about

Hey everyone! what's up? me nothin really just chillin...anywayz if ya need any help/advice on anything holla atcha gurlie..luv yaz bunchez xoxo!

if you look inside a Girl's
[*H - e - a - R - t*]
you'd see how much she .'really'. cries, you'll find secrets hidden,
*best friends*, and *lies* . but . what .you'll . See . the . most . is how [[hard]]
it is to stay {{strong}} when .nothing's. *right* and .Everything. is *wrong*

It hurts to feel no one is there for you and that -::- n o b o d y -::- cares
w o n d e r i n g w h a t y o u r p u r p o s e i s o r w h y
y o u` r e e v e n
-*- t h e r e -*-

L.i.V.e (L)(a)(U)(g)(H) -x-L?O?V?E-x- ((C.R.Y)) -n- BE U!

forget what you ((-heard-))
((-recognize-)) what you see
i know you heard ((-rumors-))
((-forget-)) them
here's the ((-real-)) *me*

nothin' but LOVE

advice

im an almost thirteen year old girl. okay heres the problemo. i have two really good freinds, one girl, one guy. the problem is that they hate eachother!!!!! my guy friend told my girl friend that he thought she was ugly and she told him he looked like one of these freaks she knows. so now they hate eachother. but ofcourse that leads to more trouble... now she thinks that all the guys she knows think shes ugly!!!!! i want to comfort her, because i know shes not ugly and shes very pretty, but when i tell her that, shes just says that im not a guy and that i dont know what guys think. what should i do to make her know that guys dont think shes ugly?

hmm...well she obviously doesn't believe you so you have to find someone else (a guy) that thinks she's pretty and then maybe she'll believe it...xoxo!

[view]

I am 14 and I'm in the 8th grade and my best friend in 13 and in the 7th and one of her friends are like always hanging around her and I can stand her friend shes loud and annoying and I tell her to calm down and all but she wont and whe nmy friend in around her friend she acts stupid like her and all and I cant stop hanging out with my friend so like what should I do

hey! you should tell your best friend that you need to talk to her about something that's been getting on your nerves. You should tell her in person! she's your best friend so hopefully she'll understand how you feel about her and her friend...♥

[view]

Geez.. can somebody please explain to me how to do the 1,2 step! i get comfuzed :-[ lol

lol um... just watch the video a couple times and if u still can't get it then maybe try recording it and practice!...♥

[view]

hi i love my mom but every day she always yells at me for no reson like if i write sloppy. and she loves to get me in trouble with my dadi need some help what can i do to be a better daghter.


:~( :~(

haha my mom's like that too EVERYDAY! i think that's how all moms are. You should talk to her about it or like go out somewhere with her and spend time with her...♥

[view]

Hi, there is this guy i like and i've heard t hat he likes me too and might ask me out. One tme when i was walking by and i heard his friend say "Comon ____, go ask her" loud enuff so i would hear it..and the friend started pushing him toward me. This sort of thing has happened for a days now...like the guy i like would come over and then look at me and walk away, its pretty cute. I wanna start talkin to hjim so maybe it wud give him some courage to ask me..(if that's what he is intending to do)Any tips of what i should do?thanks

Just be yourself around him...start a convo; Hey, what's up..you know but don't be shy!...♥

[view]

Okay hey
well, I have this really big crush on my chorus teacher. and this isnt one of those eww god these ppl have problems kind of things so dont think that. But anyways. im 16 and he is 26. He is really really cute and he is just so sweet and funny, and REALLY flirtatious. A lot of my friends see that. I even tlak to this guy online and stuff. and he blocks EVERYONE unless they are on his buddylist, and he put me on it. Anyways... I think about him non stop. And if i have a problem, then he is always there to help me out with it and everything. and if i am faking a guy problem thing, then he is always there to help me out. A lot of my friends say that they seriously with no doubt in their minds, think that he likes me but he just wont say or do anything becasue of his job. And everyday it seems to get more and more serious about him. And now he's all telling me to stop hanging out with my friends and everything becase they are bad influences( he said this after i asked him to help me with singing lessons) and that felt like soemthing a bf would do. And i would do anything in the world for this guy and its really serious... What do i do?
-Shakenya

hmm...toughy! my friend had a really big crush on one her teacher once and she looked up where he lives, his phone number etc... anywayz, the best thing to do but i know it's going to be hard is seriously just get over him. I mean he's your teacher and he can get in sooo much trouble if anyone caught you guyz doin anything...so ya try to get over him...♥

[view]

I've been going out with this guy for about 1 month and a half. He cusses me out every once in a while for stupid reasons. But other days hes as sweet as can be. 3 of my friends say I should break up with him, but I love him a lot. Today, when school was out, he seen me and stayed like 50 feet from me and wouldn't even come over and talk to me. It's like he always trys to ignore me. It's just weird how he can be nice one day and an ass the next..whats wrong? Is it hom or me? What should I do? Should I listen to my friends? Or stay with him?? I really love this guy though!! 14/f/tn

You should talk to him about it cuz obviously you don't wanna break-up and you really like him so ya call him up and tell him what's been goin on..♥

[view]

I think I need to get over this guy. I've liked this boy for a really long time and we have went out before and we have done stuff. But the thing is he always likes me obsessively and then stops talking to me for a while, then over and over and over again. I'm pretty much sick of it but I think everytime he comes around I like him more and become more attached. I like sooooo much but I don't think I need this. How do I just get over him? Everytime I really try and start to really do, that's when he comes back to me and catches me again. There is no way I can really just stop him or stop myself from liking him. Anyone have any ideas? Thanks

hey babez, come on if you really LOVE him then be with him!! if your really tryna get over him then kinda like forget about him or i mean like try to get away from him for awhile...see what happens then and if u still in love with him then GET WIT HIM!-xoxo

