I love to make people laugh, it is my passion.
I like music quite a bit as well.
I listen to so many different genres of music, which is great because I have a huge choice to choose from depending on my mood.
I have a HUGE thing for Female Fronted Bands. I really don't know why, but it's an increasing trend of mine and I don't mind it in the slightest.
I'm pretty damn smart, yet can be rather inarticulate at times.
I'm bad at parking cars.
I probably giggle too much.
I love to write, yet I'm too lazy to do so most of the time.
I fall in love with people I haven't even met, but not really nessicarily fall in love, it's more of a very awkward affection/fondness for that person(s).
I have this horrible tendency to listen to a song on repeat for hours on end without even realizing it. Once I do realize it, I still don't take the song off repeat, or attempt to change it.
I have a hard time trying to tell people what's on my mind sometimes because I'm afraid of how they will react.
I daydream and fantisize about god knows what, often.
I'm wanting to get to know people I don't know too well, better.
I'm becoming addicted to orange juice
I don't like it when people don't believe me when I say I'm sorry about something
I love how beautiful some people look when they cry (not that I'm saying that I like people to be in emotional pain, but that their crying brings forth a natural and vulnerable type beauty)
When I help people with their problems, no matter what they are, I feel that I have a purpose on this earth.
There's nothing wrong with being addicted to Kool-Aid.
You must be literate. If you're going to ask me a question, be literate about it or I will gladly take the time to insult your intelligence. If your feelings get hurt and you IM me, I will continue to degrade you there in harsher ways than I would in reply to your question.
Moral of that story: be literate America!
If you are going to insult me, or the advice I give to you, please at least attempt to at least build an okay defense on your behalf. I am more intelligent and have a higher vocabulary than most college students. I just choose not to use it for the sake of time. Calling me a "faggot" means nothing. I could build at least a paragraph of insulting you by that weak, un-intimidating one word "insult". To help you in your attack towards me, I suggest you don't insult aspects of me that you don't even know about me. If you were to say "you're going to die unloved," you would be wrong. I am a very loved person. Stick with insulting what you know. I only will reply to your insults using the information you have said in your "insult" and what you said prior to such. I suggest you be polite and do the same, instead of infering what you think you know about my life.
Anyone who cant deal with the advice I give them, and what I have to say has a serious case of allodoxaphobia. over 99% of you, don't know what that means, unless you look it up in the dictionary. You all need to expand your vocabulary a bit.
Sorry for forgetting that I had this, I'll use it more often!
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I used to always want to be 'cool', 'hot' 'ghetto'
junk like that. Now I am a 12 yr old punk girl, and I changed in less than a month. I started having home problems, and I started listening to rock. I cut my ankles, and make little pictures on my ankles with a knife. I tell myself it's just play, but somtimes I dont know. Really and truly sometimes I scare myself, I like being strange and literly insane. Is that a problem...
You cannot change from "ghetto" to "punk" in less than a month. Blink 182, Sum 41, Avril, Good Charolete, and etc are not punk. They never were punk and they never will be. I just want to make that clear to all of you. I find it that the definition of punk rock has become so narrow that it is not what punk was supposed to be about. Originally, punk was born out of artistic freedom and a really left wing political sense. It's got nothing to do with that now. I find myself saying to people, “Listen, just because you have a Mohawk and you look punk doesn’t mean that you are.”
I'm only judging you to not be actually punk because of your quick change from ghetto to punk.
My advice for you: Learn what punk actually is, learn about the music and the actual lifestyle.
Rock music isn't why you cut, its because thats what the "punk rocker" stereotype has come to be, that all "goth" and "punk" kids have huge problems and they have to cut because of it. You aren't being true to yourself. Look deep inside of you and figure out who you truly are and don't conform to the media's stereotype of what "punk" is today. The only reason you're cutting is because it's what's "in" today. you can overcome it if you want to. It's your choice.
Just don't blame your cutting on your "so called punk lifestyle"
Does anyone know what kina of pills make people feel high or halucinate when u take more than ur sopposed to?????
shrooms should do the trick. not pills, but still. although, that might make you go crazy and stab people, thats what one kid that goes to my school, did at this party while on shrooms.
Ihave areally hard time falling asleep at night night. Iget all nervous about murderer's breaking in, and it really scares me! I know thiz soundz childish, but does anyone have any advice on how to fall asleep quicker and it would help if you had advice on how to be calmer and not think every little noise in the night is someone breaking in.
for your first question. I feel the same way at night sometimes too. What gets me relaxed is to play fast, lively, music with good lyrics, quietly so I can sleep, but still feel relaxed because the music isnt naturally quiet (which makes you feel more creeped out due to the silence) but more relaxed and not having worries. Sometimes it helps to sleep with the TV on, even if it's an Infomercial, the sound of someones voice talking about something in the background is more relaxing than the tension of silence.
for your second question. I try to get my mind off of it, and think about other happier things, or things that happened during my day, and after a while I get tired and fall asleep and the bad dream is gone.
I want to start wearing eye-liner and I don't know exactly where on my eye I put it - and what are the good brands. Pencil/Liquid? I'll rate you!
I would suggest, since you're just now starting to use eyeliner, to start by using pencil, and getting used to eyeliner and such before upgrading to liquid. liquid takes skill and practice to use without it getting in your eye. as for where to put it; its really your own personal preference. more morbid type of people, wear excessive amounts of eyeliner, while more conservative types wear it only around the eyelids and such. experiment and find out what looks good on you and go for it.
I am really good at singing and I want to become a singer but I have no one to play music for me and I mean I can play the piano but i dont think i could write my own music...I can write my own songs but not music to go along with it..I love to sing but I need a band and someone that could give me a record deal can someone help?*Awesome Singer*
You seem to be very full of yourself to just flat out say that you're an "awesome singer" I don't doubt that you're good at singing, but you need to be a little more modest. There are all those wonderful reality shows out there like american idol that you could go on, and everything could happen for you. You need to get yourself known, do local singing bits for your church or something, or make business cards for yourself, advertizing your services.
I'm just wondering, what are you peoples' favorite DDR songs? I like B4U, End of the Century, and Burning Heat.
End of the Century is most definitely my favorite song for DDR, as well as Dream a Dream, and The Whistle Song. There's one more but I can't remember it.
hi. im going into 9th grade and in 4'9 and i weigh 74 pounds. Im so tiny short and skinny and bcuz of that i look like a 3rd grader! i always got things like what grade r u in? and "i think ur lost little girl" like i just graduated 8th grade and on the 1st day of skool i was going to home room and this new girl saw me and shes like 6th grade is downstairs this is 8th grade. i hate it! now im going into high skool! im so worried n upset! in going to b with 18 year olds! Im gonna feel so out of place. help
LAUREN
If you are going to worry about what other people are going to think about you JUST because of your size, you're going to make your situation a whole lot worse. If you just focus on the positive aspects in life, and live your own life, not letting what others think bring you down; who knows, maybe you'll end up friends with one of these 18 year olds.
Omfg I was just outside, and its raining really hard. I was just sitting out in the rain. Is there somthing wrong with that?????? Please tell me if there is a problem with liking rain..bcuz when somone saw me they fucking went crazyyyy. They were yelling get the fuck inside, and acting like i was going to kill myself!!!!!! I am sooo mad!! It was my fucking brother too. TEll Me the truth. IS it wrong to like the rain and go outside when its raining??? I mean this is the first time iv done it but everyone in my family acts like its sooo damn horrible!! plz help. They make mee feel so fucking stupid. like im crazy or somthing for doing that. My bro thoguth i was trying to get struck by lightning!!! AHHHHH is wut i did sooo wrong????
First of all, you're making a big deal out of nothing. There are pleanty of people who like the rain. Why would you think there was something wrong with that? Just because someone else had a problem with it, you have to think theres a problem with it?
"Question Authority, Think For Your Self" - Maynard James Keenan.
You need to learn to calm down in situations. The only reason that you wouldnt need to go outside during the rain is because of the risk of pneumonia, and that you will get your house all wet when you come inside, which will cause it to grow mold, then you would have to end up redoing all your carpeting and everything because of the mold.
SORRY IT'S SO LONG, BUT I HAD TO SAY IT!!!!
STUFF SOME OF THE MODERATORS ARE SICK OF DEALING WITH (actually im speaking for myself, and i'm not sure but maybe a few others)
the people that ask to be rated, I usually rate them LOW, just because it seems like all they care about are ratings, and they aren't in it for the advice
the people who say I Rate, it's like they're so desperate, that they tell people that they rate, just so they can get better answers, WTF¿?
And what bugs me, are either the non-advice questions, like asking for a screen name(thats what you have friends for)
And, the people who ask the following, I like a guy, I'm Not sure if he likes me, What Should I Do? Uh Hello obvious, TELL HIM!!!
And people who say, My boy Friend wants to have sex, I'm not sure, I almost feel like I'm to young, what should I do? well thats easy, if u have to ask, then the answer's NO
The one thing that gets me is people who say admin please don't delete, HELLO that just makes the admin know that it's a Dumb question
All these repeats, and stupid I Rate, Rate me questions are SO ANNOYING, i just wanted to state that
sorry i know that it wasn't asking for advice, but i just felt like posting that, it just really gets on my nerves, i mean i have done that before, but i've realized how stupid it was!
by the way, if u wanna leave something in my inbox, like a rude reply to this, or just any question, then my name is SoUtHeRn_ChIcKeTy
i don't care if this gets deleted, i just HAD to post it!!
I also hate when people type their question so illiterately that it takes me at least five minutes to read and understand it. By that point so many of my brain cells are fried that I am incapable of answering it.
Ok i like this guy hes 16 and im 13 he has a gf but neway hes always being mean to me i guess.bcuz like wenever i talk to him hes like shutup jack*ss or w.e queer stupid stuff lyk that we used to b realli good friends and he would play around like that now i dunno if hes playin around or not.Do u think he likes me or is he jus bein mean??
There is a three year difference between you two. 13 year olds are about in what... 7th or 8th grade? and 16 year olds are in 10th and 11th grade.
Most 16 year old guys wouldnt want to be friends with girls that have such vast age differences. sure you might not think its a big deal, but from middle school to high school is a big step. he may find you an embarassment due to your age
if he hasnt changed by the time you get into high school, then of course just stop trying to be friends with him, theres better out there.
okay so ive been dating this guy for about a month now. hes turning 19 in oct. and im only 15... i know that my parents dont exactly approve so i havent really told them that im dating him. im not really sure that i should become exclusive with him because hes starting college soon he'll probably see other girls that he wants to date and to tell the truth i might want to see other people too... eventually. the whole situation is confusing and complicated. i need some help... what should i do?
you've only been dating him for a month now, and I dont think you should become exclusive. Like you said he is going to college; the number one thing on college guys mind's isn't school. You would probably end up hurt if you found out he hooked up with another girl. There is a four year age difference between you two, and seeing how your parents dont approve, being exclusive isn't the way to go. When you say that you might want to see other people as well, that should be a clue that you shouldnt go exclusive. If anything, I suggest that you try to stay friends with this guy, and in a few years when you're out on your own and have a better sense of him, and your relationship as friends, you can then decide if it would be right to start a more romantic relationship.
hello fro, me and this girl were like best friends and spent every weekend at eachothers house for a long time and then she started hanging out with like one or two other girls and would ignore me all the time in class and then it got to the point where she would cancel our plans for theirs and it made me upset but when I'd talk to her at times the other girls were not around she was different. it seems like she thinks that they are better than me or something but she ignores me as well as other people as if they don't like me but they donnot act like they donnot. i just wish we could be like friends again, which she barely acts like we are. IS she another person now? or is it me?
From your discription, she is a different person. She doesn't seem to value the friendship you have to offer, and if she can't value that, then why be friends with her? Yes you may be attached, but there are better people out in the world who will appreciate you for who you are. I bet almost anything that in 20 years, you will be farther ahead in life than she is because she is shallow, and being shallow gets you no where.
Ok im Bi and I have a really big crush on my best friend who is straight and a girl. She knows im Bi and she flirts with me all the time as a joke, and ive always taken it as one till I started to get a crush. So now when she flirts I take it for real. I dont know if I should tell her how I feel or just keep my feelings to my self caues I would hate to mess up the relationship bc we have been best friends for 3 years. What should i do?!
Tell her how you feel, speak from your heart. If she is your true best friend and she doesn't have the same feelings towards you, you both will overcome this and move on with your lives. Even if you don't end up together, letting her know that and overcoming it will make your friendship stronger than it was before.
Okay this guy i like likes another girl but she is isn't interested in him!! he says he might not go 2 the prom ...and i want 2 go but i don't have a date!! and the guy i like did my hair, he says he loves my hair ...does he love me?? he laughs at a lot of my jokes is that a sign that he likes me??
You don't have to have a date in order to go to prom. Some people find prom to be a time where two people HAVE to go together. If you can't find a date, go by yourself, it shows that you're strong and independent and dont need a date to have a good time.
Just because that guy said he loves your hair, doesn't mean he loves you. Although your hair is part of you, it isn't all of you.
As for laughing at your jokes, who knows, he may find them funny or he's just being polite.
If you really like this guy and you think you have a chance; go for it! ask him to the prom, because if you don't, you'll be spending the rest of your life wondering, "what if?"
If he doesn't feel the same way about you, then you at least have the satisfaction of knowing the outcome instead of you, in the future, thinking back about what he might have said. Rejection might hurt, but we all go through it. It's a part of life. Time will heal all wounds.