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I was supposed to get a root canal in about 3 days and i already waited about a month and 1/2 and the days after the root canal i have alot of important things to do (in person) like dinner and stuff and i was wondering if it would bother anything or make anything worse/ unrepairable if i waited another month? (link)
it doesnt hurt your out in an hour and able to eat what you want


i need advice, when i sit down a smell something from my vagina,it smells horrible and when i urinate it smells bad, and when i wipe my self i see dirt. i think it's because i might be dirty but it cant be because i tok a bath 2 weeks ago. also when i scratch my neck there's dirt in my finger nails, what is this? what should i do? (link)
good thing us guys dont care we mostly take baths every2 days personally we dont give a damn how we smell unless we are queer but women please take a damn bath everyday its to damn funky for you not to


Hey, im 16f. I was wondering if anyone knows of an online dating site that is monitered and safe for teens where I could possibly meet someone and feel safe knowing im not talking to some fake across the internet. You know? Please tell me if you know of any ;) (link)
i've been literally on hundreds of dating sites none work i was talking to someone on one and they gave me their email and i was smart enough to google it and it was on a warning site for guys telling us its a man tryin to steal info.


Hi, ok so i am a 20 year old female, and i just found out im pregnant. i know who the father is. we have been together going on 3 months. i used to love him but dont really love him anymore. we have many issues and just dont seem to work very well anymore. he loves me to death, and i know he does. he wants to be with me and spend his life with me.. but i dont.. and the issue is.. so im pregnant now. but i dont want to stay with him. he wants to move in together.. be there for me and be the father... be involved in everything. and i have no problem with him being involved.. but i dont want to live with him or be with him.. and i dont know how to tell him. i have tried but he doesnt listen.. and there is more.. and bigger issues.... im not from here (the usa) i am from mexico. i always had plans to go back home (mexico) but things always came up and so i wasnt able to go home. and now im pregnant. but i dont want to stay here.. i want to go back home and be with my family and friends..but its so wrong leaving.. because he is the father and he has a right to be in this babies life.. but i dont want to stay in the USA.. and there isnt a way for him to go to mexico.. he says he can.. but i dont want him living with me at my house.. he doesnt speak spansh so wont be able to work... so no way to pay for all his expenses for him and for our child.. i dont know what to do... =/ if i stay here im leaving my family and friends and my life.. and not going to be happy at all.. i dislike it here so much and dont want to be here.. but if i go home (mexico) im taking him away from his child which is wrong so much... i have no idea what to do.... =( (link)
first off if mexicans can come here and not know a lick of english and get by he can get along great there. also just sit him down and hi you have to holler as loud as you can let him know your serious but let him know you want him involved.you say you dont love him but you know you will always care about him besides you cant love someone for 3 months thats a crush or just caring.

but either way its your decision we cant make your mind up for you we can just help you along


i dont know what to do. i really like this guy but he has a gf named Kayla and i have my 1st hour with him and we play around and giggle and he tickles me sumtimes. but he gave me a ride home one day(the first time) and he asked for me to give him head. and i told him no but since then he has been acting differ but he says he still likes me and that it was juss a reason for him to break up with his gf to be with me.
but then he wrote me a note 2 days ago saying that he doesnt know about if we would work out cause he thinks im not over my ex but yet im COMPLETELY over him. i REALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLy like him alot still.

what should i do?

-->AShlEY(: (link)
I'm in love with a married woman.i know i can't do anything about it she flirts with me and its hard to tell her no even if she is unhappily married she wont tell me but i read posts she puts on yahoo.

what i'm saying is dont be like me use your head you know whats good for you if he is wrong for you and that was ll he wonted you will know but just give er a go


I have 3 children ages 6,2, and 4 weeks. This morning I was taking a nap with my newborn in his bassinet next to the bed. "Grandma" was supposed to be watching my 2 yr old daughter. I had woken suddenly hearing the baby cry, and realized the baby was not in his bassinet. I immediately knew something was wrong and called my daughters name and ran to where I heard the baby crying. My daughter had dropped her brother on a pile of laundry and ran to a corner when I called her name (she knows she isn't supposed to be anywhere near the baby without supervision). It turned out "Grandma" has fallen asleep watching TV, instead of watching my daughter. My daughter has picked up the baby by herself multiple times without out us even hearing, she does it very sneaky. She knows its wrong, but I can't seem to make her understand she can severely injure or even kill her baby brother. She has her own baby dolls we got her to play with, but she ignores them and wants to play with the real baby. Any advice please? This is very scary, it had me in a panic almost in tears. (link)
dont bitch at grandmaw she's older than you and deserves sleep but so do you and yes i dont htink your 2 year old wants to hurt her but its sometihng about a baby little kids love dont matter if they are 2 or 8 my little brother is 8 and he used to love to try to grab a baby and play with it but he would sometimes drop it even with adults helping.

