HEYY im THE RACK !!
im 16F and livin it up in Rhode Island. I love to just kickback and relax. I think i'm pretty mature for my age and have a interesting view on life.
iv been on this site for years, but i just made this new column. so i've prolly given you advice before, i love giving my opinion, i love helping ppl with what they dont know, so feel free to ask!! =]
Location: Rhode Island
Age: 16
AIM: THEE RACKK
Member Since: January 3, 2010
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what would be good for a group of newly single best friends to go do. like i got out of a long relationship a few weeks ago and from then on every few days my friends dumped their guys, idk we realize how their asses. i love my friends with all my heart, so other than shopping and going out to eat or peoples houses what is there to do? half the group doesnt drink so we dont when were together. chicks before dicks :) anything to get us closer than we already are? all between 15 and 17/f (link)
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nothing wrong with a fun sleepover.. movies and all kinds of snacks and games and just fun.
or do all the activities you guys love to do in one day. definitely get your nails done =]
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odk what it is and i knw it all wnt owrk for me bt wat do u guys do in materbation? give me detail (link)
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well it is not a "clip" it is a Clit. Which stands for clitoris. And i think your asking what do girls do to masturbate. Girls can finger themselves, use objects such as a vibrator, or rub up against stuff. If you want to know what guys do, well they just jack off.
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as I guess you can probably tell I have little tiny boobs! Wearing a 32 a cup while all the rest of my friends seem to be at least a C.
Is there anything I can do about this or am I just stuck with what I have? Don't worry you don't have to talk me out of getting surgery, I'm not that stupid ha ha however I would like to know if there are any pills or anything I can take.
Does anybody have any experience with this?
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yeah look up beauti-full pills. go on there website, read about it. They are breast enhancement pills and muchhh cheaper than surgery.
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So I've just recently started wearing tampons and I need to know if it is okay to go PEE while I have a tampon in? (link)
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lol definitely, because that is not up your pee hole. tampons actually make you have to go to the bathroom more often, so dont be surprised if you find yourself peeing alot while you have one in.
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my hair is to the middle of my chest, and i have side bangs. i want my hair to grow very long by summer. i cut my hair to a bob in august and i haven't gotten a trim or haircut since. i have been patiently waiting for my hair to grow out. how can i make it grow faster? should i use less heating tools on my hair? should i scrunch my hair everyday til summer? should i swicth my shampoo? are there any special shampoos to make your hair grow faster? (link)
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yeah definitely use Mane and Tail. Look it up, there are shampoos and conditions and growing systems. I love mane and tail!
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if you best friend of 3 years made ur boyfriend breakup w/ you for her what would you do? (link)
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id kick him in his balls and punch her in the face. They dont deserve you. Dont talk to either one of them. Your bestfriend which obviously isnt because no best friend would do that. And the boyfriend is just wack. you'll find better.
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Hey, I made my advicenators account in 2004, when i was 13. obviously, i have grown a little since then. i am now 7 years older, and i wish to change my age on my advice column, but i dont know how to. does anyone know how i can change my age? thank you (link)
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go to profile settings.. and it lets you change your age.
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Hello, I am fifteen year old female and I design clothing. I love it, it is my passion, no doubt about it. I have e-mailed numerous stores to see if they can sponsor me in the journey I am taking. So, about a week ago I took a chance and e-mailed Macy's Department Store and surprisingly they replied back and it wasn't an auto reply. They said that if my merchandise meets their criteria that I could meet with them to discuss starting my own line for their store! I'm really excited, I am finally moving forward and I could not be happier. However, it got me thinking.What is going to be my next step if they decide to take me up on my offer? What is going to happen with me and school? I mean as much as I hate my school, I can't leave it and all my friends. What am I going to do with them? Am I going to make every single piece of clothing, all 200 of the same dress in all different sizes or am I going to get a team or an industry? Lastly, how am I going to be able to pay for all of these items to make my clothes? I don't have a sponsor or anything so everything will come out of my pocket, right? ANY help would be much appreciated, if I get this job, I can take on the world! (link)
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Nothing will happen to you and school. Your schedule will work around school, because school comes first. And you give the design of the clothes fabric and stuff.. and you dont make it all, people who sew as their job will do that. If macy's wants your clothing line, they pay.
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I'm just curious if a parent allows their child to drive without a permit & they get caught what happens? Does the parent get their license suspended? (: (link)
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The child will not get their license until they are 21. and wherever you are, someone will have to come and drive you back home. Or you could be arrested, depends on the cop.
