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Q: ok so i like my friend named jake and like he knows it and stuff and like i went out with this guy and tried to make him jelous and yeah well like this summer he hasnt been like talking to me or anything like we just got off the phone and we were on for 45 min but he was just talking to me about his summer and stuff and making me all jelious cause he was like o chelsea(chelsea is jakes little sisters friend) asked me out and i didnt wanna be rood so i said yeah and (stuff so i started to cry but he didnt no and stuff soo the whole time he was just talking and stuff i was pissed off and hes supposed to come sleep over on friday and like yeah i dunno wut to say and o yeah hes like call me later cause im getting tired so i was like ok and hes like call me later or in like a couple of day so i just hung up on him and said wut ever in the middle of the school year he asked me out and i ddint feel it at the time so i said no and then like now he says yes to everyone cause he doesnt want to make them feel bad so yeah and i have asked him out seveal times and he said that he only thinks of me as a friend so yeah and yeah so my 4 questions are 1.like is he doing this like making me jelious and stuff maybe cuz he likes me? 2. wut do you think i should do to try and get him to like me? 3. what so i do on friday like flirt and stuff or ignore him and make him mad by flirting right him frount of him?
4. do i confrount him about the saying yes to everyone but me and stuff like wut do i do to make him not feel this way?!! HELP!!

Hey there,

I'm going to be blunt. The whole world doesn't revolve around you, so for question number 1, no I don't think he's trying to make you jealous. And he said he only thought of you as a friend.

You can't make anyone like you, and you've already tried to make him jealous, and did that work? No...

Question 3, I think you should talk to him, there's more than 1 way to get a guy to like you, you should try to talk to him get to know him better, maybe he'll start to like you, flirt SOME, not alot because you don't want to freak him out

and question 4, the best way I think you should confront him, is through email or instant messanger. It's alot easier, trust me. =] Good luck!

♥Paige

Q: My boyfriend cheated on me one week after we got together. Now I have taken him back (about 2 weeks after he cheated on me). All of my friends thinks it's a misstake but I believe in second chaces and I like this guy...All advicenators out there do you believe in the term- "once a cheater, always a cheater"??
Was it a big misstake to take him back, should I dump him for what he did to me?

Hey there,
Normally, I'd say go for it, but, if you're friends think that it's a bad idea aswell, i think you guys should just be friends. Because if he's already cheated on you, i think he'll cheat again, and just think of all the pain you'd be saving yourself from. =] Good luck!

♥ Paige

Q: Whenever I'm not with my boyfriend I'm happy. And when I'm on my way to see him I think to my self "why didn't I cancel? Why am I going to see him. I don't want to see him!"
But when I do meet him and when I'm with him, I like it and I want to be with him. But then When I have to go I get happy for leaving him!
What's that all about?? Don't I like him? Is it somethig wrong with me??

Sweetie, there's nothing wrong with you! don't ever think that! What i think is, sub concienly ((whoops, bad speller!)) that you're feeling regrets or you just don't like him anymore. If you keep feeling this way, I think you should break up with him, because it's going to hurt you more if you stay with him. =] Good luck!

♥Paige

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Hey everyone! My name is Paige and I'm 13 years old. I love to play volleyball, My team and I were regional champions. My teams name was the ECJVC Golddiggers. I also played for my school, the AGC Raiders, who are the Pitt County Champs. I am also a very talented person. Volleyball ofcourse, I play the viola ((it's a bit bigger than a violin)) and this upcoming year I get to go to All-State. I have been to Florida to play and I'm returning this year to play again. I'm also a very smart girl. I have a average over a 95 percential and I'm straight A's. I love giving advice, my friend's always come to me to ask me questions and to complain, so I can pretty much answer anything just write me and I'll promise to get to you! If you have any questions whatsoever, I'm your girl!

♥Paige