also a daycare would be a good choice


i dont think this is really in the right category, but i didnt know where to put it so anyways... I was just wondering what guys think is the perfect bra size. (link)
we all are different like me i like b's and c's no bigger though


Two and a half years ago I met a guy who became my best friend, or so i thought. We ended up liking eachother and went out for 2 years. He was always sad before we went out and i always felt bad and tried everything to help him. He would lie to me about everything and make up situations he was in. After 6 months he payed no attention to me and i cheated on him ever since he has been making me feel horrible. He would emotionaly abuse me then he started to hit me a lot. I was in an abusive relationship but he only started to be mean to me when his dad wentto jails and he went through a lot. I was there for him through everything but he was never there for me. Everyone told me he loves me so much but he would try making me jealous i was in a very unhealthy relationship. he watched his brother hit me annd did nothing the neighbors called the cops i havnt talked to him since i have a restraining order on him then he got one on me. His family didnt care that they hit me,they are trying to press charges on me they made up a story that i hit his mom when i ever did. After all that i have dreams about him every night I miss him so much and wish we could work everything out even though we never worked anything out. I wish he would change and get away from his horrible family I wish we could be together without the abuse and his family. We have been going to court a lot against eachother im only 18 and he was my first and only love i miss him and dont knopw what to do im still pressing charges because they need to learn they cant get away with everything but i want him to change (link)
stockholm syndrome its where you care for your abuser/or person that holding you hostage.

no its not wrong for you to love him its sad you want to be with him but like the person below me said he isnt a man when he hits you he must be small and scrawny and hitting a woman makes the girl feel manly


Hey there fellow advicenators :) this is flirty. So, if you guys haven't seen my pic on my column, I am chubby. Ok... excessively chubby LOL. But I want to lose some weight, preferably some around the belly, in a healthy manner. What are some nutritional tips? And exercise wise? Details would be greatly appreciated. Take care and thanks in advance for those who take the time :)

If it helps im 17/f my height is 5'4 and i don't wanna give out my weight but just know its on the heavy side lol (link)
first off go to this bmi calculator it tells how your weight is ajusted along with your height
http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/



this is going along to the first answer

again there is this drug called alli it cuts fat intake in half but for it to work you have to cut your fat eating in half but you cant stop completely eating fat so it helps you loose weight easier without putting a strain on you.what i'm saying is you can work off fat on your own time


For a while now i have notice that i have a lump inbetween my vaginal opening and the anus. the lump is more to the side, under the outer labia. its hard to explain the location. But anyway, has anyone ever heard of this? Its shape is about the size of my finger print. It has no redness, it is not painfull, it is just a simple lump. Its colour is the same colour as the rest of my body. it doesn't feel like there is anything in it. it has never bothered me, i just would like to know what it it. i have looked it up on the internet and it seems like no one else in the world has ever experienced this. Should i be worried about it?Any answers or suggestions are appresiated.
Thanks. (link)
i had a cyst on my shoulder and the doc told me as long as it moves its alright but if its it hard and stationary it's time to worry so even though where it is i believe it is a cyst and as long as you can move it dont worry but again it being where it is just go to get it checked to make sure


okay so I've been with my boyfriend for quite some time and I really love him and he loves me too and I know he does because we've been together for like a year. well he fingers me many time and I love it but we never had sex yet. he makes me feel great by the stuff he does but what should I do to make him feel good as well? I don't wanna suck on his penis because I'm not that type. what should I do to make him feel good ? (link)
hand job like a blowjob feels as good


i'm 16 years old & i've pretty much been the same bra size my whole life. in 7th grade i was a 32a and then went up to a 34a in 8th grade.. but that's it. i've tried on a 32b and even a 36a and i can't fit into them. i just feel like i'm growing out of puberty but my breasts arent. they have been the same for the past 4 years and i feel really weird about it. my family is not known for small breasts.. they range from large b's to mostly c's and d's. i dont know what is wrong with me. ive been getting my period since i was about 11 and it has always been irregular. most of the time i get it between a week or two late. i dont know if this has anything to do with it but regardless of that i just feel like my breasts should have grown into at least a size or two larger by now .. helppp? (link)
Don't worry its normal not every girl develops at the same time or even develop the same just forget about it get it off your mind also its normal to worry about things like this




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