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Hi, im 14/f and my boyfriends 15. I'm an August baby, and all of my friends are september - even though we're in the same year at school, their almost a year older than me. In septmeber, when they turn 16, they'll be starting to have sex with their boyfriends. Even though i've been with my boyfriend for just as long as them (coming up 9 months)i wont be having sex until august 2011 - im not sure it's worth waiting that long.
We both love each other, and i'm not on about having sex now, maybe may next year? but i wanna know why its such a big deal to be over 16?!? should i wait - obviously i only would have sex if im ready. can i get some opinions?
Bearing in mind he'll be 17 next year. Thanks x (link)
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I dont get why you have to be 16 to have sex.. like why are you basing it all around turning 16. who cares when your friends are having sex.
if you want to have sex and he wants to and you wind up doing it, well who cares when it happens, just be protected.
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1) How much is it?
2) What brand would you recommend?
3) Where can I get it?
4) Side effects?
I want birth control pill sfor two reasons:
1) I hate my period. It's completely unpredictable and annoying and I hate having to wonder WHEN I'm going to get it.
2) I want to have sex wiht my boyfriend soon. of course he's going to use a condom, but I want to be prepared. Because there is no way I can afford an abortion and no way that I am going to let a pregnancy get in my way of going to college and getting a degree. I dont' want a stupid mistake to mess up my life. (link)
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with insurance coverage and stuff mine came out to be 3.50 a month. but it always depends on your insurance and on what brand you get. the generic versions are less expensive than a brand name.
I recommend ones like Seasonique where you only get your period 3 times a year. but there is a higher chance of spotting between periods, how much spotting or if there is any at all depends on the woman. The side effects that are possible are weight gain, breast tenderness, headaches, spotting or breakthrough bleeding, increases the chance of heart problems if you smoke, vomiting, unusual tiredness. But you may not experience any of these symptoms. If you take your pill at the same time everyday and take it how it says than you should be fine. Ask your doctor about ones like seasonique, and ask for the generic version, but it is cheaper. Mine came out to be 7.00 a month and you pay for 3 months at a time, because you take the pill consecutively for 3 months. Its wonderful. Basicly talk to your doctor about your period and she can also recommend what brands will fit you based on whatever problems you have.
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My husband and i want to spice up our sex life. Do you have any ideas on what i can do? I want to really pleasure him. What do you do with your men that they really seem to like?
Thanks! (link)
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Role play. Put on sexy costumes, ex. female cop, nurse, school girl.
Use sex toys.
Heavy foreplay.
Different positions.
Also, just ask him what he wants.
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ok its me about the whole mom thing how do you know for sure at 17 that i can just leave with out getting into trouble and say my boyfriends mom said it was ok to live thier. whats your input on that. (link)
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Well first what state do you live in ? You need to look up runaway laws on your state.
Legally at age 18 you can move out, but at 17 when you want to move out and you do, the police dont really enforce that law, so your parents cant really force you to come home. But I wouldn't want to even involve all that drama, so maybe you should stay home for now but sleepover your boyfriends house ALOT.. lol
also i found this.. but dont rely on it because idk your states laws, "Authorities seldom intervene in situation pertaining to a minor who is atleast 17-years-old unless said minor becomes involved in a criminal act or is found living in an unsafe or unsuitable environment."
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im on a strict 500-900(TOPS) cal a day. i have like 500 on one day and 700 on another- the most all ever have is 900 but thats like barely.
then whenever im with a certain friend i ALWAYS binge so its like sat-sun i go totally all out and off.
then i start fresh monday.
is this bad? will i gain weight? can i loose weight?
(dont say stop hanging with this friend... im working on it)
PLEASE LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK IM REALLY WORRIED. (link)
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get off the crazy ass diet. your body actually needs food if you didnt know that. were talking about 1500-2000 calories. Going from practically starving to eating alot is really not good, it messes up your metabolism. Your body will store food for a long time when you barely eat to keep you from starving and then when you eat alot its basically doing nothing but helping yourself gain weight. Food will be broken down slower because your barely eating, so it just sits there. Its bad.
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so i'm fighting with my mom a lot and she apparently has heard stuff from two people about my friend that they are bad and what not and i've known my friends for a long time and hang with them all the time so i know what ever she had to say is a lie and i still dont know if shes lying i bet so. our relationship wont improve i think ill never forgive her for putting me through this. i thought it would be better to be with my mom but she doesnt trust me whatever i say my dad doesnt talk to me at all and im not even allowed in he house. now i want to move out but i dont all at the same time im 17 in NY i want to have a good relationship with her and if i do want to leave i want to leave on good terms but if this situation happends again i want to know if i can leave with out getting into trouble legally. basically i need advice (link)
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You wont get into legal trouble, at 17 you are not considered a runaway, your mom can call the cops all she wants but the cannot force you to come home, its one of the perks of almost being 18. So Yes you can leave [and you wont go to a psych ward.. idk wtf that person was talking about] but make sure you are prepared, such as money and a place to live and probably a car or bus pass.