[view]

Ok.. hi. See me & my sister are like 9 years apart, she's 23 & I'm 14. She is always talkin bout how I shouldn't be mean to her, but she used to ditch me for her friends & crap. Ok, well, she's all of a sudden wanted to be "sisters" and I'm just like, no. She's all whiny & she's babyish. It really gets on my nerves but, when I wanna spend time with her she's always "busy". Ok well we have alot in common but she wont open up to me & tell me about her problems. She goes & tells mom (BIG mistake). Then mother goes & tells daddy & they talk about her so bad. I dont know what to do! I know I don't like her sometimes but hey, she's my sister. Please help!!

hey hey!! You should tell your sister how you feel about her and how you guys never spend time together when you want to. Also, tell her that you want to talk to her about stuff and that you want her to tell you her problems instead of telling your mom or w/e...hope things work out!-lyl

[view]

I like this boy a lot, I haven't told anyone about liking him. I talk about him to my best friends quite often but I'm just like eww...I'd never like him. He is always like aww look your so cute and he calls me his 'little kid'. That's because I am soo much shorter than him. He always picks me up and carrys me places and when I see him in the hall he's like hey cutie, sweetie, little kid, babe...whatever he picks that day and he like hugs me. But this one time we were just standing in the hall together and he's like what about if you and me went to the movies...and then to dinner or something. And this girl in his class told me she was like aww don't mess with Mahryah when you don't mean it...it's not nice. And she said he said but I do wanna go somewhere she's just so cute. And he always tells me he loves me and is always touching me and stuff. I don't know if he just thinks I'm cute in a little way or what. I don't know if I want to tell my friends either...

hey gurlie! well do u like the guy? If you do then go for it he really likes you. i mean atleast just go to the movies or w/e and see how he is and then you can make your decision.-luv yaz!

[view]

hey im 14 and im male, i really like two girls at my school equally and i heard they both like me but i dont wanna choose one cuz then the other would get angry and im friends with them so i dont wanna lose a friend/friends what should i do?

aww that sux! I think you should just pick one! i mean come on you have to like one of them more then the other! or just be really good friends with both of them and tell them your sorry. good luck!!-xoxo

[view]

For the past while i have been cutting myself. At first it was just scratches and then i started cutting deeper and deeper. I am really scared and I don't want to talk to my parents, they have enough to worry about, so is there anyway i can break the habit and just stop...and please don't answer if you are just going to poke fun at me and mock me. I don't need that. Only post if you can help me.

hey! first..why are you cutting yourself? problems with friends/family what? please don't hurt yourself again. I think you should spend time with your friends/sibs and not be alone because then you'll think about doing it again and you shouldn't!! Just try to think positive about things and don't get mad at stuff just be like whatever...well i hope you stop that habit! luv yaz!

[view]

My sister is soo anyoing and so mean to me what should i do?

hey! well i think you should just hang out with her sometime and ask her why she is mean to you? You guys just need some time together.

[view]

hey i'm a female and i'm 14 yrs old and here my problem well theres a guy that i really,really,really like and i dont know if he knows how much i like him.well, my friend has him for 6 period and he tells him stuff about me and then the guy tells him about him and so far he been cool with it,but theres somethings i haven't got clear in my head well here are 3 examples well the first one is people tell me or some of my friends he has a gf and his friends say he doesn't and i don't know who to believe.the second example is that he looks at me like in the creepy way but when he is alone but when he is with his friends he doesn'.the third example is sooo stupid my friend did the stupidest thing ever well she knows how to draw really good well we were in 5th period and we were passing notes talking about him and i ask her to try to draw him and she did it and it look like him alot and every time we get out of 5th period we go to 6th period and we always see him and i ask her to show it to him to see if he though it look like him well my really stupid friend gave it to him saying i drew it!! i was so mad all this happened friday december 3,2004 and now its monday december 6,2004 and i didn't go to school cuz i'm soo wierded out and i don't know what he may say to his friend or my friends.so i really need advice should i tell him how a feel and it wasn't me who drew that pic?

singed confused and shy,

Yes i think you should tell him how u feel because you never know he might have feelings for you too... you should ask one of his guy friends if he really has a gurl and if he does i mean still tell him how u feel don't keep it inside forever...and about the picture yes i think you should tell him the truth you didn't draw it your friend did i don't think he'll make a big deal about it!...luv yaz tell me what happens..

[view]

Well I have this friend. He is really nice and I can be honest with him about almost everything. The problem is there is this one thing I'm not sure I can be honest about.He thinks my other friend (one of my bestestest friends) likes him. I asked her if she really did and she said no. I know I have to tell him so he doesn't get hurt by asking her or something but I don't know how. Any tips on how to break it to him? Should I really tell him? I'll rate high. Unless youranswer doesn't help at all. If you don't have anything to say to help please don't answer. Thank you.

hey gurlie!well does he like her?? if he does i think you should ask your bf if she can hang out with him and then make up her mind. if he doens't then i think you should just tell him straight up that u know i'm sorry but she doesn't like you...

[view]

I broke up with my boyfriend Saturday. I thought I only liked him as a friend, but now that I am without him, I realise I really miss him and like him. I think since we barely hang out, I started liking him less. He cried when we broke up. I hope he doesn't hate me. I am going to talk to him tomorrow if I see him before he goes to practice. I want to go back out with him. I was PMSing, so I guess that screwed up with my emotions. What should I say to him to clear this all up and so we can get back together? I'm really bad at doing this, but I want this to work out. Help..can you give me an example on what to say?

hey babe, aww that sucks. i think you should talk to him about it and tell him your really sorry about the whole thing and ask him if he wants to start over. Also tell him how you feel inside..u really miss him.. i hope you get back with him, xoxo!

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker