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I really like this new guy at school. Sometimes I feel like he likes me back. But my friend likes him too! We have some much chemistry and everything. Then I ask my friend if she would be mad at me if I dated him. She said no but then she said she wouldnt be a great friend to me! But then I think ok then what if you date him? Will I be great friend to you? She always thinks of herself! What should I do? (link)
Don't .
It's very unlikely your goin' to find a "Mr.Right" at your age . Andd , I don't think you would wanna loose a friend over a guy , No ?
If you were her you would feel the same way , If you don't feel the same way , You don't like him enough to go out with him .
So , I would take to her a little more about it and tell her more and what not . Butt , Think . Your friends not worth a boy .




i love old bands like.
the beach boys.
savage garden.
& the monkees.
can you name some other good bands and/or songs? :] thanks. (link)
Billyy Joel = Love < 33 .
Tomm petty , I think ?
Steve miller band . - Take the money and run
The Bangles .- Manic monday , Walk like an egyptian .
The boomtown rats . - I don't like Mondays .
Bruce Sprinsteen - Gworing up .
The kinks - Lola .
The beetles - Hey jude . Andd something Elonor rigby , I think >
Jesse's girl .
Eye of the Tiger - Survivor
Kanas - Carry on my wayward son .
Hope I helped .


My girlfriend and I were having anal sex in a hot tub the other night, and I was fingering her at the same time throughout. I was touching my penis but I dont remember if I ever touched the tip. I never entered her vagina and she is a virgin. I was wondering if there is any chance that she could be pregnant? (link)
Ugh , From the desccription of this , YES !
You need to be more careful .
THINK , If you don't know the answer to your question . You shouldn't be having sex or anything sexual .


I'm thinking to buy one of these iPods.
Do you think it's worth my time and money?
What would you rate this iPod on a scale 1-10.
If you have this iPod, what are the cons and pros of this iPod?
Thanx! (link)
I am also thinking of getting one ^^;
Butt , My mother is concered she has heard from a number of people that it ruins your eyesight . Which makes sense , Staring at that tiny of a screen WILL most likely ruin your eyes .


I get those white spots on my chin and weird places like on the end of my eyebrow closest to my nose... They're like acne spots underneath the skin, like it's a big bump that's not red or anything, but deep and crazy. I have one now one the side of my chin. Is there a natural way I can get rid of these bumps really fast, like in a day or so? (link)
Well , You must see that acne doesn't jsut go away over night .
It can take weeks .
I would reccomnned pro-active . It's what I use .
Also , No matter what anyone says , Do NOT use toothpaste , It scars .


Im a kind of person who stresses out aloott. and im only 13! i worry about evveryything, even when i dont even know it.
I worry way too much, and i guess thats why i stress way too much.

I meen; i even got told that from the guy i like!
How embarassing.

I need to change.
I need to start enjoying my time as a kid
then stressing every minute of it .


Now my problem is; HOW AM I GOING TO DO THAT?

How do i handle drama?Stress, i want to be a relaxed person and not be known as a low self asteem person.


I REALLY NEED AS MUCH ADVICE AS NEEDED.


ALOTTT.

-worrybug. (link)
Hm , Try joining something outside of school , A hobby ?
Also , I -think- there are people you can talk to about this , Ask your parents to take you to a physicarist(sp?)
Sorry Im not much help :P


ok well i think im ready to start doing sexual things..! like i dont really know how to explain it but....i am .. the only thing stopping me is i need 2 find a boyfriend..sooooo i guess my questions are: how can i let a boy no that i want to do things with him..??.. and like any comments..!! btw. 14/f (link)
Wow , Hun . Slow down now .
Look at this your 14 , You don't even know how to get a guy to like you and you want to have sex , Sounds bad and desprate .
Your young . Wait . You have rageing horomones . Of course your -might- wanna do stuff . But contain yourself . We don't need any more pregnat teens out there O.o


Ok so my boyfriend has a sister who is wiked wiked manly. Shes 2 grades older than me and plays football for the school and I cheerlead for the school. Her name is kelsey. I heard from people before that she hates me because she thought I was a stuck up snob, which is the complete opposite of what I am. I litterally never even looked at this girl, or talked to her and she dislikes me for like no reason. Today at the game, she was yelling out to her team on the field and she was in front of me and my friend jamie. Jamie turns to me and says was that a girl? It sounds like a guy. And we both started laughing. I didnt think she would hear us, but she did. Kelsey took off her helmet and turned around and gave me such a scary look. Then she ran to brad (my boyfriend) and told him what happened. Then brad turned around and looked at me and shook his head. I dont know what to do about this. Me and brad are really starting to get serious and I really like him but obviously theres going to be a problem if kelsey continues to be like this. What should I do???
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Uhm , I can kind of see why she called you a "stuck up snob" . You made fun of her because of her looks , Which she can NOT help .
If you wanna stay with "Brad" maybe try being nicer to his sister and try talking to her instead of laughing at her . Maybe you could even help her look nicer .
I really don't think us advicenators can do mcuh , You know your boyfriend best , Talk to him .


Ok, i'm kind freaking out about this...
but I keep crying only through one eye.
Randomly, like out of nowhere.. tears are just coming out and it's weird! I'm worried. It justs get teary and turns red. But goes away, and is normal and then just comes back.
I wear contacts by the way. (link)
Sometimes if something gets on your lense it can poke you and make it itchy and whatnot .
A friend of mine had the same problem , She took the contact to the eye doctor and got it fixed .
It could also be alergies .


A few of the teens at my church won't date anybody when they're in high school, b/c they think it's pointless... but some of them will date in high school; I've dated people before, but I'm starting to see the other people's pov (the one's that won't date anybody), but I really like someone, and I don't know if I should date while I'm in high school or wait like SOME of the people at my church.... any ideas?
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Ha , I am the same postion as you .
I don't at all agree with dating at are age , I find it pointless . I don't need to date anyone and usually realtionships in highschool dont last long , Making it sad when you do break up . And I really don't need to deal with that .
On the other hand if my "crush" asked me out I don't know what I would say .
Persoanally , I would wait . If you are this confused I would wait , You are oviously not ready if you are decideing . Though , You are being very mature to think of this as a problem .
Just wait until the time comes , You will know what you will do when it comes up .



so my family is a little low on money and i was wondering what are some ways to keep the house warm since it is getting close to fall and winter.. i dont want to put the heat up high because that will cost too much (link)
Well , First I suggest selling things that you don't need in life , Such as a computer . Costs lots of money .
Mkay , Well anyways . You could always buy a few more blankets , You can get them cheap at a local thrift store and they cost MUCH much less than heat .


What products test on animals? Links would be greatly appriciated. or a good list. (link)
Well , Seeing as though you got a rather rude comment before O.o I will try and help .
I am pretty sure that IAMS the pet food does . And that's it . Yes , I would recommend google to you . ;) They know best .
Hope I helped .
Age .
Personally , I could care less about ratings . I get advice alot that goes unmarked and I have no problem with it .
Plus , She didn't ask for someone to nag at her to use google , She wanted some names of companys that test on animals .


i dont hav acne but i have like a bunch of zits on my forehead and some on my nose too. i use proactive and it always looks liek its clearing up but it never completely goes away. what can i do to get rid of it? (link)
Okay , Proacitive is the number one best acne cure , I know nothing that works better that can be store bought .
A) Make sure you use it as many times as it says , And also after particapting in gym or in a sport , or any place you sweat alot . Wash your face . It helps .
B) Seeing as though proactive won't work I would recomenned going to your doctor about going on pills .
C) Drink lots of water . It will get all those nasty oils out of your skin .
Anndd , I think you must know that there is know way that you can get ride of zits over night , It takes time .
Hope I helped .
Age .


well i am 20 years old and have never ever missed my period before and now i was supposed to start on the 10th of OCT. and now its the 16th. me and my boyfriend of 9 months have sex probably 5 days out of a week and we dont use protection and im not nor have i been on birth control. i think im having the symptoms because i have lower mild back pain, i urinate more than usual, and i have an extreme bloating feeling. but i dont have to much of an apetite, but everytime i do eat, afterwards my stomach feels like its empty, but im not hungry. and then sometimes i have a feeling like im going to throw up but i dont. the feeling comes and goes suddenly. i have taken a home pregnancy test but it came up negative, but i think i took too soon. so please just let me know what u think and what i should do? thank you (link)
Well , I am no expert but if it were to soon to see if you were pregnat from that test , wouldnt it be to early to tell ?
I would personally go see the doctor , Then you will know for sure , But from the symptons you stated there is a good chnave you are pregnat . Though it `could simply be you getting sick .
Ohh , And Congrats if you are :DD
Age .


ugh omg i am extremely freaking out. My mom has been stressed out enough and her boyfriend has been proud of me lately but now im pregnant and don't know if i should make my mom more stressed out or what. the only thing that i am worried about after telling my mom is that she is going to go tell her boyfriend and i don't want him to know anything about it and if i tell my mom she is going to think that everytime i go see the oppsite sex that she is going to not be able to trust me even though being in this position i am scared enough and i never want to be in this position again.

please help A.S.A.P.

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Awh , Hun . You will at some point need to tell her . And it's better to tell her earlier , For her to help you decide what you are going to do about this .
I know , It's veryy hard and what not but you NEED to tell her . Also , ask her to take you to a real doctor instead of the store bought ones , They aren't all that acurate .
These things can happen , We all make mistakes . Don't be all down about it . It's over with we can't replay it . Plus , You never know this baby could end up being a really good mistake .
Hope I helped .
Feel free to send me a message anytime .
Age .


When i teat or talk or just close my mouth i bite the side of my cheeks. It hurts like hell and i can't stop it. Its like my cheeks are in the way. Is there something wrong here?

thanks (link)
If you are doing it all the time , There is a chance you may need braces . I was asked this question before I got braces and it is a symptom of needing braces .
Check it out with your local dentist , They will then direct you to a proper oruthatdontest(sp).



i stuck the needle in that big vein everyone has on their foot, it probably went 3/4 of an inch in.....as soon as i took it out i bled a little, and then all the blood in that vein along my foot and ankle dissapeared and went into about a square inch of the vein (which is now almost an inch wide) around the needlehole....its just a big bubble/bump thing...it wont bleed anymore though even if i press it...has this happened to anyone? what should i do? am i overreacting and its fine?
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Hun , I have no clue what your talking about .
We are no doctors . Go too the hospital now , If it is serious and you go now you can stop it .
Also , Don't be sticking needles in your foot anymore .
Hope I helped
Age .


15/f

I'm mainly attracted to guys but I'm attracted to girls too... I've talked about having sex with girls... And i LOVE being eaten out by my dog... I like the thought of ANY kind of sexual experience (whether it's w/ a man, woman, or animal)


I'd do anything. so am I trisexual?


please don't assume that because i'm 15 I can't know what my orientation is. I passed puberty years ago. just treat this question as if it were coming from an adult. (link)
Hun , It's illegal to have sexual activity with an animal . I am sure it was not willing to "Eat you out " .
Also , You are not an adult and I know you don't want to hear it , You have ragging horomones .
Though it could very well be that you are bi-sexual .


I live in the Saint Louis Area, I'm looking for a Female American Pit Bull Puppie. No older than 10 weeks. I've searched high&low. Price range from 100$-300$. Please help me find. Thank you. (link)
Hun , You can't buy a well breed dog for that cheap . And you would know this if you had looked into the breed , Which is very unsafe getting a dog you know nothing about . Also , It being a pitbull we don't need anymore less respnsible owners out there. They are already banned enough we don't need more to be hated .
Anyways , I think that you should talk to a breeder and ask them if this type of dog suits your lifestyle and from the sounds out it it may be your first dog , and APBT are NOT a good breed to get for beigniners .
Go check out a local SPCA they will hook you up with a nice dog , That suits your lifestyle .
PS;I used to own two APBT .
Also , I don't think my adivce is suckie just the truth . Andd you said you dont want to go somewere and look for a dog , and come home with an ugly one .
Looks are not a reason to get a dog .
If you have any other question's feel free to ask . Though , I am no expert .
Hope I helped .
Age .


This may scare you and all but I'm fed up. nobody likes me and this guy said he hates when I'm around him so I'm going to starve myself until my body falls to the floor and I die. I have 7 more days of life what do you think I should do on those wonderful days of life that's left. (link)
Hun, Im not sure if this is a joke or not butt .
Do you know how many people would kill to have a life like yours, And just beacause a guy hates you can feel like you want to die,But after a few days its over.
Okay , There are kids in Africa that would kill to have a life like yours,With food, water, School.Ect.
Do you know how many kids die of cancer and WISH that they could live like you be normal liek you , But know instead we get a kid thats upset over a "Guy" .
Well , I guess I should stop trying yto convince you, I really hope you do make the right choice.




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