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Well ilike this boy and he likes me.
Well 2 weeks ago he said he was gonna ask me out just not at the moment and its been 2 weeks and he still hasn't i mean im patient but we always and that i just want to know what do you think is he over me,dosnt he want a gf or want just curious.

Thanks muchh !

I think he sounds shy or nervous.
Maybe he isn't ready for a girlfriend.
(it is a big step from crush)
Ask him out if you are confident.

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Me and my boyfriend want to have sex and he definately has more experience than I do but usually he just makes me give him head or handjobs and I don't think I'm good at it cause he makes me go faster and finishes jacking off in front of me and I feel like I don't do a good job at it then I feel bad and uncomfortable for about 30 minutes after it.
I want to do better so its not like disapointing or anything but I'd rather have sex with him and I don't really know how to get him to actually start into it.

Tell HIM you want to have sex not us!
Be honest tell him you feel bad!

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okay my friend used to be all goth but he changed into ghetto gangster kind of style and i asked my friend"werent you goth before?" and he said"yeah but boring now" and he also talk with a slang like bruh and all do you think hes a poser?

Maybe he is telling the truth he got bored of being goth and wanted to change it.
I was a "pinky prep girl" then i went to
"rocker chick" to "goth"
and know im a "pinky prep girl" again.
Try asking him not us!

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There is this guy from my work place that I really like. I heard he has a drinking problem but so far it had just been a rumour. Well today I ran into him at the bottle depot. I was there first and then he showed up. He said hi but then got really quiet. All I had were water and diet cola bottles, but then I glanced at his and saw tons of boxes of beer cans. I could sense he was embarrassed because normally he's very talkative, so I just collected my money and left. Now I don't know how to act around him. Should I just pretend like I never saw anything?

Wow. Tough...
Try to help him.
If he insists you don't he could be adicited but to "proud" to admit he has a problem.
This is tough.
Tell him you like him,and if he says he likes you tell him you will only date him if he quits.
Obviously he is ashamed or embarassed about drinking.

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ok.so there's this guy that i really like && that i've known for awhile.my friend actually works with him and she use to tell me how cute he was and i would agree.i finally admitted that i liked him && she didn't say anything.awhile later she told me that she liked him too.they have problems && he tells me all the time that he can't stand her. i feel in an awkward position bkuz i like him && alotta people can tell.but i don't know if he can.we're kinda flirty but i'm touchy feely && he's kinda not.i really can't tell if i should make a move or not??HELP!please =)

Tell him how you feel about him.
If he doesn't "like like you"
then try being friends first.

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Heyy, does anybody know of any really cute hairstyles for short hair? My hair is about 1 inch below my shoulders, and I'm sick of wearing it scrunched, straight, in a ponytail, or a half ponytail, or pigtails. Can you please help me with some really cute hair styles that are simple but totally cute? Thanks a bunch!

Curl it with big rollers.
Curly que curls are cute with shoulder length hair

Or try crimping it!
Crimps are always cute!

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Ok so I've seen a couple people wearing like kinda dressy shirts that are longer than a regular shirt but shorter than a dress and they wear leggings under it and it looks soo cute! I was wondering if anybody knows where I can get shirts like that? And I don't want them to look too dressy, but not too plain. Just something thats cute and stylish. Thanks so much!

TRY THE MALL!!!
They are everywhere because the are "in"!

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does any one know where i can get some cheap fake eyelashes that dont look really fake and plastic-y?

A beauty salon?
or maybe a cosmetics store?

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15/f

i have this one friend and uhh. she gets me so mad. she doesnt even know this guy, and then she TELLS me to IM him, so i did, and then she tells me i'm messing everything up, and all i said was "Hey im mels friend" OH. and by the way, her name isnt even mel. she made this girl up. and pretends to be some girl named mel, and talks to them and everything. so she got all mad at me, and was like yelling at me. and i was like whats the big deal? you dont even know him. he doesnt even know you. & then so this kid is like yelling his head off at me, and shes like taking his side. and it was just rawrr really patheic.

what should i do?

Tell her the truth and if she wants to be mad its her problem! Tell her you did not do anything.
And also tell her fighting over something as stupid as this makes me wonder if you are really my friend! She mightt be shocked and belike
"Im not mad at you."

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I seriously need help!
I am 13.
I recently moved across the country, from the towwn which I lived all my life.
At my old school there was this boy my age who really liked me... I was unsure at the time whether i liked him or not...so i sorta gave him the impression i disliked him...
I know he still liked me though because i would look up to see he was staring at me, and he purposly bumped into me in the halls.
But when i moved i cant stop thinking of him..
Should i conntact him?

still me:
Please help mne out!