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what are some signs that a guys into you... not just wants in your pants but actually likes you (link)
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If he is constantly texting you. I feel like that is the number 1 sign.
But also if he finds ways to make physical contact with you, like accidentally bumping into you then saying sorry and striking up a conversation.
A guy who is not shy will definitely compliment you such as oh i like your shirt, or your hair looks really nice, wow your so smart, etc.
You'll definitely catch him staring at you from across the room or if hes right next to you. Its really funny to catch a guy in a trance just staring at you, if so then snap him out of it and you'll see him blush a lot. He will talk about you to his friends and try to get his friends to put in a good word for him.
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So, I shoplifted the other day. Not anything huge, just some earrings from American Eagle and a shirt from Forever 21. They didn't have an ink tag or anything, just a price tag with a barcode, which I ripped off. I didn't do it because I don't have money, but I will admit, I don't like to just blow my money. I have a shopping addiction and I can't afford to buy every single thing in the store. I saw it as an easy solution. I hid them under clothes to take in the dressing room, so the attendant saw no difference. But my question is, are there security cameras in the dressing room.. is that even legal ? Or what are others ways I could get caught ?
(And please PLEASE do not tell me about how shoplifting is wrong. I don't have a guilty conscience about it, and I'm going to continue to do it.) (link)
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Well once you get caught you'll regret it, but for now ohkay.
There are definitely no security cameras in the dressing room, you need privacy while changing.
Sometimes the dressing room attendants need to count how many clothes you take in, so hiding things under the clothes is not a good idea.
Definitely dont take anything while you are in the store and not in the dressing room, anywhere outside the dressing room will have cameras. Those camera will see you no matter how much you think you are hidden. Be careful.
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What are the most popular teen stores that you can think of? I want to dress more popular this year but I'm kind of stuck on what stores are considered "in" right now. We have lots of stores around here like Old Navy, Hollister, Abercrombie&Fitch, American Eagle, Fashion Bug, HotTopic, etc etc
What's the most popular stores that us teens shop at now? (link)
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Most popular in this order.
1. Hollister
2. Abercrombie & Fitch
3. American Eagle
4. Victoria Secret [pink]
Abercrombie clothes are way more comfortable than any other clothes, but they are expensive, so the next best thing is Hollister. American Eagle is cute too, but 1 & 2 are just the most popular.
And if you want to dress more popular you better have Ugg Boots. Get a tan pair and probably black.
Dont wear a backpack, have a tote from Hollister or Abercrombie.
In the summer wear mini skirts and flip flops (from the popular stores of course lol)
Avoid Old Navy, Fashion Bug, Hot Topic.
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I'm so sick and tired of not being a popular girl and not getting the hot boys at school to notice me. I want to do whatever it takes now to become popular before school is out this year. What are some good tips on how to become popular in my school so people know me and like me? THANKS (link)
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I dont really suggest you do this, because it is all about being yourself, but i'll tell you anyway..
Look at all the cliquey girls who are popular, look at what they wear, how their hair is [is it straight, blonde, highlights, a particular cute hairstyle, bangs?]
look at their shoes, and base your wardrobe on that. Ex. Blond Hair, with lighter blonde highlights,skinny, hollister shirt, mini skirt, abercrombie tote, ugg boots.
Do these girls tan? If you would look better with a slight tan go tanning, or look at other girls makeup who you like and try to do your makeup the same. Guys love those girls, so if you look pretty much the same they are bound to notice you.
Now spring sports are coming up, join a sport that a lot of the popular girls do.
Once you have the look, if you are normally very shy this is the time to come out of your bubble and be talkative, but not annoying. And DO NOT come off as fake, otherwise girls will know and wont want to befriend you. First impressions do count. When you start talking to these people, dont be clingy, and dont let them walk all over you. Just be yourself but outgoing.
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The idea having sex just grosses me out, it looks disgusting, I was sexually abused b4 nd luckily it did not led to anything else. could this have something to do with it, im a female (link)
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Sometimes people are just grossed out about it. I can have to do with your age if your young and inexperienced. But i would say being sexually abused definitely plays a role on how you view things. Some take it the opposite way and become a little too involved in sexual activities.
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