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does anyone recall the yellow bag leslie appears with on the first day of school. the yellow one she drops...can anyone find a picture of it, or know where i can find one just like it?

Sorry hun, i looked but cant find anything..
Try google maybe you'll have more luck!

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Probably within the next week I am getting a haircut. I don't want to do anything drastic and I love having long hair but my ends are all split and dead so I need a trim. I think I might go a little further with the haircut than a trim this time but I never know what would flatter me. People say it depends on your face shape, but I can't figure out what shape my face is!! I am posting a link to a picture of me and hopefully someone can tell me the shape of my face which could help to tell which hairstyle would look good.
My hair is pretty thick and naturally wavy and it gets kind of frizzy but I usually blow dry it or straighten it at least partially, just to cut down on the puffiness/frizz. If I don't, I wear it up in a ponytail. I have layers now but I was thinking of growing them out because I don't think it looks good on long hair. I think the most I want to cut off is 2 inches. I know that is like nothing but I get really sad if I cut off a lot haha.

Sorry for the weird face haha
http://img216.imageshack.us/img216/1607/iskdkjsfmu3.png

Thanks

For you I would suggest having it cut
a couple inches lower than your shoulders...
may be 3-4 inches lower.


By the way you are very pretty and have a lovely color hair!

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I've never really noticed this until last week, and now i can't seem to get it out of my mind. I'm 5'8" and overweight-- this may not have anything to do with it.

Anyways, I wear ALL my jeans wear my bellybutton is. It doesn't matter if they are tight, loose, low-rise, EXTRA low-rise, or the fit- they all sit there. I wouldn't think it's because of short legs because I know girls with extremely short legs who wear their jeans so low it can be below their crack.

Do I wear them high because thats where my waist is? If I slimmed down could they be worn lower? Does this mean I have short legs, or Does this mean I have long legs?

People wear all types of clothing in their own way

I think it is most likely that you are just more comfortable with your jeans up higher.
I am the same way with my blanket.
It may be extremly hot but i still need my heavy comforter up to my shoulders to sleep.

Hope this is help!

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Hey Dudes and Dudettes ,

I was wondering what can you do to get your body in shape I mean if your skinny and all but you want the major curves. What can you do to get major curves?

Thanks ,
Betty.

Depends what curves you want hun...
Some people cant do anything, it is just the way their body is...
Others over eat but this is unhealthy pleaswe dont try it!

But Remember this:
1)God made me the way he wanted.
2)My body (is in its own way) perfect!
3)I wont harm my body just for looks!


Sorry that im no big help but it was worth a try!

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i love this band.
can you name some more bands?
preferably bands that most people havent heard of because i like having songs people dont know

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=138000476

Sorry trying googling with keywords like:
Wierd Bands
Uncommon songs


And other random stuff like that!

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Okay i'm 12/f about to turn 13 in 2 weeks =] ! I really like this boy and yesterday i went to his house to hang out and i d k if this is slutty or what ? Well we was over there watching the Grudge and i was just laying by him, then we like moved to the floor and all the sudden he leaned over and we started making out. I like got on top of him and we like started having dry sex with are clothes on. Well he knew my turn on spot is my neck so he was kissing my neck and i just got really in the mood so he rolled over on top of me and we kept on doin it. Well then we stopped cause we heared someone upstairs so we were just laying there. And i let him finger me. And i was giving him a hand job all night !! Like every minute. Then hes like how bout you suck it for meee ? and i was like omg i never sucked one before soo yeah.. but we went downstairs but then we came back up after we did some more stuff.. okay now heres where it gets bad. We were laying on the couch and i like sucked his dick about 3 times and he wanted moreee. but we didn't have a condom . Well he fingered me again and left a huuuge hickey on my neck. Wow thats alot of stuf. Do you think thats slutty and just give me some advice on what i just told you . I feel slutty and guilty and i feel like hes useing me.

Sweet heart, I have to say it was inapropiate behavior and you shouldnt have done it.
There are over 200 disease you may have now.
I am hoping you will take my advice:
1) Tell your parent(s) (maybe just mom!)

REMEMBER:

1) Everyone makes mistakes
2) This insident WAS A MISTAKE!
3) I can learn from every mistake.
4) Think before you do!

These may be hard but are the best things to do and remember!

"xxsima answered Sunday July 9 2006, 7:46 pm:
Hun, get off this site. Go see a therapist. You are way too young to be doing this.

Your question has been rated a '1' 21 times.

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Harsh! See your parents not a therapist!

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